Okay...I created this moniker just because of this..I really need your advice..
I was posted to ughelli,Delta State during my service and since then i have been here even after my service ended..Along the line I meet this lady in her mid-30s, a beautiful one in a supermarket(bestway supermarket) and from there we became friends. At about a week later I met her same location and we just greeted each other. Luckily again we met there in about a month later and it was then we exchanged contacts and we began chatting..Eventually we became close friends,I visited her(since I really had no friends here) she stays alone..from there feelings started and one day when I visited her,she insisted I sleep over..That night we had unprotected sex..I was scared and she told me i shouldn't worry that she's disease free..She later asked me out and i agreed...She's has opened a shop for me (bet9ja shop, well furnished) and she's says we should get married that she will sponsor the wedding..Shes very beautiful, rich and good in bed...Please nairalanders I need ur advice, she loves me and i love her also but I'm scared of what my family and friends would say..i might be ridiculed...I have secretly done hiv and other screening test twice and it showed am negative. I'm 23 years old

what are you waiting for if you cannot make up your mind kindly inbox me her digits ejooo.
on a serious note if you know that you cannot take the relationship to the next level kindly make it known to her immediately so you don't waste her time further.

If you truly love her, why then address her as your sugar mummy, if u are really interested in her money I advise u go for it and don't care what anyone will say, you can get divorced when you're tired of the marriage. All win na win.


I sight u Bad boy, the BBA dey solidly behind you.

Marry her and become a full time houseboy/toy.


Anyway this thread is becoming hotter and sweeter as you go down . Make i park one corner dey observe.

Baba I envy you o aje!... F**k what people have to say and beside are you gonna tell them she's your sugar mommy abi the woman you love and would love to settle down with?

You obviously no like her reach... u still call her sugar mummy..lol... the money still dey ur eye... kwantinu until she brings out the warri in her... better get sense before she change am... as u dey its not a proposal... say No first make u see... congrats bro cos as u dey u don marry or u go soon dey hospital or worse... lol

Wooow. I'm flabbergasted all of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy. This shows That, these men are only envious of the female folks and lacks the opportunity to turn themselves into feminine gender, if not, they would have been worst or done worst. Look how they are cheering him up.

What do I expect, we are in a generation of bloody hypocrites and emasculated sissies.

Report her to the nearest police station

* whistling* Amaka disappoint me, iyeneke confusion...

I'm really trying hard not to laugh here.

Paxie55:
Wooow. I'm flabbergasted none of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy.

What do I expect, we are in a generation of bloody hypocrites and emasculated sissies.

You won't find them here.
Bloody hypocrites.

Reiko:
Okay...I created this moniker just because of this... I really need your advice..

Why you create new moniker na, are you one of our resident hardworking alpha-male?

Anyway, the mistake you made was accepting those gifts. Very few people are capable of giving without expecting anything in return, she wants commitment from you. A woman of that age could be desperate and employ every trick in her arsenal to hook an unsuspecting naive man.

I think you should slowly start withdrawing. Since it is NYSC, you would be done in record time. She knew what she was up to all along, I am sure you knew too. You thought you could eat her tangible & intangible assets, then run away. For some reasons, maybe her actions and utterances, you have seen it would come with consequences, that is why you decided to tell us. Don't allow your love for freebies block your senses in future.

Reiko:
Okay...I created this moniker just because of this..I really need your advice..
I was posted to ughelli,Delta State during my service and since then i have been here even after my service ended..Along the line I meet this lady in her mid-30s, a beautiful one in a supermarket(bestway supermarket) and from there we became friends. At about a week later I met her same location and we just greeted each other. Luckily again we met there in about a month later and it was then we exchanged contacts and we began chatting..Eventually we became close friends,I visited her(since I really had no friends here) she stays alone..from there feelings started and one day when I visited her,she insisted I sleep over..That night we had unprotected sex..I was scared and she told me i shouldn't worry that she's disease free..She later asked me out and i agreed...She's has opened a shop for me (bet9ja shop, well furnished) and she's says we should get married that she will sponsor the wedding..Shes very beautiful, rich and good in bed...Please nairalanders I need ur advice, she loves me and i love her also but I'm scared of what my family and friends would say..i might be ridiculed...I have secretly done hiv and other screening test twice and it showed am negative. I'm 23 years old

Baba you have entered real trouble o, going by your writeup she must have invested in you alot.
That woman can get you killed if you dump her, but marrying a woman who is 12years older, hell no.

Saintino111:

Baba you have entered real trouble o, going by your writeup she must have invested in you alot.
That woman can get you killed if you dump her, but marrying a woman who is 12years older, hell no.

Ada Please, don't say that.
Nobi him mate deh marry their grannies? The only difference na green card.

Pass her come since you no get sense, I over ready for that kind marriage for this naija economy everything na format

Saintino111:

Baba you have entered real trouble o, going by your writeup she must have invested in you alot.
That woman can get you killed if you dump her, but marrying a woman who is 12years older, hell no.

Yea she has...she open a shop for me spending about 500k in the process ,she gives me money for upkeep and I'm really in a tight corner now,I don't want to hurt her...she sees me as her last bus stop...

After allowing ur parents to waste money training u in school and NYSC at age 23,u want to repay them with a lady above 30 as a wife.....put yourself in ur fathers shoe son

experienced sex and money still dey deceive this one

love fire

you're in there for the money Bros......at the end, it's your cross, carry it

an idiot like you who do not have direction in life have no other choice but to marry her by force and live a miserable life

Paxie55:
Wooow. I'm flabbergasted all of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy. This shows That, these men are only envious of the female folks and lacks the opportunity to turn themselves into feminine gender, if not, they would have been worst or done worst. Look how they are cheering him up.

What do I expect, we are in a generation of bloody hypocrites and emasculated sissies.

"menists"... this must be new

You better flee from her and stop wasting the lady's time

chocboi78:
After allowing ur parents to waste money training u in school and NYSC at age 23,u want to repay them with a lady above 30 as a wife.....put yourself in ur fathers shoe son

This is exactly what is holding me back..all the hopes and expectation of my family will just crash....

Reiko:


Yea she has...she open a shop for me spending about 500k in the process ,she gives me money for upkeep and I'm really in a tight corner now,I don't want to hurt her...she sees me as her last bus stop...

tell her your parents wount approve of it.... If she threatens to collect the shop ,money and other benefits, gladly give them up and run away from delta state

chocboi78:
After allowing ur parents to waste money training u in school and NYSC at age 23,u want to repay them with a lady above 30 as a wife.....put yourself in ur fathers shoe son

lol what if the father no get shoe.

Op should carry his cross when he was "enyoying" juicy things and economic emancipation where we there?

Reiko:


Yea she has...she open a shop for me spending about 500k in the process ,she gives me money for upkeep and I'm really in a tight corner now,I don't want to hurt her...she sees me as her last bus stop...

Take my advice, if you don't want to marry her, find out the kind of person she is, if she is the type take can destory you, leave Delta if she is the dangerous type. Save your life.

Paxie55:
Wooow. I'm flabbergasted all of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy. This shows That, these men are only envious of the female folks and lacks the opportunity to turn themselves into feminine gender, if not, they would have been worst or done worst. Look how they are cheering him up.

What do I expect, we are in a generation of bloody hypocrites and emasculated sissies.

Shut up what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Paxie55:
Wooow. I'm flabbergasted all of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy. This shows That, these men are only envious of the female folks and lacks the opportunity to turn themselves into feminine gender, if not, they would have been worst or done worst. Look how they are cheering him up.

What do I expect, we are in a generation of bloody hypocrites and emasculated sissies.

Shut up what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

Paxie55:
Ada Please, don't say that. Nobi him mate deh marry their grannies? The only difference na green card.

That one na for obodo oyibo na, here na 9ja, with all the society problems.

Reiko:
Okay...I created this moniker just because of this..I really need your advice..
I was posted to ughelli,Delta State during my service and since then i have been here even after my service ended..Along the line I meet this lady in her mid-30s, a beautiful one in a supermarket(bestway supermarket) and from there we became friends. At about a week later I met her same location and we just greeted each other. Luckily again we met there in about a month later and it was then we exchanged contacts and we began chatting..Eventually we became close friends,I visited her(since I really had no friends here) she stays alone..from there feelings started and one day when I visited her,she insisted I sleep over..That night we had unprotected sex..I was scared and she told me i shouldn't worry that she's disease free..She later asked me out and i agreed...She's has opened a shop for me (bet9ja shop, well furnished) and she's says we should get married that she will sponsor the wedding..Shes very beautiful, rich and good in bed...Please nairalanders I need ur advice, she loves me and i love her also but I'm scared of what my family and friends would say..i might be ridiculed...I have secretly done hiv and other screening test twice and it showed am negative. I'm 23 years old

guy is not easy to get a rich girl DAT love you. age is s number and I think u live her too. dont listen to anybody cos when u are down some small girls ur age wont marry u.guy settle down with her she got property for you.lucky guy

She's has opened a shop for me (bet9ja shop, well furnished) and she's says we should get married that she will sponsor the wedding..Shes very beautiful, rich and good in bed...Please nairalanders I need ur advice, she loves me and i love her also but I'm scared of what my family and friends would say..i might be ridiculed.

But why are you scared na?
Why will your family ridicule you?

Isn't this the independent supportive woman Nigerian men seek?

Reiko:
Okay...I created this moniker just because of this..I really need your advice..
I was posted to ughelli,Delta State during my service and since then i have been here even after my service ended..Along the line I meet this lady in her mid-30s, a beautiful one in a supermarket(bestway supermarket) and from there we became friends. At about a week later I met her same location and we just greeted each other. Luckily again we met there in about a month later and it was then we exchanged contacts and we began chatting..Eventually we became close friends,I visited her(since I really had no friends here) she stays alone..from there feelings started and one day when I visited her,she insisted I sleep over..That night we had unprotected sex..I was scared and she told me i shouldn't worry that she's disease free..She later asked me out and i agreed...She's has opened a shop for me (bet9ja shop, well furnished) and she's says we should get married that she will sponsor the wedding..Shes very beautiful, rich and good in bed...Please nairalanders I need ur advice, she loves me and i love her also but I'm scared of what my family and friends would say..i might be ridiculed...I have secretly done hiv and other screening test twice and it showed am negative. I'm 23 years old

what did your family say when she opened the shop for you and have been doing you well both in and out of bed? Oga if you're nt intrested in her for the long term tell her na... Moreover nysc na one year of flexing she might understand or use you for ritual... Stop using your family as disguise

chocboi78:
After allowing ur parents to waste money training u in school and NYSC at age 23,u want to repay them with a lady above 30 as a wife.....put yourself in ur fathers shoe son

he shld marry a woman of 25 broke and always disturbing for money. wat d different between woman of 35 and 25 .guy forget I dont think u Eva love a woman.