Mindfulness:


You don't need to educate me on anything. I have not spoken for or against plastic surgery. You were the one having a problem with those who disagreed with you. And whether you like plastic surgery or not is not the point here but you and your sweetheart are free to go for it when you fail to get him up. cheers!

MrBrownJay1:


Again, the issue at hand is deflated Tittays, not erectile dysfunction, nor the type of oloshos men gladly lay with....stick to the issue at hand!



Sadly, the difference here is that the majority of these married women with husbands with hideous bodies would gladly be miserable for the rest of their natural lives, being mounted by these monstrosity they now call husband, while men would not even mount their hideous wives any longer and just get themselves a new wife, or get some sugarbaby to take care of them, and ultimately get their sexual groove back.

Men and women view sex differently, we feel/need sex differently.... Expecting both to deal with such issue the same way, will have women fail time and time again.

MrBrownJay1:


Ok you are the one who seems to be focussing on the plastic surgery part, while all along my issue has been WOMEN EXPECTING MEN TO STILL BE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THEM, EVEN WIH DEFLATED CHEST.

ZIMDRILL:


getting a new wife is never the solution, if the overweighty or soggy breast is the only issue

this what i have seen in african, being overweight is celebrated as sign of good leaving, especially gaining weight after marriage then some customs fat feed girls to overweight before she officially marries the husband (i dont see the point of doing it when we know that she wasnt like that naturally )

some of these things comes with age, the older yoy get the more you realise that there is more to life, marriage and love

Mindfulness:


You have no issue with men expecting women to remain the same after child birth? If I got the OP correctly, he said his wife had a double dd. Her boobs would become saggy even without child birth. No rocket science. Anyway. For better, for worse.

Elder0001:


You lack wisdom

MrBrownJay1:


Why should there be an issue if a man wants his woman to be as he met her.....now men shouldn't expect wifey to be the same RIGHT AFTER CHILDBIRTH, but she certainly should do her best to get back to normal...if she doesn't then sexual attraction will be affected, thus sex at home will be different, and just a matter of time before family life affected.

YES double DDs would sag regardless, but that's irrelevant to the issue at hand. When he met her they were full and plump, and that's what made their sex life exciting and desirable.we certainly can't expect deflated chest to bring the exact same reaction here.

bamirotola:


If I don't love her I won't be here looking for solution..I am sure she's not proud of how it is herself.. I don't know how to tell her my concern not to make her feel bad!

MrBrownJay1:


Why should there be an issue if a man wants his woman to be as he met her.....now men shouldn't expect wifey to be the same RIGHT AFTER CHILDBIRTH, but she certainly should do her best to get back to normal...if she doesn't then sexual attraction will be affected, thus sex at home will be different, and just a matter of time before family life affected.

YES double DDs would sag regardless, but that's irrelevant to the issue at hand. When he met her they were full and plump, and that's what made their sex life exciting and desirable.we certainly can't expect deflated chest to bring the exact same reaction here.

bamirotola:



Thanks to all the advise here....and bro thanks for understanding me well....I just hope most ladies learn to read content with full understanding before being vindictive with their comment.

I love my wife well and can never love her less .. Who knows if she's not personally happy with d breast as most ladies here ain't comfy with dia breast saggy

I asked for solution options and WC surgery being part of it... I even asked for herbal remedy! But vindictive touts here won't see that!

Of course I intend discussing it with her! ..

Thanks y'll once again for the advise I appt ..

Yuceeluv:
you're a funny man. If you knew her personally, then I wud've considered your opinion...you're comparing a 'picture' to real life?...okay.

Plus, do you know how many this and that 'lifts' she must've undergone?...asides from the fact that,she is wearing a pushup bra?

...the bone of contention here is, 'BREAST'....not 'WEIGHT'.

Mindfulness:


Not everyone who can afford plastic surgery does plastic surgery. I can afford plastic surgery but I want no silicone in my organism. Have you got a problem with that? And because I wear make-up I have to have my body cut open for someone else's se*xual gratification? For you to even compare wigs to surgeries shows that your emotions are taking hold of the better part of you.

darlenese:
dear lord.

in my next life I want to be a MAN , but not a stupid egocentric selfish MAN.


nature is not being fair to women
men are not being fair to women.

after a woman gives birth her husband wants her body to be perfect isn't this enough to cause depression .


2 months after I had my first child, my brother inlaw asked me why I had a big tummy , I haven't forgiven till today, some people can be very disgusting

Mindfulness:


They grow pot bellies for no reason at all but gluttony and will come and tell you to have your body cut open so that you remain f*ckable to them. And they will compare it to make-up and wigs because surgeries are not painful and leave no scars behind, there are also no risks involved.

uboma:




Asides from the push-up bra, her breasts looks more silicones than the real deal.

darlenese:
dear lord.

in my next life I want to be a MAN , but not a stupid egocentric selfish MAN.


nature is not being fair to women
men are not being fair to women.

after a woman gives birth her husband wants her body to be perfect isn't this enough to cause depression .


2 months after I had my first child, my brother inlaw asked me why I had a big tummy , I haven't forgiven till today, some people can be very disgusting

bamirotola:
Hello medical experts on nairaland, my wife gave birth to my first child less than 2 years ago, but since she weaned her, her breast has become incredibly flaccid...

I am a fan of petite round breast and flaccid is a turn off for me...

I love her and I don't want that to be a barrier as it is affecting our sex life .

Plz what can she do to put the breast back in shape?

I don't want to loose her, how can I help return d breast back in shape...

Flaccid breast has been my fear even before I got married that why I naturally fell in love with petite boobs max 34dd.

Ladies plz don't judge me, I need medical expert to help my marriage!!

Thank you!!

frozen70:


I understand how you feel about it and decides to share it with us

Given birth to a child from conception to delivery changes somany things in a woman's body

Thank God that it became flaccid due to breast feeding no that it just happened

Embrace your self to the work of nature

The only option is suggery

But before you think of that consider if you still wan more kids or you are ok with just one

Consider the cost and the affect effects

Consider your wife too if she starts feeling bad about your worries and it starts affecting her hormones which in turn will affect her egg production

Would you had wanted her to have a pointed breast but not being able to carry pregnancy,

Would you have being more worried that she wasn't able to carry pregnancy as you are worried she bow has a sag boob

Boobs are elasticatng, it streaches with pregnancy and age

Relax your self, be happy and fundle those boobs to stimulate her, those boobs are still as sensitive as you met it

Even you a time will come because of age you might not get quick erection to have great sex unless you use an enhancing drugs, all she would do at that time is to cooperate with you because nature is doing his job

Your major concern is to satisfy her, sag boobs or no sag boobs

No matter how firm a boob is, it will get sagged one day

Enjoy yourselves

Originalsly:
@ OP..... I guess you expected your wife to remain the same physically until the end of time. Since you sooo feared flaccid breasts.... why didn't you buy canssss of baby formula to encourage your wife to stop breast feeding very early?....why wait until the baby sucked her dry dry?......or did you believe after weaning...her breasts will pop up back to as before?
Not in the medical field....but even if you have to.....close your eyes and pretend they are the size you want them to be.... your mouth can do a whole lot of revival...but should you withdraw...they shall wither away.
On implants......forget that one period.....you will not get what you expect...and it will be risking her health...and maybe life. Accept the change.....keep the fire burning.

Chelseafan1:


Bro, after child birth, is it possible for the wife not to breast feed at all so that it won't sag, if yes? What will happen to the milk in her breast, won't it affect her negatively and again, if the child isn't breastfed at all, won't it affect him later in the future?

Cc Ifyalways...i won't allow my wife go thru surgery but I'm thinking of ways to make the breast stay attractive after giving birth to my intended two kids.

My wife must remain hot for me. I am determined to help her.

MrBrownJay1:


But bro, the main issue here is that most of these women are saying that a man MUST be attracted to his wife with deflated breast, and live with it, by fire or by force, whether he likes it or not.... While this is arrant nonsense!
Yes this man should still love his wife, but he can't help to change the signals his brain is sending down his pants. If the brain is not stimulated and aroused by the sight of beautiful curves, Tittays and ass, how is he gonna mount good old deflated breast wifey?!

Sadly the majority here either already have deflated breast due to childbirth, or know it's eventually coming....so they really believe that their men should accept them the way they are/will become. Which we all know it's a damn LIE!

Chelseafan1:


Bro, after child birth, is it possible for the wife not to breast feed at all so that it won't sag, if yes? What will happen to the milk in her breast, won't it affect her negatively and again, if the child isn't breastfed at all, won't it affect him later in the future?

Cc Ifyalways...i won't allow my wife go thru surgery but I'm thinking of ways to make the breast stay attractive after giving birth to my intended two kids.

My wife must remain hot for me. I am determined to help her.