Ok

Shibaraba:
Sharp guy. There must be something he is looking for in that family. E be like say the family gather dough because no be only them get towtow na.

Anyway congrats in advance. Hope say you get tolerance

AND WETIN BE "TOWTOW"?

virago:
I find it hard to believe that the parents will agree to this , the story looks cooked. Which father would agree to give his older daughter away to the same man who just got dumped by his younger daughter , makes no sense at all , and maybe he never had sex with the younger daughter , just maybe

Lol, maybe the family want to "marry" off the senior sister, anyways dude isn't very smart if this story is true and the sister if not in tandem with the jnr one is a terrible person

virago:
I find it hard to believe that the parents will agree to this , the story looks cooked. Which father would agree to give his older daughter away to the same man who just got dumped by his younger daughter , makes no sense at all , and maybe he never had sex with the younger daughter , just maybe

U r correct. The story is cooked, it doesnt add up in anyway.

Life is short!

MrBrownJay1:
This man will never see his 1st year marriage anniversary before he dies in mysterious circumstances. This man AND the sista are evil!!! So you date a babe, and when she can't marry you, you settle for the big sista?!?! And she agrees to your nonsense?!

But if parents didn't want younger sista to marry this particular dude, why was it ok for old cargo sista to marry him then?!

to be honest with you...many ibo ladies are still single because of these tribal thing.
I asked a lady I was getting to love...out and for us to start planning for marriage...
she is 25...she turned me down sighting she don't want an Edo man for a husband...
I just jeje walka pass...

if I should any of her relative or sister...probably we relate well and friends...
do you think I will hesitate not to marry her...
close to 4 ibo ladies have refused me...sighting they don't wanna marry non-ibos one will be 30 next year.

Clearly the guy wants to settle down... He is tired of "dating".

daddio:


AND WETIN BE "TOWTOW"?

Na "Oshodi Isale" be Towtow.

na2016:


U r correct. The story is cooked, it doesnt add up in anyway.

forget it...many ladies especially from the east do this a lot...
they often turn down non-ibo guys on the guise that their parents won't bless the marriage and don't want non-ibos.
one thing u should know...is that if a guy or lady really wanna settle down with you... regardless of your tribe...he/she can fight for parents approval.
I have been able to talk my mom out of these tribal thing...and she now see reason with me...

Okoyeeebos:


Na "Oshodi Isale" be Towtow.

Hmm

I dey waka pass

Na only me waka com, make I jus dey go

The end of the movie go tough gan.

Humility017:


forget it...many ladies especially from the east do this a lot...
they often turn down non-ibo guys on the guise that their parents won't bless the marriage and don't want non-ibos.
one thing u should know...is that if a guy or lady really wanna settle down with you... regardless of your tribe...he/she can fight for parents approval.
I have been able to talk my mom out of these tribal thing...and she now see reason with me...

Humility, have u really read the story? He said the parent refused to allow the girl marry him n that was the reason for the girl's decision cos of tribe. Now y are the same parents accepting this guy? If this is true which i doubt, i sense problem in future.
I like ur moniker.

clevvermind:
what is he looking for in that family? and why did the elder sister accepted the dude when she knows what was on ground before?

English hard joor

Curvinus:
This guy is ugly and insecure and is seeking validation at all cost, albeit in the wrong quarters. But as posters above have said, it will surely end in tears.

He should have taken the hint the first time the ex rejected him, but it seems he's hell bent on pursuing an agenda and this agenda is driven by nothing but insecurity. His actions bear the hallmark of a pathetic little man and it is no surprise the ex turned down his proposal.

I see he is trying to justify his actions, not even giving a care about the emotional hurt he is causing the ex and such insensitivity can only come from a place of lack. He is a weak man with very limited options and I'm sure he knows and feels this in his inner recesses.

Funny enough, it seems he is willing to risk everything in order to spite his ex and maybe feel wanted, but this is a dangerous game he is playing. he could be setting himself up for something that may end up consuming him and the happiness that he seeks.

Let the guy be. Didn't Jacob marry two sisters? Haven't brothers dated and some even married each other's eyes?

Let the guy be.

lefulefu:
its weird marrying the sister of ur ex.u don nack ur ex and u want to nack her elder sister
tufiakwa

Do you think everyone is like you or better still thinks like you ?

meobizy:
The man has sense. This is the surest way to ensure he impregnates the original female.
Women have fish brains, treat their close friend/relative(s) nice and they’ll come back crawling like dogs in heat.

Twale baba, tiri gbosa. Bar man give him a chilled bottle of Origin. Guy Man wey sabi, All said.

the guy just de lie... this never happen, i know the guy


attention seeker

na2016:


Humility, have u really read the story? He said the parent refused to allow the girl marry him n that was the reason for the girl's decision cos of tribe. Now y are the same parents accepting this guy? If this is true which i doubt, i sense problem in future.
I like ur moniker.

nah I get...probably I didn't read through very well...thanks for the clarification..
thought the lady refused him because of his tribe....
well I don't support his move in this light...
but if it is true....the family are naughty just like the guy....

they will end up raising lot of spinsters in that family.
don't know why some Yoruba and ibo families are these tribal.

anyway.... probably just a cooked story above....

Sleeping with two sister is a curse ,so curse is already upon ur head bro. Don't think u are smart or wise

na2016:


Humility, have u really read the story? He said the parent refused to allow the girl marry him n that was the reason for the girl's decision cos of tribe. Now y are the same parents accepting this guy? If this is true which i doubt, i sense problem in future.
I like ur moniker.

thanks for the compliment Bro...

Another perspectives, what if the two sisters are from a Family with wealth like Dangote's and his 2019 resolution na to make money. Baby go chop money and drop the sister last then two ge four

Nobe now Wey love de shak u.

His ex will be regretting now, but she has no choice then to allow them wed peacefully.

MrBrownJay1:
This man will never see his 1st year marriage anniversary before he dies in mysterious circumstances. This man AND the sista are evil!!! So you date a babe, and when she can't marry you, you settle for the big sista?!?! And she agrees to your nonsense?!

But if parents didn't want younger sista to marry this particular dude, why was it ok for old cargo sista to marry him then?!

Cool ur temper boy because your curse is inconsequential. The younger girl rejected him and consequently broke his heart. Why allow a guy date u for 5 good years when u know ur parents won't accept him? You see? Don't u think the girl was lying? Why did same parents allow same man to marry their daughter? Is it not possible that the younger girl was simply not interested anymore and decided to make tribe an issue?

As for the sister accepting the proposal. You have to deal with the fact that they are both adults and have right to their choices.

davecris:
his story is not adding up at all. Same parents who refused him cos he's not igbo now accepted him. Doesn't make sense.

NO, it was the lady that was claiming that her parent will not allow her marry a non igbo.
A complicated story though, but the lady herself maybe double dating, if not, why didnt she aproach her parent before turning the guy down on tribal excuse

Nothing new.

Prince Charles had a romantic affair with Princess Diana's elder sister (Sarah) b4 he married Diana.

It happened in 1977. This is 2018.

The younger sister should take several seats.

My guy,that can only happen because you are not as rich as Nigeria senators or Governors,i believe if u are oyinbo man she will force her self on you,with out the knowledge of her parent,for God sake,how will you sleep with a lady for 5years,getting to the point of married her,is now you are saying is not your tribe or her parent,at this point we need to change a lot of our culture,it is wrong,that is why you see a lot of unmarried ladies every where.

There's nothing wrong, maybe the family toto is sweet
#quote me not

victorian:
At the end something must kill a man.

He's only digging his own grave.

When dog refuse to hear master whistle, it ends up in the pot of another master.

Enjoy while it last

Happy birthday baby

G1STM0RE:
Nigerian man set to marry elder sister of his ex-girlfriend of 5 years who turned down his proposal.

"Dated a girl for 5 years, proposed to her but she said NO simply because her parents won't allow a non Igbo marry their daughter

I moved on to ask her elder sister to marry me and I got a big YES!

My ex is now threatening fire and brimstone but we've fixed the dates anyway" He wrote

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this is a disaster waiting to happen

1 lets say they marry and life goes well for the married couple, the chances of the young sister being jeolousy is high and might make stories to break them up

2 what type of parents would feel comfortible with son in law who once dated the other sister for 5 years

3 who said Yes ? lets say the young sister said the truth about parents not approving marriage out her tribe, so the older sister said Yes but still the parent would say NO

4 the sisters who proper rivals, if the younger sister would be married eventually both might try out do each other trying to prove each other's husband is better

MrBrownJay1:
This man will never see his 1st year marriage anniversary before he dies in mysterious circumstances. This man AND the sista are evil!!! So you date a babe, and when she can't marry you, you settle for the big sista?!?! And she agrees to your nonsense?!

But if parents didn't want younger sista to marry this particular dude, why was it ok for old cargo sista to marry him then?!

did the parent reject him or the girl?