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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 9:08pm On Jan 19, 2019
kollinzgee:


this is because you are an ass kisser,betamale,low selfesteemed and chickenhearted man .money is the only thing attractive about these kind of men .i have a pretty girlfriend she doesnt ask for money at all am the one that even give her money for important things do you know why ? she is not atttacted to the money but me she is a hot girl of 22 am 25 and we are goin well.
lol your girlfriend has really charmed you and she is very smart at that. I wouldn't say that she is cheating on you because I don't know her but one thing I am very sure give me her contact and she will drop you like it is hot.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by em28: 9:12pm On Jan 19, 2019
Akcc:
My niggas think I’m really good at it! But don’t know I’m not. Once I get to know a girl 80% of the time she gets into me because I’m good at holding a convo and sweet talking girls but I don’t ever get the words to use when I meet her for the first time. That’s the problem! The female friends I know right now are actually friends to my friends! It’s easier starting a conversation with them since we have a common ground sort of

You must be broke.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by kollinzgee(m): 9:14pm On Jan 19, 2019
jesmond3945:
lol your girlfriend has really charmed you and she is very smart at that. I wouldn't say that she is cheating on you because I don't know her but one thing I am very sure give me her contact and she will drop you like it is hot.


my babe is not a cheap slut like those bitches with boreholes you carry around i have tested her.i doubt if you are in a reasonable relationship self thats why they always break your heart.

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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by em28: 9:18pm On Jan 19, 2019
jesmond3945:
Anybody that tells you without money you will get a naija babe is lying to you unless you want the second hand ones but if you want your crush or the babe you would be proud of then go and make money. Your car would do the talking for you. Time has changed.

One low life said he can hold a conversation. He has never sat down near a girl and she kept adjusting her hair , clearing her throat, going to the bathroom like 5 times in 8 minutes or telling her friends to go she's coming.... And you are yet to say what's up.

Nos 1. Is eye contact
Nos 2. Is how you sit down.
No 3. You need a slight pot belly (not necessarily)
No 4. How much is your wristwatch
No 5. You do not need a car, if you can afford to pay UBer from V.I to Maitama.
No 6. How are your friends worth.
No 7. How many men work for you.

'Because I can hold a conversation he said' fu.cktard does not know people get paid to hold a conversation?

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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by lilmax(m): 9:35pm On Jan 19, 2019
jesmond3945:
Anybody that tells you without money you will get a naija babe is lying to you unless you want the second hand ones but if you want your crush or the babe you would be proud of then go and make money. Your car would do the talking for you. Time has changed.
another ignorant one that attracts CLUB girls

you must see your reflection in every guy in Nigeria and tend to measure every guy from your shallow point of view


Jesus christ, so using money can get you "tear rubber " girls? grin
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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 10:02pm On Jan 19, 2019
lilmax:
another ignorant one that attracts CLUB girls

you must see your reflection in every guy in Nigeria and tend to measure every guy from your shallow point of view


Jesus christ, so using money can get you "tear rubber " girls? grin
stop watching telemundo welcone to the real world.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 10:03pm On Jan 19, 2019
em28:


One low life said he can hold a conversation. He has never sat down near a girl and she kept adjusting her hair , clearing her throat, going to the bathroom like 5 times in 8 minutes or telling her friends to go she's coming.... And you are yet to say what's up.

Nos 1. Is eye contact
Nos 2. Is how you sit down.
No 3. You need a slight pot belly (not necessarily)
No 4. How much is your wristwatch
No 5. You do not need a car, if you can afford to pay UBer from V.I to Maitama.
No 6. How are your friends worth.
No 7. How many men work for you.

'Because I can hold a conversation he said' fu.cktard does not know people get paid to hold a conversation?
lol
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 10:04pm On Jan 19, 2019
kollinzgee:


my babe is not a cheap slut like those bitches with boreholes you carry around i have tested her.i doubt if you are in a reasonable relationship self thats why they always break your heart.
is not by mouth i dare you to give me her contact. You are free to PM me.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by lilmax(m): 10:11pm On Jan 19, 2019
jesmond3945:
stop watching telemundo welcone to the real world.
lol someone's being manipulated but can't see it...... you're definitely a Buhari supporter grin

baba answer me, money fit get you tear rubber babe?
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 11:43pm On Jan 19, 2019
lilmax:
lol someone's being manipulated but can't see it...... you're definitely a Buhari supporter grin

baba answer me, money fit get you tear rubber babe?
money can get me your gf or your wife, i dare you to prove me wrong.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by bugggg: 11:43pm On Jan 19, 2019
Washere, u correct. Just b real and natural, talk am as u c am. You like wetin u dey c so and u go like invite am enter ur life. Gbayi
dairykidd:

Let me tell u a secret. I used to be like u maybe worse bcoz sometimes I get this very obvious green light from girls in my first yr in school but I hesitate a lot.. Until I started what seemed like a game. Me & my cuz made it a point to ask a different girl out just for the fun.. We would get names and house addresses cos no mobile phone then. Sometimes I would get 2 girls a day & later m6 confidence began to blow up like there was really no girl I couldn't approach and most times get even if u get two heads or ur boyfriend na king Kong I set get wetin I want 9 out of 10 times. The trick is never u think of what to say just be natural. You can say a simple hi, hello, how u doing or even good day" e no matter.. No just plan am at all na him matter. Just feel & get into the moment. U can compliment her dress or perfume or looks or even her hair. The key is to be natural and relaxed... Most important u should be ready for a lot of bullshît & rejection, this will help build u up so keep approaching, chycking or wtv u call it.. Happy hunting. smiley
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by lilmax(m): 6:42am On Jan 20, 2019
jesmond3945:
money can get me your gf or your wife, i dare you to prove me wrong.
lol from your write ups

it's easy to spot

you have built your confidence around money, it means that if you go broke, you'll get angry, push people around you, and HATE yourself grin

like I said you attract CLUB(hoes)girls, and you have failed to understand that these girls are the ones using you, not the other way, using money to attract girls is a normal way, so the HOE you get today, will leave you for another tomorrow grin

and I've given you advice about seeing yourself, opinions, perspectives in other people

I guess you'll use money to get rich girls too grin

this guy, you have alot to learn

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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by LieDetector(m): 7:23am On Jan 20, 2019
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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Nobody: 7:40am On Jan 20, 2019
Start from entering friend zone then you might be lucky and escape it as time goes on.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Luizkid(m): 7:42am On Jan 20, 2019
kollinzgee:


this is because you are an ass kisser,betamale,low selfesteemed and chickenhearted man .money is the only thing attractive about these kind of men .i have a pretty girlfriend she doesnt ask for money at all am the one that even give her money for important things do you know why ? she is not atttacted to the money but me she is a hot girl of 22 am 25 and we are goin well.
Bro, she doesn't need ur money cos another guy is already taking care of that department.

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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Nobody: 8:08am On Jan 20, 2019
lilmax:
lol from your write ups

it's easy to spot

you have built your confidence around money, it means that if you go broke, you'll get angry, push people around you, and HATE yourself grin

like I said you attract CLUB(hoes)girls, and you have failed to understand that these girls are the ones using you, not the other way, using money to attract girls is a normal way, so the HOE you get today, will leave you for another tomorrow grin

and I've given you advice about seeing yourself, opinions, perspectives in other people

I guess you'll use money to get rich girls too grin

this guy, you have alot to learn
PM Lilmax your babe number since you trust her enough


With money every TO.TO is fvckable
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 8:40am On Jan 20, 2019
lilmax:
lol from your write ups

it's easy to spot

you have built your confidence around money, it means that if you go broke, you'll get angry, push people around you, and HATE yourself grin

like I said you attract CLUB(hoes)girls, and you have failed to understand that these girls are the ones using you, not the other way, using money to attract girls is a normal way, so the HOE you get today, will leave you for another tomorrow grin

and I've given you advice about seeing yourself, opinions, perspectives in other people

I guess you'll use money to get rich girls too grin

this guy, you have alot to learn
you talk like a kid that is still growing up watching soap operas. I have dared you to prove me wrong. Somebody on this forum was behaving like you till his friend exposed his gf even to the point of sleeping with her. There is nothing special with your partner that my money cannot get for ne. Once again if you trust her you can PM me privately with her contacts and give me one week to prove you wrong.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by kullozone(m): 8:44am On Jan 20, 2019
Gebbson007:



just walk up to er(be extra polite ) .. ask fr er name n tll er urs too then ask if u can b friends with er (if yes) then ask fr er WhatsApp digit,b witty bout it (smile).. if she gives u ehn offer to see er off or nt... its as simple as that.

Your typing (shorthand) is irritating.

Is that how you write girls on WhatsApp? smiley
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by lilmax(m): 12:44pm On Jan 20, 2019
Yuletide25:

PM Lilmax your babe number since you trust her enough


With money every TO.TO is fvckable
so your mum is still fuckable because of money? grin
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 20, 2019
lilmax:
so your mum is still fuckable because of money? grin
Lol

she's married already

your mom gave birth to you as a result of a fling she had with someone else, The man you call your dad is not your biological father because your mum was a prostitute under your fathers roof
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by lilmax(m): 2:05pm On Jan 20, 2019
Yuletide25:

PM Lilmax your babe number since you trust her enough


With money every TO.TO is fvckable
lilmax:
so your [mum is still fuckable because of money? grin
Yuletide25:

Lol

she's married already

your mom gave birth to you as a result of a fling she had with someone else, The man you call your dad is not your biological father because your mum was a prostitute under your fathers roof

look how foolish your choices have made you look now

I called your mum to bring out the hypocrisy in you and you fell for it grin


if our moms are not hoes or were never hoes in our eyes then why do we label every girl a hoe

yes, there are hoes, that's why most of my comments starts with "most" instead of "all"

Bros, if your sister or mother cannot be fvcked with money, it means there are others that can't be fvcked with money too

do you see how uneducated you're now

you guys have so much built your confidence in your money that you forget that even if 99% are fvcked there's still 1% not fvcked

so who's. next? hwfa your sister? can she be fvcked with money too? grin
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Starboytwo(m): 2:41pm On Jan 20, 2019
Me- hey hafa baby kilonshele?

She-ignores me sad

Me-oh you are ghost,you don't talk..

She-crosses road(cross with am)

Me- but ghost dey talk 4 Yoruba movie na,or you foreign ghost..
She-ignores me

Me-you must be deaf or something?or dumb

She-what did you say embarassed

Me-i said you must be deaf or dumb,

She-you are not ok

Me-oh I'm good,I think you are the sick one

She-what...you must be very stupid

Me-i think your father is very stupid...(she wanna move I drag her back) where are you going?

She-are you mad?...if your hands touch me again,
Me-(cuts in)what would you do ehn?tell me tongue...
She-you just touch me again..

Me-but I like your bag(touch it)..

She- tryna hit me...(clearly frustrated)Mr man whats your problem,I don't know you and I'm gonna scream "thief if you don't back off now..

Me-scream if you like,this is my Area, everybody know me..

She-bike,bike...

Me-to the bike man(alaye how far, eba mi gbe babe yii dey ibi ton loh...removes #100...

She-climb bike,collect the #100 from bikeman, squeeze it and throw it at me...

Me-laughing so hard...wahray omo...if I see you for this place again..lol...


bumped into her on Friday where I tryna get my pvc...were both shocked...I smiled and tryna say hello,she was having non of that and I left her...told her friend I was very rude to her the other day and I apologized... grin

It was just freestyle I don't mean to be an assho.le...

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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Ogaonos: 2:42pm On Jan 20, 2019
smoke9910:

That shows she's a hoe. They're not worth it.
guys u na no dey try at all because wizkid sing about spending money on woman u na think sey dt d way.smh.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Ogaonos: 2:56pm On Jan 20, 2019
[quote author=Akcc post=74916813]Hi. I’m a university student and in my mid twenties, I have this problem of approaching girls I see for the first time. I don’t think I lack the confidence really but feel like I have no idea what to say to her especially since she’s a stranger, I’m extremely confident of my looks and I’m well to do for a student usually money gives me this confidence when it comes to approaching girls in clubs but outside there I can’t talk to a stranger I’d love to know. So my question here is what do I say to a girl who I just saw for the first time! Specifically on the streets[/quote.4 sch setting if u know book e dey easy 2 attract esp.d book type of girls.one way 2 catch campus babe is 2 use borrowing her note den u can start 4rm there.because Nigerian ladies are highly defensive.nowadays except d jovial ones.anotha way is to start by making friend wit girls below ur kind of girl den improve 4rm there.y i say this girls like jovial guys but mostly likely guys dt other girls are attracted to.observe guys who have female friends and hw it easy 4 them 2 approach ladies.y some ladies wen they c u wit bam phone dem go want u but it leads 2 blow too much moni or mugu thin which leads 2 u being stingy 2 ur guys.but wen they notice u wit a girl or girls wer dey OK or fyn pass them and u are mature about it.they go dey wonder i wan dey less defensive 2 u

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Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jan 20, 2019
lilmax:


look how foolish your choices have made you look now

I called your mum to bring out the hypocrisy in you and you fell for it grin


if our moms are not hoes or were never hoes in our eyes then why do we label every girl a hoe

yes, there are hoes, that's why most of my comments starts with "most" instead of "all"

Bros, if your sister or mother cannot be fvcked with money, it means there are others that can't be fvcked with money too

do you see how uneducated you're now

you guys have so much built your confidence in your money that you forget that even if 99% are fvcked there's still 1% not fvcked

so who's. next? hwfa your sister? can she be fvcked with money too? grin
ask your prostitute mother that question when you get home
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Sunshyne200(m): 4:28pm On Jan 20, 2019
Newboss:
Girls don't like the feeling of being "picked up". You may not be doing that, but most guys who approach girls on the street are attempting a pick up (something like fūck and go), and most girls have been taking mental note of that. Telling a girl you like her on meeting her is stupid because it sells you out as a loser.


If you must approach on the street (not advisable tho), make sure there's a storyline (something that lead to something that lead to something). Picking up a girl with a car is easy because there's automatically a storyline: "He saw me standing by the road, and he pulled over and gave me a lift... ". That looks natural to them and not premeditated.

Try asking her for directions. While she's talking, ignore what she's saying and pay attention to how she's saying it. When she's done, without wasting time, ask her something about your observation, like "That accent tho, are you Ghanaian?". Of course she's not. That's the beginning of the storyline. She'll smile (meaning no tension). Talk about the accent and how you had a friend with that kinda accent. Make sure you're talking about a girl but not your girlfriend because that would tip her off. Make the story funny.

There are so many other storylines you can generate on the fly depending on who you're talking to.

If you can't generate a storyline, do not approach her, even if she's hitting on you. Girls switch really quick from hitting on you to losing interest in you.

Some girls get literarily turned on, and you could perceive the scent, when you use the right storyline on them.

You are good.
Just vote for Atiku and be perfect.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by UyiIredia(m): 6:31pm On Jan 20, 2019
Akcc:
Hi. I’m a university student and in my mid twenties, I have this problem of approaching girls I see for the first time. I don’t think I lack the confidence really but feel like I have no idea what to say to her especially since she’s a stranger, I’m extremely confident of my looks and I’m well to do for a student usually money gives me this confidence when it comes to approaching girls in clubs but outside there I can’t talk to a stranger I’d love to know. So my question here is what do I say to a girl who I just saw for the first time! Specifically on the streets

Man up and approach her. Her rejection cannot kill you.
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by harry2sexy(m): 7:03pm On Jan 20, 2019
I won't lie to you bro,i get girls for a guy my age but bros if there's no money,you can't sustain the babe for long.

I don't mean having millions o,at least have your own place,furnished to taste,good generator set,well starched sleeves,some good pair of jeans,shoes for the road and as God blesses you,buy a good mobility for the road.

Most ladies are in competition with themselves and since i learnt that,I'm trying to be the best that i can be. Very soon,we'll get there,don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself,you'll get there.

Those saying na money na money,i have guys that have money and are still shy to talk to ladies
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by jesmond3945: 8:30pm On Jan 20, 2019
lilmax:
lol from your write ups

it's easy to spot

you have built your confidence around money, it means that if you go broke, you'll get angry, push people around you, and HATE yourself grin

like I said you attract CLUB(hoes)girls, and you have failed to understand that these girls are the ones using you, not the other way, using money to attract girls is a normal way, so the HOE you get today, will leave you for another tomorrow grin

and I've given you advice about seeing yourself, opinions, perspectives in other people

I guess you'll use money to get rich girls too grin

this guy, you have alot to learn
https://www.nairaland.com/4972076/please-advice-stingy-boyfriend-using
Re: How Do I Approach Girls I Just Saw For The First Time by Akcc: 11:23am On Jan 21, 2019
em28:


You must be broke.
Lol You get money?grin

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