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Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Na num 3 dey pain me pass how i wish i have end up earlier with my first love but i think love will work out |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by princfred(m): 4:04pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
freemanbubble:Swimming, make your swimming trunks no tear inside swimming pool one day. |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by frenchkisser(m): 4:10pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
24hoursreporter:My last relationship, I regretted not banging one last time...one for the road |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Daeylar(f): 4:16pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Mine has been 1,3,4 & 5 |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Ubdavis(m): 4:51pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
There is no point regretting. U can not unring a bell. |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
This is y i hate to invest too much in a relationship, i only put in things i can easily let go of, i Dont introduce u to my family till u propose. Invest on Ur self, put Ur self first or u may end up regretting everything. my last relationship, i regret not calling it off earlier, thinking i could make it work 1 Like |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
wonder233:I wonder |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by DrTee1(m): 5:20pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
TBIZZY: Unfortunately, there is nothing like "Life Jacket" when it comes to indiscriminate sex. Aside HIV, there are diseases WITHOUT KNOWN CURE that can be transmitted by sexual intercourse which aren't preventable by the barrier method (male or female condoms). Herpes is one of such diseases. Nothing beats having one sexual partner, most preferably a spouse. Yes, marriage can come with challenges, but it is possibly better to walk through (an often painful) divorce process in an unsustainable marital affair than to go on a capricious sexual spree. The term "playboy" is NEVER a significant plus - anywhere in the World. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by DrTee1(m): 5:33pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
gloria34: If you'll consider my perspective Ma'am: I think people should go into relationships without a sense of entitlement. See your partner as you'll see your brother or friend of the same gender. Give as much as you get, even if you are the female partner. Indeed, it may be better to even give more than you demand or receive. Never consider sex as a gift or favour. Both parties enjoy intercourse and no party is doing the other a favour by having sex. Always consider leaving a permanent positive impression ok your partner - and that has nothing to do with cash or sexual activity. Why? There would always be people with cash and sex - but there wouldn't always be alternatives with the positive character imprints you've left on the psyche of a partner. To love another person is to open oneself up to being hurt, naturally, so there is no point guarding yourself perfectly and expecting the other party to win you entirely over. A romantic relationship is often a consensual arrangement between two adults who are equals in the eye of the law. If we have been hurt by our parents and siblings, and sometimes, for the married ones, by our children, then people going into relationships must know the their partners might consciously or unconsciously hurt us at times. We must patiently continue to work at the relationship by communicating until the very end. That's how friends should behave. That's how families do. Until communication breaks down irretrievably on the basis of irreconcilable character differences, each party must work very hard at the relationship A relationship must never be parasitic. Finally, if a man or lady dumps a partner with a VISION for another with a TELEVISION (or car, cash, dress sense), such person would eventually watch the abandoned ex with a vision on his/her wife/husband's television in the fullness of time. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by marvin906(m): 5:42pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
I don't regret anything.. buh if I where to regret anything it would be. for being caring.. being tolerant (high level tolerant) being patient... what did a nigga get in the end an insult that is shaping me to be a monster which am fighting anyways.. being a nice guy doesn't worth it sometimes 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by fortune1968: 5:45pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
MrThisandthat:Only you and the corruption ones do ! Sai baba will win again ! |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by officialJP(m): 5:47pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
5&7 hmmmm |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by HealthyLivingNG: 6:41pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
CheapDataGuy: Same here boss man |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by marvinsync(m): 7:03pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
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Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by marvinsync(m): 7:03pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
24hoursreporter: Chai "Does it worth it ?" And ur a "reporter"
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Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Art3mins(m): 7:34pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Gkay1:You are so damn right bro,been in dat shoe since last year December 23...I have been shit since then,5 years relationship...E no easy at all man 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Painful experience...sha,i learnt alot |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by foreverfavoured(f): 9:59pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
ybalogs:Wow ! I like this .. |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by uuzba(m): 10:37pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
freemanbubble:Fornication is a sin. You can't say you didn't know. Now you know. |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by kunleweb: 10:41pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
DrTee1: Jeez so.much wisdom. Big ups This is superfluous abendant wisdom. To him/her that is discerning, read the last paragraph atleast twenty times. one billion likes brov |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by uuzba(m): 10:42pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
ybalogs:So it's when you went to Venice that you saw Charity? Is only Oyibo that do charity in this world? Abi you didn't even travle anywhere and just copied and pasted this story from one forwared email? |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by uuzba(m): 10:51pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
DrTee1:Do not have any sex in any relationship. Sex is reservered for married couples. It is for procreation, bringing new human beings into this world. This is a serious commitment. Sex outside of marriage is fornication, a sin. So many have been decieved to thinking that sex is some fun activity to be had between any two adults. No, only married couples. Do this and spare the world of so many sad stories, scandals, heart aches, abandoned children, fatherless, motherless, dumped babies, abortion centres. - Do your relationship. Learn your lesson. Do not have sex until you are married and committed. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by kunleweb: 11:01pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Thread of.great minds. I'm stying here for a while |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by DrTee1(m): 11:26pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
uuzba: I like to be realistic and responsible. Religion is a matter of the heart, and entirely private too. That's where "Sin" is from. I prefer the word "Crime" to "Sin" at least in the public place, when talking about aberrant character. Consensual intercourse between two adults is no crime. Let's not judge each other by what is Sin in one religion but not sin in another. Let's keep that morality to our private lives and families. In the public place, let's go by universally acceptable rules of right and wrong. Heck, I'm practicing Christian - and that's my private decision. Have you wondered the gamut of sexual sin and incest that expectedly celibate Roman Catholic clergy get involved in annually, up to the higher ranks of their leadership - all over the World? Wait, I'm also a Physician - and there are available records that 40% of women of reproductive age group in Nigeria have had at least one abortion. Let's be honest: The average Nigerian girl doesn't believe she is dating a man until he has impressed her as much as for her to agree to be laid by him. It is wrong, yes, but that's what obtains with the average female - so let's do the corrections by applying universal laws, not private or conservative Christian or Muslim ones. The Indians have millions of gods for example. All of them cannot have the same Christian or Muslim values. What's worse? In our social lives of deception today, we've raised the economic bars of marriage so high. It costs as much as to contest to be local government chairman or start a small and medium scale business to marry a wife in many parts of the country today. It wasn't that way when the bible was written, or even 200 years ago in Africa. Our attachment to such expensive ceremonies and demands from young men who have already attained sexual maturity is at complete variance with the biblical "It is not good for man to be alone" and the "If you cannot stay as a Eunuch, marry a wife." Now, no school leaver can consider marrying. But how old were the biblical men when they got married to their wives? Some were 17 years! Even to pay the church demands for marriage, aside engagement list, before registry - and you talk of "sin?" Please let's resolve this challenge one part on top before the parts below. Post Script: By the way, all other things being equal, after all said and done, I agree with you. What you wrote, which I "seemingly" wrote such a long response about, is exactly what I'll tell and teach my own biological daughter - but you see - that's private and family. Nairaland isn't "private and family" however. |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Dr Tee1 I agree with u but the thing is that my sisters (i've got no bro) and i are close. We quarrel and settle but i know 4 a fact that they are going no where, we understand ourselves that much. I'm a very emotional person, i easily get attached when i open completely, then to loose that person to another or to be maltreated by that person is just a feeling i'm too scared to handle |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Gkay1(m): 9:49pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Art3mins: oh sorry nd just take thing easy, |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by MONIKERREVEALER: 9:07am On Jan 24, 2019 |
Julietcutie: you have a very soft heart and sweet personality. guard your heart carefully my dear. never take ANYBODY at face value! |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Julietcutie(f): 7:46pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
MONIKERREVEALER:thanks dear ...am now hard on the inside |
Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Jashar2: 12:07am On Jan 31, 2019 |
24hoursreporter, bia...eez like you just broke up? What were your own regrets? Or did you experience all 7? ![]() |
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