Lowkey01:

BiggyB242:
You weren't smart enough; you are still young though. You would have done a business that can you could abscond anytime with the cash.
She's obviously manipulating you with her money, but you going to lose everything if you say no to her proposer. You should be prepared because no parents will let their 23 y.o son get married to a 35 y.o woman.

Get enough cash and disappear, text her from an unknown location stating why you took this decision and destroy the sim. Remember where you get the sim(Kano State) should be different from your new location(River State).

Reiko:


She insists we have sex without condom for almost 6months now which I agreed...im thinking she's trying to get pregnant since menopause is not far away from her.....im crying now...i feel like I'm ruining my life....

jakandeola:
he shld marry a woman of 25 broke and always disturbing for money. wat d different between woman of 35 and 25 .guy forget I dont think u Eva love a woman.

Reiko:


Im done with nysc, she's the reason I stayed behind...she said she would establish me if I stay and which she did...u know no job anywhere so i had to take her offer...She's even planning to open another business outlet 4me...She's just tying me down with money

wetdick:


he didnt ask for those gifts, she manipulated him because she knew he is 23, she took advantage of his young age. this is exploitation very common among desperate women who want marriage

Akious2k2:







I feel if he truly loves her , and can stand up for her . there is nothing wrong in it .
But wit his wailing online, he doesn't love her . he's with her for material gains and she's just in her 30s. Its not like she's 40 or 50s.

Anyways na him sabi.

She should take her the bet Nija biz from him , let him go and hustle and see how it is , to make money and be a man .

Some men in their mid 30s and 40s no get job, they are looking for a saviour like this woman , dem no see.

Shishi them no get ! Ladies are running away from them , cos no money .

If dem see 50years old pretty woman that's rich and ready to sponsor their biz plan , dem Go shout halleluyah! Grab her with both hands and legs . Even marry the next day !
Please be sincere... If this guy happens to be your son, would you give him this same piece of advice?

Akious2k2:







I feel if he truly loves her , and can stand up for her . there is nothing wrong in it .
But wit his wailing online, he doesn't love her . he's with her for material gains and she's just in her 30s. Its not like she's 40 or 50s.

Anyways na him sabi.

She should take her the bet Nija biz from him , let him go and hustle and see how it is , to make money and be a man .

Some men in their mid 30s and 40s no get job, they are looking for a saviour like this woman , dem no see.

Shishi them no get ! Ladies are running away from them , cos no money .

If dem see 50years old pretty woman that's rich and ready to sponsor their biz plan , dem Go shout halleluyah! Grab her with both hands and legs . Even marry the next day !
Please be sincere... If this guy happens to be your son, would you give him this same piece of advice?

Paxie55:
Wooow. I'm flabbergasted all of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy. This shows That, these men are only envious of the female folks and lacks the opportunity to turn themselves into feminine gender, if not, they would have been worst or done worst. Look how they are cheering him up.

Daeylar:


Normal.
The Stupid hypocrites only come out of their cages when they see F on a moniker,
When it's their gender. You won't see shiit.
That's why their bitterness is so high.
They wish they could do what they feel the female gender is doing, and since they can't, out of envy they start branding women names meant for them alone.

That's why I consider ladies who follow these men to start shouting hoe, golddigger to their fellow women ( 9 times out of 10 they just do it to win the praise of these clowns) or to preach to ladies act in a certain way when it comes to men and finances (again, 9 out of 10, just to kiss the ass of these men) and shame the ladies who don't live according to their preachings extremely pathetic.

makydebbie:
You won't find them here.
Bloody hypocrites.

victorian:






Its truly clear. He cannot cope with the way he's wailing online .

So Baba God , collect this blessing from the guy and give a matured man who deserves such woman . at 35, she's not old .. Am close to 35! And guys are still on my case

Paxie55:
Wooow. I'm flabbergasted all of our nl menist and hoe shouters have deserted this thread.
None has called him a gold digger, hoe, farm tool, olosho and all type of derogatory names being allotted to ladies here, even when the op vividly call her his sugar mummy. This shows That, these men are only envious of the female folks and lacks the opportunity to turn themselves into feminine gender, if not, they would have been worst or done worst. Look how they are cheering him up.

What do I expect, we are in a generation of bloody hypocrites and emasculated sissies.

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Does that mean you also have a 23 years old boy as a bf?

Reiko:
Okay...I created this moniker just because of this..I really need your advice..
I was posted to ughelli,Delta State during my service and since then i have been here even after my service ended..Along the line I meet this lady in her mid-30s, a beautiful one in a supermarket(bestway supermarket) and from there we became friends. At about a week later I met her same location and we just greeted each other. Luckily again we met there in about a month later and it was then we exchanged contacts and we began chatting..Eventually we became close friends,I visited her(since I really had no friends here) she stays alone..from there feelings started and one day when I visited her,she insisted I sleep over..That night we had unprotected sex..I was scared and she told me i shouldn't worry that she's disease free..She later asked me out and i agreed...She's has opened a shop for me (bet9ja shop, well furnished) and she's says we should get married that she will sponsor the wedding..Shes very beautiful, rich and good in bed...Please nairalanders I need ur advice, she loves me and i love her also but I'm scared of what my family and friends would say..i might be ridiculed...I have secretly done hiv and other screening test twice and it showed am negative. I'm 23 years old

LordAdam16:


Sorry did I read manipulated?

Dude is 23. Alexander the Great quelled a rebellion at 16. At 23, an ancient Spartan male kill count would be in the high double figures. And here you're making excuses for a fellow who's spent 4-5 years in college and is doing NYSC.

He simply can't say he's ignorant: If he is, doesn't mean he doesn't deserve whatever recipe that unfortunate lady has got cooking. All actions have consequences, ignorance be damned. And hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.

The OP is making my skin crawl. I'm not a fan of dishonest folks who like playing ping-pong with the lives of others. He's incredibly selfish, he's only asking for opinions because his primitive brain can't figure a way out from the quagmire he's landed himself.

Na Delta (specifically Urhobo) babe e dey follow play. Beaus wen no send guy marital status, dem dey marry and born for any baga. She kon still hold small thing establish you, you 1 kon form sharp guy. Oh lord of mercy, d way I dey pity diz guy.

@OP, better come clean and be prepared to refund everything if she doesn't take kindly to your brutal, tho' belated honesty. At the worst, you'd only have to settle her like keke riders settle the original keke owners. Next time, don't play this dangerous game.

-Lord

chocboi78:
tell her your parents wount approve of it.... If she threatens to collect the shop ,money and other benefits, gladly give them up and run away from delta state

Depressedkidd:

Everybody is a modafn hypocrite o.
Las las we'll all be okay

pocohantas:


I know right, I can imagine you promising her your destiny while ramming in like your very existence depends on your cuming.

Go carry your cross o.

After ejaculation comes evaluation...

JONNYSPUTE:
Op is nothing but a lazy gold digger. I detest guys like you. Walahi. All along you knew what you were indulging in is very wrong but you didn't give a Bleep hoping you will outsmart her,now she has shown you how stupid and foolish you are by demanding marriage from you. Why asking us,go ahead and do what she wants. She can't spend all her money on you just for nothing.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
ooooooooooooooooo! Which niggas? Niggas with no atom of pride and dignity? Na when d woman seize car key or TV remote una go come NL dey shout about emasculation. Better hustle for ur money

Reiko:


She insists we have sex without condom for almost 6months now which I agreed...im thinking she's trying to get pregnant since menopause is not far away from her.....im crying now...i feel like I'm ruining my life....

Earthquake1:


If a lady offers you 500,000 betshop and gifts tell me you won't accept it?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Depends on what I actually wanted for my life.If I take it,that means I should be able to take whatever condition that is attached to it.So if he feels he cannot do what the lady is saying,then let him refund her back her stuffs and move in with his life but if he cant ,let him marry the said lady. One can't eat his cake and still have it.

Earthquake1:


So much wisdom for a 23yr old corper