HARDDON:
Dating Drills how far I've drifted from your alluring thrills!

Romance we must once again.
No matter how life tries, she cant separate me from your warm embrace.

Romance we must again

HARDDON:
Dating Drills how far I've drifted from your alluring thrills!

Romance we must once again.
No matter how life tries, she cant separate me from your warm embrace.

Romance we must again

HARDDON:
Darthv,

If a lady ever ask u if u guys can date, here are they responses:

1) wow, r u sure u can handle my heat? My heart is so big oooo, I should warn u, can u carry it?

2) make some funny faces n say; nah, that is not the way u do it, u r meant to take ME out on a date to a posh place, do me five course meal , after that we go drinking in a serene environ, then u look out for the right time to ask me out.

3)

Emperor380:
A very big thumbs up to u Hardon and other gurus in the house. I have a case on ground and I will need sum assistance from u.
I just started my degree program this month, there is this girl from my department that I really want to date. I'm not really a novice cos I've had a lot of women in the past but its been a year since I broke with my last girl. The whole thing has skipped my mind and all I need are sum tips on hw to approach her. my frnd and I are the youngest in the department while the rest are years older than us. The main prob is that I'm feeling inferior due to the class and size of the babe, I keep imagining possible negative responses from her nd this keeps stopping me . Pls help me regain my confidence, Thanks

NNAMDIII:
Since mama and papa born me na once i don fuvk and i never date before, i too dey fear woman and i dey like classic babes . One of my guys referred me to this thread, oboy na page 1- 200 i wan read.



Maybe i fit turn boss

HARDDON:


At emphasized, We got just your antidote here: https://datingdrill.com/how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-fine-girls/#more-711

Thank me later! Soon you would be referrign others too.

NNAMDIII:
The thing is that I'm short. 1.69 metres tall

olaboy1:
Guys always pay attention to what women say and try to deconstruct their statements. I know I haven’t done this well myself, but we all live to learn.

Women are right when they say men think with their di$$cks and HARDON has many times warned us to be in total control of j-rod.

What women are trying to tell us is that
1. How can someone be so stupid to accept all my manipulation and emotional torture I dish out and still want to do everything within his power to make me happy

2. How can someone be so foolish to go and hustle for several hours and just throw his money at me without me lifting a finger

3. How can someone be so stupid to think that I don’t have sexual biological needs just like him and he is ready to pay me for the same pleasure we both enjoy.

Hmmmmm I guess these men don’t use their brains to think but their j-rod. And that’s why you hear women saying I am more comfortable having male friends than female friends, guys what they are telling us is that it’s hard to use and manipulate females like themselves but a walk in the park in using men like a piece of disposable tissue paper.

Now guys this is the fix

List all the things women do to upset you and drive you insane...from shaming you because you don’t let her use you for financial gains, to friend-zoning, to cancelling of dates, to using you as an emotional tampon when the bad boys pump and dump her, to outright disrespect, to not accepting NO for an answer and getting all crazy about it, to silent treatment or blocking/un-friending you on Facebook etc.

Do a reverse psychology on them and do exactly all these to them and I can bet with my two balls that your dating life will never remain the same again.

Through the years, women have slowly, but surely, assumed the dating mantle that is detrimental to men by adopting a dual mating strategy, using low/average tier men for resources and high tier alpha men who don’t give a sh,,!t for sex.

So guys keep your heads up above the water level and ignore all that sexual thirst. Protect yourselves from being used by this low hanging fruit fem-bot and concentrate on personal development and financial investment towards retirement holidaying with a bottle of Ciroc in Bali or Phuket.

Spread this message to all your beta friends and invite them to come on this thread and witness HARDON’s gift to MANkind.

Raalsalghul:
I truly envy guys on this thread. If chasing women are your challenges, that means every other thing must have been handled: career, finance etc
Thumbs up!

kollinzgee:


this is not a compliment i know where you coming from bro ,is anything wrong with you pursuing your career,pursuing you finance and doing what nature has programmed all straight men to do which is to attract the opposite sex for the life to continue.removing women from your life is impossible and if you do its not natural its means something is wrong with you. answer this questiom if a very pretty lady from your street tell you she loves you will you chase her away or turn her down i need an answer .guys like you talk this way because you have being rejected so many times by women so you neglect that part of your life to face other aspect .[/b]we dont chase women here we improve ourselves by emamcipating our ballz so we can face life challenges with optimism bro you are not more focused and determined than guys here...

kollinzgee:


this is not a compliment i know where you coming from bro ,is anything wrong with you pursuing your career,pursuing you finance and doing what nature has programmed all straight men to do which is to attract the opposite sex for the life to continue.removing women from your life is impossible and if you do its not natural its means something is wrong with you. answer this questiom if a very pretty lady from your street tell you she loves you will you chase her away or turn her down i need an answer .[b]guys like you talk this way because you have being rejected so many times by women so you neglect that part of your life to face other aspect .[/b]we dont chase women here we improve ourselves by emamcipating our ballz so we can face life challenges with optimism bro you are not more focused and determined than guys here...

Raalsalghul:

Respect your opinion but quit making assumptions about me.

But I guess at the end of the day, it all comes down to balance and preference depending on the life stage the dude finds himself.

Take for instance these two ladies's reject: Guy A and B.

Guy A: Working class dude, has his apartment, nice ride and probably a building project somewhere.
Guy B: Finished NYSC 2 years ago, no job/business yet and currently staying with an aunt in Lagos. Still hoping to clinch that good job.

Assuming those two guys came to this thread and put those drills to action. Whom do you think will be more successful?

I get the fact that you can juggle women issues and other endeavors. But bros, e get stage wey person go dey na to blank out the whole woman thing entirely.
Though that is not to say we no get broke guys wey sabi play game, but at a point they too will re-evaluate their priorities.

kollinzgee:


All i can see from your post is a person who is not an adherent follower of the thread.if you follow this thread from the beginning you will notice this thread is all about " sending less " in other words means not prioritizing women or living to impress them like most guys do or will later do including you too.what you are saying now is that you wanna hustle now get successful and then bring in a woman who may not worth it.i pray you get successful in your life endeavours i also pray you meet a coolheaded woman not like the confused majority out there who cannot be satisfied with just your success .my advice for you is dont be a boring boyfriend or husband because they will never tell you .marriage is a lifetime contract and believe me not many women can cope with a man that doesnt understand them my one cent though .i dont know about you or others but as for me. i have gained selfworth,selfconfidence ,self esteem social intelligence from this thread i just realised i was born to lead i never sell myself short...

HARDDON:


At emphasized, We got just your antidote here: https://datingdrill.com/how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-fine-girls/#more-711

Thank me later! Soon you would be referrign others too.

Godskidk:

Oga Harddon, I really need your advice. I met this girl 3 years ago, actually, she approached me. We got talking and we exchanged digits. I messed up real bad by being all nice and all then, spent a lot of time with her online. She knows how I feel and she feel same I guess, but the problem is that she's giving me the attitude. Like she doesn't want more than just platonic friendship... However, I want a future with her despite other girls I've met. Actually, I have other girls dying for a chance with me, cause I'm the kind of guy who can make a girl confess, but it seems this one defeats me in my own game. You know what they say, most times, you just can't have what you want, and you can't help wanting what you can't have... How do I go about it? Is it possible to turn her around? Any advice is acceptable.


P.s She's a year older than me but she's not aware of that.

DavidTheGeek:


She defeats you in your game because you want a future with her... and she knows it!

Your case isn't different from most of the ones we've addressed here in the past.

Why do you think other girls are dying for a chance with you? It has little to do with you being "a kind of guy who can make a girl confess" (whatever that means), but a lot to do with the fact that you are not paying attention to them.

When you chase a girl, she will run. It's their default mode. Haven't you observed that the girls you chase usually don't want you while the ones you don't chase are the ones who are dying to have you.

Right from the start you messed up with this girl. She approached you, great! You should have played hard to get!!! See, "hard to get" is not meant for girls alone, it's for guys too.

The way forward now is to make her feel you are losing interest in her and falling for a new girl, preferably her friend. In fact, if possible, her best friend.

No girl wants to lose her admirer to her friend and girls prefer guys who other girls like. So seduce her friend, gradually reduce communication with her and let her know it's the new girl that is taking your time now.

Mind you, you should never tell her directly. When i say "let her know", i mean you should find a way to communicate it indirectly. You can hangout with the new girl and post pictures of you guys having a swell time together on any social media site you know that she will see it.

If you do this correctly, she's going to show you some green light in order to lure you back to her nest. Don't dare fall for it! This time around, make her chase you shamelessly.

Good luck!

DavidTheGeek:


She defeats you in your game because you want a future with her... and she knows it!

Your case isn't different from most of the ones we've addressed here in the past.

Why do you think other girls are dying for a chance with you? It has little to do with you being "a kind of guy who can make a girl confess" (whatever that means), but a lot to do with the fact that you are not paying attention to them.

When you chase a girl, she will run. It's their default mode. Haven't you observed that the girls you chase usually don't want you while the ones you don't chase are the ones who are dying to have you.

Right from the start you messed up with this girl. She approached you, great! You should have played hard to get!!! See, "hard to get" is not meant for girls alone, it's for guys too.

The way forward now is to make her feel you are losing interest in her and falling for a new girl, preferably her friend. In fact, if possible, her best friend.

No girl wants to lose her admirer to her friend and girls prefer guys who other girls like. So seduce her friend, gradually reduce communication with her and let her know it's the new girl that is taking your time now.

Mind you, you should never tell her directly. When i say "let her know", i mean you should find a way to communicate it indirectly. You can hangout with the new girl and post pictures of you guys having a swell time together on any social media site you know that she will see it.

If you do this correctly, she's going to show you some green light in order to lure you back to her nest. Don't dare fall for it! This time around, make her chase you shamelessly.

Good luck!

DavidTheGeek:


She defeats you in your game because you want a future with her... and she knows it!

Your case isn't different from most of the ones we've addressed here in the past.

Why do you think other girls are dying for a chance with you? It has little to do with you being "a kind of guy who can make a girl confess" (whatever that means), but a lot to do with the fact that you are not paying attention to them.

When you chase a girl, she will run. It's their default mode. Haven't you observed that the girls you chase usually don't want you while the ones you don't chase are the ones who are dying to have you.

Right from the start you messed up with this girl. She approached you, great! You should have played hard to get!!! See, "hard to get" is not meant for girls alone, it's for guys too.

The way forward now is to make her feel you are losing interest in her and falling for a new girl, preferably her friend. In fact, if possible, her best friend.

No girl wants to lose her admirer to her friend and girls prefer guys who other girls like. So seduce her friend, gradually reduce communication with her and let her know it's the new girl that is taking your time now.

Mind you, you should never tell her directly. When i say "let her know", i mean you should find a way to communicate it indirectly. You can hangout with the new girl and post pictures of you guys having a swell time together on any social media site you know that she will see it.

If you do this correctly, she's going to show you some green light in order to lure you back to her nest. Don't dare fall for it! This time around, make her chase you shamelessly.

Good luck!

Godskidk:

Thanks for the advice, but there's a little problem... She's kinda introverted, no close friends, just colleagues, and I don't really know them... Is there any other way apart from going through her friend?

Godskidk:

Thanks for the advice, but there's a little problem... She's kinda introverted, no close friends, just colleagues, and I don't really know them... Is there any other way apart from going through her friend?

brandon180:
Did something like this to a girl, But it was her sister. Mehn it was crazy

COOL10:
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Hi,Dave. I'd like to know why @the bolded. Why must it be through covert displays.

DavidTheGeek:

Because you don't want it to come off as you trying hard.

If you do it directly, she would sense it's merely an attempt to make her jealous and that's going to work against you.

By doing it covertly, it appears you are naturally falling for someone else for real.