Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,198,330 members, 7,967,855 topics. Date: Sunday, 06 October 2024 at 10:42 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) (672690 Views)
10 Myths About Introverts / Strictly Extroverts Whatsapp Group / 5 Things Every Extrovert Should Know About Introverts (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (174) (175) (176) (177) (178) (179) (180) ... (301) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 10:34am On Jan 03, 2019 |
raptex:http://dichotomytests.com 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
ibkayee:Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by joyblossom(f): 4:50pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Pls i need serious help starting a conversation and ending it is a big issued i get scared or shy when trying to communicate and this sometime gets my friend pissed off... What should i do? 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sod09(m): 5:11pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
I'm just seeing this thread... So let me share my personal experience, I hate gatherings like malls,parties, cinemas etc. I also don't like pictures unless I feel like, apart from work I prefer staying indoor playing games and watching movies. But I do relate with people especially ladies, does anyone know how to overcome this personal hatred for gatherings. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 5:16pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
sod09:Hmmm 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sod09(m): 5:21pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
ibkayee:I'm not that shy I just don't like crowd 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 5:22pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
sod09:Lol I get, I’m similar. Although I’m more of an ambivert than an introvert 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sod09(m): 5:29pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
ibkayee:fair enough Btw I'm an extrovert on nairaland 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 5:34pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
sod09:Lool I think everyone is 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babtoundey(m): 7:32pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
[quote author=joyblossom post=74417273]Pls i need serious help starting a conversation and ending it is a big issued i get scared or shy when trying to communicate and this sometime gets my friend pissed off... What should i do? [/quo Monkeys start jumping from tree to tree by trying. I will say you build your courage, try to engage people both friends and strangers in conversation. Even though if the conversation isn't going well, keep trying. Mix and meet new people and be free with them. I hope this help, even though I'm not the right person to give this advice. I am experiencing some of these problems- it's just that I am tongue- tied only when meeting someone for the first time. But with FRIENDS, I am a talkative. 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by lacapine: 9:20pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
[quote author=babtoundey post=74421597][/quote].Na the freeing of mind be the real issue. How do I free my mind and be less self aware. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1F30M4(f): 10:21pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Olarewajub: I'm here for this.. My mum is so tired of my introverted nature but I really can't help it.. Most people think I've got so much pride but that isn't it really.. I just love to lay back most times and observe things, could be sometimes withdrawn too 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babtoundey(m): 11:25pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
lacapine: You are making me feel like a doctor that diagnosis drug for an ailment he himself suffers from. lol Well, you need to be aware you have at least one advantage as an introvert; your quietness and reservation attracts you to a lot of people and it makes them want to know or talk to you. What I think repels them is you; how you respond to their invitation, your reactions and perhaps the fact that you get tired of being with people very easily. So, there is no need to be judgemental of yourself, no need for you to be too observant about how apt or appropriate your response is. Most times, before the person comes to you or pick a discussion with you (I know introverts like ME will not initiate discussion even when there is a need to) he/or she might have noticed some qualities in you. Introverts are always considered intelligent. Besides, the person you are talking to are human, they too have their frailties. Be hundred person sure your interlocutor (male or female) is not judging you. He/she is simply being human (social animal) trying to talk, relate and make friend. So free yourself and always be yourself. The fact that one idiots considers you dumb, slow or unintelligent (has a negative feelings about you) doesn't mean you are what he thinks or feels neither does it mean every one else will feel same. No matter how you try (even if you try to impress people) you can't be liked by everybody. So what's the need to be too consciouss of how you talk or relate with people. Be yourself and let whoever finds it hard to like you for who you are and proud to be walk away. Like I said before, monkeys learn to jump from tree to tree by trying, try to be chatty. it MAy help. Some of my old classmates who I recently saw after few years of departure just told me the ME they used to know was too reticent and related only with his books and phone but the one they are seeing now seems to be freer. I can't even say when I started talking that much but I can vividly remember when I decided to stop being too rigid. You may also try and engage in some duties like teaching. it helps build your confidence and liking for lenghty but reasonable talks. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by joyblossom(f): 7:52am On Jan 04, 2019 |
[quote author=babtounthanks dey post=74421597][/quote]Thanks! i really do appreciate this a lot. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babtoundey(m): 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2019 |
joyblossom: it's my pleasure 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by adroitvezy(m): 3:09pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Thrifty247:its not that far. Happy new year to you. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by pryme(m): 7:37am On Jan 08, 2019 |
Most times you get to wonder if introverts are just empty tanks that Why they stay quiet and passive most of the time..... But damn, there is just too much in them. 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AeroplaneApple: 11:34am On Jan 09, 2019 |
I have sorted it out. Thanks |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ArcFresky(m): 8:57am On Jan 15, 2019 |
Am not sure am an introvert...maybe am just lazy... I hate going to meetings, parties, church. Except night clubs. Where I can b observing in one corner. Infact I never leave my house,even on sundays my landlady is like "are u okay"? Unfortunately or fortunately, electricity is very stable and my work is mainly online except once in a while I get to visit the construction site... Other times, am on Nairaland, yahoo, listverse, bored panda e.t.c. How will I get a gf bayiii.. I just tire. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mosesjames: 9:49pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
I’m an introvert,i hate social gatherings and it’s affecting my academic life cause i hate going to classes,I’m in my final year I’ve got few friends at school but got quite afew at home i love reading about entertainment,history and some other stuffs but when it comes to me reading for my schools exam i get bored and can’t even read for 30 minutes,people tell me I’m fun to be with but most times i like my me time 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bighead1(m): 1:57pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
ggrin: You seem to have turned to an extrovert now?? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Jagaban880: 12:10pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
pryme: well said ..... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by javaRookie: 6:51pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Oops. 12 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Epositive(m): 10:36pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
I've got trust issues. I hardly let people into my personal space. Right here in Uni, some see me as their friend but to me, they are more like acquaintances. I am my own best friend! 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AmeLonRo(m): 2:43am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Great stuff here for inros... Many Open Scholarships, Grants And Internships Novus Biologicals Scholarship Program for US, UK, and Canadian Students, 2019 Novus Biologicals, USA. :The aim of the scholarship is to help students who are interested in developing a career in Science. The mission of Novus Biologicals is to accelerate scientific discovery by developing and marketing unique products in the forefront of science. Novus Biologicals seeks driven individuals who are willing to fully contribute their expertise and experiences. Application Deadline: July 31, 2019 Apply Now CEAS Postdoctoral Fellowship in Chinese Studies at Stanford University in USA, 2019-2020 Center for East Asian Studies at Stanford University, USA Application Deadline: January 15, 2019 Apply Now IE3 Global Internship Program in USA, 2019 IE3 Global, USA Application Deadline: January 25, April 15, September 1, and November 15 annually Apply Now Emerging Global Leader Scholarship for International Students at American University in USA, 2019 American University in USA Application Deadline: January 15, 2019 Apply Now International Scholarships at University of Southern Indiana in USA, 2019 University of Southern Indiana (USI), USA Applications Deadline: March 1, 2019 Apply Now University of Arizona International Tuition Award in USA, 2019 University of Arizona, USA. The University of Arizona is glad to provide the International Tuition Award which offers $4,000 – $35,000 per academic year for freshman or $5,000 per academic year for transfer students. This program is open for students who exhibit outstanding academic performance. Application Deadline: April 1, 2019 Apply Now Elim’s Full Scholarships International Students in USA, 2019-2020 Elim Bible Institute and College, USA Application Deadline: January 15, 2019. Apply Now Pre-Dissertation Research Grant at University of California, USA 2019 University of California, USA Application Deadline: February 19, 2019. Apply Now Full Masters Scholarships for International Students at KU Leuven in Belgium, 2019 KU Leuven in Belgium Application Deadline: 1 March 2019 Apply Now University of Exeter Global Excellence Scholarship in UK, 2018-2019 University of Exeter, UK Application Deadline: January 31, 2018 Apply Now Full-time MBA Scholarships and Bursaries for UK/EU and Overseas Students at University of Bath in UK, 2019/20 University of Bath School of Management, UK Application Deadline: June 30, 2019 (Overseas) and August 31, 2019 (UK/EU) Apply Now Dalarna University Scholarships for International Students in Sweden, 2019 Dalarna University, Sweden Application Deadline: March 1, 2019 Apply Now Douglas College Entrance Scholarships for International Students in Canada, 2019 Douglas College, Canada Application Deadline: January 31 for Summer and May 31 for Fall Apply Now See many more at https://newkokoro.com/2019/01/20/many-open-scholarships-grants-and-internships/ |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Setnigeria: 6:24am On Jan 20, 2019 |
AmeLonRo: https://www.demibifilms.store/p/blog-page_15.html 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Setnigeria: 6:25am On Jan 20, 2019 |
|
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by FKBZ: 5:24am On Jan 21, 2019 |
K 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mastertmicro(m): 10:46am On Jan 21, 2019 |
FKBZ: I am |
(1) (2) (3) ... (174) (175) (176) (177) (178) (179) (180) ... (301) (Reply)
The Family Section Fun Room!! / House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!!
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 55 |