Emmzy201:
My birthday was yesterday 21st of January which was supposed to be a very happy day for me ended up in me being depressed right now.

I met this girl at a mall seven months ago and it was love at first sight, she was the first girl I would ever love and give my whole heart to, she acted really nice and very caring and I also made sure she never lacked anything and we've never had any arguments till now. This girl told me she was a virgin and would like to remain one till marriage and I have always respected her decision, I have not even thought of going down there at all since we started dating and was even happy to have found a good wife material.

Fast-forward to yesterday which was my birthday, I received many mails from friends and family congratulating me and I saw this particular strange mail. I wanted to open it then but left it and replied other mails. I later checked the mail and what I saw almost made me die of heart attack.

The mail contained nude pictures, pictures of her having s*x with a guy that his face was blurred and screenshots of s*x chats of my supposed girlfriend. This was the girl that was supposed to help me out in organizing the party and she took an excuse from me to see someone, she was even the first person to wake me up with an SMS and a call. I didn't know how I found myself on the floor crying. How will I be able to handle depression that's eating me up quickly.
I need advice in other not to do something silly to myself or the girl, even sniper now looks attractive, am on the verge of running crazy now.

Ignore my typos and other mistakes please

So sori bro. Passed through similar thing.
U just have to man up try not to tink about her or the incident it won't be easy though and try as much as u can to move on wid ur normal activity and try to be happy. But let her know dat it over between u two wid the evidence u have.

Just keep calm this minute will pass

u want to kill yourself because of...

my first heartbreak..
hmmmmm..
I won't even call it heartbreak because from the moment we started dating I knew it was over I just didn't know when buh I knew she was the one going to call it quits and it happened last last my prophecy came to pass after throwing insults on me up and down told me my life story and bla bla bla..
she called it quits..

how did I handle it got myself a pack of yougurt topped it off with McDowell's opened my laptop and started playing games life goes on

Person wey never chop since morning dey get heartbreak?

Auladimeji:
Fvck you for crying because of Vag1na

Go easy on him bro,

He's quite young and normal for any guy his age to feel bad,if he should still behave this way 4 years from now, then you're free to insult him anyway you deem fit.

Seriouslyyyyy... Abeg man up and move on. S**t happens. That is not wort dying for bro!

lincsnuel:
OP, sorry this happened to a gentle soul like you...

Karma will surely catch up on her.

I know you'd like to revenge this gruesome act of hers...

I'd advice you to masturbate multiple times with the nude pics sent to you as there's no revenge greater than this.

You can send me some of the pics so I will crop off the guys face leaving the unclad body of the slut to your satisfaction.

You can thank me later!

Lwkmd
You just made my night.

Emmzy201:
My birthday was yesterday 21st of January which was supposed to be a very happy day for me ended up in me being depressed right now.

I met this girl at a mall seven months ago and it was love at first sight, she was the first girl I would ever love and give my whole heart to, she acted really nice and very caring and I also made sure she never lacked anything and we've never had any arguments till now. This girl told me she was a virgin and would like to remain one till marriage and I have always respected her decision, I have not even thought of going down there at all since we started dating and was even happy to have found a good wife material.

Fast-forward to yesterday which was my birthday, I received many mails from friends and family congratulating me and I saw this particular strange mail. I wanted to open it then but left it and replied other mails. I later checked the mail and what I saw almost made me die of heart attack.

The mail contained nude pictures, pictures of her having s*x with a guy that his face was blurred and screenshots of s*x chats of my supposed girlfriend. This was the girl that was supposed to help me out in organizing the party and she took an excuse from me to see someone, she was even the first person to wake me up with an SMS and a call. I didn't know how I found myself on the floor crying. How will I be able to handle depression that's eating me up quickly.
I need advice in other not to do something silly to myself or the girl, even sniper now looks attractive, am on the verge of running crazy now.

Ignore my typos and other mistakes please

my nigga,you know most people will say move on, get the info on who sent the mail and bla bla bla...forget them all... Now this is the opportunity that you have to harden yourself because she won't be the last that will do dis same to you if you don't toughen up... So use her to toughen up, use her to groom yourself to become a real hardened man and see how this girl's will respect you.. They never for any reason like a soft guy, they like the tough ones that do take authority... Use her to learn all that

Regiinald:


Your posts... I get this feeling that there's is an extremely intelligent woman behind that keyboard... And what kind of man would pass up a chance to know an intelligent woman...

By the way, it's really rude to dodge someone's question...

Foolish immature goat!

Calm down,relax then call her. Just act as if notin happend invite her to ur house but b4 u do make sure u av taken like 1000mg of tramadol wit vega . wen she comes bleep dey living dead out of her den u can now let her go.

OP...

You need common Sense!

Smoke weed and work out regularly bro. Stay away from hoes unless you wan chop clean mouth las las. Just make sure you pump those muscles up and be ready to flex it.

Amarabae:

Yes of course.

LIAR!

Red light district....if u know u know

I have never suffered heartbreak. Maybe it's because I have come to expect the worst from people. So when they do anything, I just take it as them being them.

Never, ever trust anyone completely to devote everything to them. Hold a little bit of yourself back. They always disappoint or unravel.

virgintoto:
Calm down,relax then call her. Just act as if notin happend invite her to ur house but b4 u do make sure u av taken like 1000mg of tramadol wit vega . wen she comes bleep dey living dead out of her den u can now let her go.

Haba bros Na person pikin oh

Ghawahahahahshaha

Don’t take any girl serious until you are ready to get a wife. I mean until you are ready to pay her bride price within 12 months.

Headlesschicken:
Dumb kid,drink sniper n go to hell... Smh... I wonder d kind of males women r birthing Dix days,u hadly read dix sort of sh!t online in d 80's..

Wow... I didn't know people read things ONLINE in the 80s

I suffered tremendous heart break in the past. The fact that I have strong passion for football really helped. I played, watched and thought football all the time. I got over it in just few weeks. My advice is, time is the best medicine to meant a broken heart. So, just exercise patience and look for something that will keep you busy.

I don't know what to say, so for aalll the problem for naija Na woman u dey cry for,wetin even pain me pass, u say u no chop am for seven good months, now wan kill ya self, u better go and give your life to Christ

Move on...

Kendrick80:

Haba bros Na person pikin oh

I swear d tin con even pain me pass d op sef

Amarabae:
I have never had a heart break in love before.
If your babe misbehaves, leave him so that he will be dating himself

really

Just try and convince yourself that she didn't deserve you
I really doubt if all this advise will even work.. Love is stronger than that depression you are talking about..
No matter what she did..if u urself truely love her then that love will never die

CaptainStephen:
My girlfriend then dumping me the day i passed out of the Academy. I was already imaging her on wedding gown and me in my Number one dress.

I carry all the anger go face militants for creek

No wonder soldiers dey beat ppl anyhow for street o

Emmzy201:
My birthday was yesterday 21st of January which was supposed to be a very happy day for me ended up in me being depressed right now.

I met this girl at a mall seven months ago and it was love at first sight, she was the first girl I would ever love and give my whole heart to, she acted really nice and very caring and I also made sure she never lacked anything and we've never had any arguments till now. This girl told me she was a virgin and would like to remain one till marriage and I have always respected her decision, I have not even thought of going down there at all since we started dating and was even happy to have found a good wife material.

Fast-forward to yesterday which was my birthday, I received many mails from friends and family congratulating me and I saw this particular strange mail. I wanted to open it then but left it and replied other mails. I later checked the mail and what I saw almost made me die of heart attack.

The mail contained nude pictures, pictures of her having s*x with a guy that his face was blurred and screenshots of s*x chats of my supposed girlfriend. This was the girl that was supposed to help me out in organizing the party and she took an excuse from me to see someone, she was even the first person to wake me up with an SMS and a call. I didn't know how I found myself on the floor crying. How will I be able to handle depression that's eating me up quickly.
I need advice in other not to do something silly to myself or the girl, even sniper now looks attractive, am on the verge of running crazy now.

Ignore my typos and other mistakes please

Pele! No be ur woman. Just distant urself from her because it will just make u hate woman. It hurt sha, i no go lie because i was once in your shoe. In my case i invest money, love and care while another guy they help me service her beyind my back. She even aborted for the guy self. Things don spoil before i grab everything. Some girls fear dem!

Emmzy201:
My birthday was yesterday 21st of January which was supposed to be a very happy day for me ended up in me being depressed right now.

I met this girl at a mall seven months ago and it was love at first sight, she was the first girl I would ever love and give my whole heart to, she acted really nice and very caring and I also made sure she never lacked anything and we've never had any arguments till now. This girl told me she was a virgin and would like to remain one till marriage and I have always respected her decision, I have not even thought of going down there at all since we started dating and was even happy to have found a good wife material.

Fast-forward to yesterday which was my birthday, I received many mails from friends and family congratulating me and I saw this particular strange mail. I wanted to open it then but left it and replied other mails. I later checked the mail and what I saw almost made me die of heart attack.

The mail contained nude pictures, pictures of her having s*x with a guy that his face was blurred and screenshots of s*x chats of my supposed girlfriend. This was the girl that was supposed to help me out in organizing the party and she took an excuse from me to see someone, she was even the first person to wake me up with an SMS and a call. I didn't know how I found myself on the floor crying. How will I be able to handle depression that's eating me up quickly.
I need advice in other not to do something silly to myself or the girl, even sniper now looks attractive, am on the verge of running crazy now.

Ignore my typos and other mistakes please

After seeing your profile picture, I'm short of words. Face your books Emma! There's time for everything on earth

It's really hard especially when you've been faithful.. prayer is the key. .it calms ur nerves down.

XhosaNostra:
Happy belated birthday to you. You're an Aquarius, you'll bounce right back
Sorry about what happened to you, but don't do anything stupid to yourself or the other person. It's not worth it. This is temporary
When I'm upset over stuff like this, I like to shut everyone out & just think for myself. In my solitude I always find strength. I'm not very good at taking advice. Hence I always need a minute by myself, away from all the opinions & noise. After I'm done putting my emotions in order, I can face the world again. Basically, I just get over stuff. There's no secret formula. You gotta allow yourself time to think & feel, that's all it takes imo.

Wow my move on game is tight too.
Maybe it's an Aquarian thingy afterall.