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| When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Emmzy201(m): 12:53pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
My birthday was yesterday 21st of January which was supposed to be a very happy day for me ended up in me being depressed right now. I met this girl at a mall seven months ago and it was love at first sight, she was the first girl I would ever love and give my whole heart to, she acted really nice and very caring and I also made sure she never lacked anything and we've never had any arguments till now. This girl told me she was a virgin and would like to remain one till marriage and I have always respected her decision, I have not even thought of going down there at all since we started dating and was even happy to have found a good wife material. Fast-forward to yesterday which was my birthday, I received many mails from friends and family congratulating me and I saw this particular strange mail. I wanted to open it then but left it and replied other mails. I later checked the mail and what I saw almost made me die of heart attack. The mail contained nude pictures, pictures of her having s*x with a guy that his face was blurred and screenshots of s*x chats of my supposed girlfriend. This was the girl that was supposed to help me out in organizing the party and she took an excuse from me to see someone, she was even the first person to wake me up with an SMS and a call. I didn't know how I found myself on the floor crying. How will I be able to handle depression that's eating me up quickly. I need advice in other not to do something silly to myself or the girl, even sniper now looks attractive, am on the verge of running crazy now. Ignore my typos and other mistakes please 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
For real  ? Like, did it happen in real life or telemundo? Who sent the email? And how how on this earth would you be in a no sex relationship in 2019 ?63 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Emmzy201(m): 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
ClixMaster:Am depressed right now, and I haven't told anyone what's going on 2 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by moorevic(m): 1:09pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Just man up and move on, happens all the time. 42 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by berbz(m): 1:10pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
The lady just left me in the relationship to be dating myself 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201:My brother, you lose. Kpekus, you no chop... U no come marry her... No be money she come give you.. so ask yasef, wetin you gain  Ndo! Be wise next time. Any gal I approach and she opens her stinking mouth to tell me that she wants no sex relationship; nkita aracha nya ike  106 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by stillseth: 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Who sent the mail to you..have you found out who sent the mail? |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Tamarapetty(f): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
aww, so sorry! Don't try anything crazy biko. . It's even good that you found out earlier, instead of wasting years with her. . Just try and move on . Na my kidney i dey take love now, my heart dey on break. 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by XhosaNostra(f): 1:23pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Happy belated birthday to you. You're an Aquarius, you'll bounce right back  Sorry about what happened to you, but don't do anything stupid to yourself or the other person. It's not worth it. This is temporary When I'm upset over stuff like this, I like to shut everyone out & just think for myself. In my solitude I always find strength. I'm not very good at taking advice. Hence I always need a minute by myself, away from all the opinions & noise. After I'm done putting my emotions in order, I can face the world again. Basically, I just get over stuff. There's no secret formula. You gotta allow yourself time to think & feel, that's all it takes imo. 50 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Emmzy201(m): 1:23pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
stillseth:No and i don't even want to |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Amarabae(f): 1:23pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
I have never had a heart break in love before. If your babe misbehaves, leave him so that he will be dating himself 4 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Headlesschicken(m): 1:30pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
| Dumb kid,drink sniper n go to hell... Smh... I wonder d kind of males women r birthing Dix days,u hadly read dix sort of sh!t online in d 80's.. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Jaqenhghar: 2:24pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Now this rite here... 14 Likes
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| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by XhosaNostra(f): 3:50pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar: LMFAO. 1 Like |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
after God, fear woman. many of them are using their husbands now as bo  after God, fear woman. many of them are using their husbands as boyfriend. later they will be disturbing men of God that good men are scarce that they need prayer. so unfortunate that ladies have turned many good guys to bad guys12 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Joislim(f): 4:46pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
You'll surely get over it suicide is not a way out..... avoid the temptation to call her because you'll feel like calling her 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Nduxx(m): 4:46pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
"These hoes ain't loyal" *in Chris Brown's voice 5 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by jeff1607(m): 4:49pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201: have you spoken to her about it? 1 Like |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by millionboi2: 4:58pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Rubbish Which heart u won break 3 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Maxi112: 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
I don't even have a heart to love talk more of heart break. I don't know how people fall in love to d extent of being depressed. I need to fall in love oh. 14 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Nasri100(m): 5:03pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201: Everything here is about you mate. Did you bother to find out if she was on the same plane with you? Love you the same way you love her? Ask about her previous relationships or if she isn’t over a Bleep buddy? Acting nice isn’t a sign the person likes you back the way you do. 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Baddiezz(f): 5:53pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201:I know how you feeeeeeeel. Spend a lot of time outside. It's a cliché, but fresh air really does clear your head. So does, you know, seeing the sun every once in a while. Take at least two hours from each day just to leave your Cave of Forgotten Dreams and interact with The Outside. Know it's okay to rely on your friends. Breakups can make even the strongest people feel like they’re worthless or not good enough. Hang out with people that appreciate you and remind you of what a good person you are. “This is when having a strong support network is essential because friends can show you that you still matter and that you still belong,” Burns says. “When your self-esteem is at an all time low, these are the people who can help empower you while you work on defining your own self-worth.” .If you start dating someone else, take it really slow. Dude. You just ended a relationship and your heart flipped over and exploded like a tanker in a Jean-Claude Van Damme movie. If you take it step by step and enjoy it as a casual thing for a while, that'll give you some time to evaluate whether you're actually ready to be with someone again or if you're just ready to have sex with them . Happy belated birthday .No one is worth drinking sniper over I repeat NO ONE 34 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Auladimeji(m): 6:17pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201:Fvck you for crying because of Vag1na 19 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by lincsnuel: 6:20pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
OP, sorry this happened to a gentle soul like you... Karma will surely catch up on her. I know you'd like to revenge this gruesome act of hers... I'd advice you to masturbate multiple times with the nude pics sent to you as there's no revenge greater than this. You can send me some of the pics so I will crop off the guys face leaving the unclad body of the slut to your satisfaction. You can thank me later! 26 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Eberechi24(f): 6:22pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201:Die on top woman we go carry another man come your burial? Tell someone about it and move on like nothing happened Send those pictures to her. I have this feeling that one of your male friends run this package. 5 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Auladimeji(m): 6:22pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201:Upon all the sermons on this site you still dey do like pussy. By the power invested on me I hereby barnish you for 1 year from Romance sector. Seun, Lalasticlala please ban him for one year 5 Likes
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| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Regiinald: 6:26pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Amarabae:do you live in Nigeria? |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Abcruz(m): 6:27pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201: My son, give me your heart and let your eyes find delight in my ways,--proverbs 23:26 For cursed is the man who trusts in mere human and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the LORD.--Jeremiah 17:5 Yet you have not listened to Me," declares the LORD, "in order that you might provoke Me to anger with the work of your hands to your own harm.--Jeremiah 25:7 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the LORD from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22 A word is enough for the wise. 30 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Regiinald: 6:32pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Emmzy201:i think you need to read the red pill. Also read all of Ubunja posts. It will teach you all about the reality of women |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by CaptainStephen(m): 7:05pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
My girlfriend then dumping me the day i passed out of the Academy. I was already imaging her on wedding gown and me in my Number one dress. I carry all the anger go face militants for creek  28 Likes |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Amarabae(f): 7:51pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Regiinald:Y asking |
| Re: When Was Your First Heartbreak And How Did You Handle It? by Regiinald: 8:08pm On Jan 22, 2019 |
Amarabae:I wanted to know if you have ever had a taste of the western life or possibly europe |
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