Fafesot:
She's not cheap we guys are the cheap one.. no matter hw bad her toasting skills are.. we will always say yes

not true bro....

rOsy247:


Including your mother and sisters I guess. What a way to describe Nigerian women. U need some pills.

I don't converse with low IQ individuals!

Take your time!

And if he doesn't feels samething as the lady he chop and move on.... don't just try it guys ain't reliable!

linearity:


Nook dis wan!

Collecting cash is not cheap, it all depends on the amount of cash collected.

Anything below N100k is cheap, but above is okay. USD preferrable and 1000 USD is by no means cheap, your opinion does not count!

how much is 1000USD, everything in life is not about money, you are still little later u will understand.

Creativebae:

Didn't know he was mentally deranged till that day oh.

It is alright.
But how do feel when you crush started chyking another bae?

I was just on instagram doing my thing when these British Nigerian girl liked half of my photos... i didnt do shìt.. the next day she came and like the remaining half of my photos..and sharparly o i saw the green light.. i ran to her DM and holla.. immediately she responded saying she have been waiting for me..i was really scared like what does she want from me.. she is in London..born and brought up there.. a UK Nigerian to be precised. She really pampers me i dunno why and she is so endowed like whatt . Well we video call all the time.. the iphone 7 i am using now she got it for me. I love this girl till death cos she is brave.. she wants me over to UK to be with her.. what should i do? Cos ASUU is wasting my time..

MRSoftapples:
She could be cheap and she could be brave.

It depends on her intentions, because lots of ladies will walk up to male celebs that are very rich just to flow with them but for selfish reasons.

Such ladies are not brave but cheap.

There are ladies too that will secretly admire guys because of their intelligence, character or self discipline, they can walk up to the guys and shoot their shot, these are the brave ones.

oooo my guy....u deserve a cold bottle of anytin u drink .....wise analysis ma guy

Deicide:
Why would a girl want to do that its not worth it abeg.....

First she has to monitor the guy for sometime know all his scheduled, then when it is right she would approach him and most times this doesn't go well cause the guy might just ignore here existence or tell her he doesn't want to talk or say shes not his type or make mockery about her with his friends and walk away.

Lets say the guy does manage to grant her audience, he hears what she has to say he tells her he is going to think about it knowing fully well he is going to be playing hard to get? Why should any girl go through this stress?

but na the guy come this world to suffer shey..........why are pple like this.....so all these steps that u mentioned should only b undertaken by the guy shey....that sheer inconsiderate"ness"

she's brave...

Judybash93:

U want to tell me u didn't notice such?

Am not saying am not cheap ooo but I think I have turn down something like that...

if a girl can't do that, then i don't see any reason for them to be fighting for gender equallity....

Pascalville:
I was just on instagram doing my thing when these British Nigerian girl liked half of my photos... i didnt do shìt.. the next day she came and like the remaining half of my photos..and sharparly o i saw the green light.. i ran to her DM and holla.. immediately she responded saying she have been waiting for me..i was really scared like what does she want from me.. she is in London..born and brought up there.. a UK Nigerian to be precised. She really pampers me i dunno why and she is so endowed like whatt . Well we video call all the time.. the iphone 7 i am using now she got it for me. I love this girl till death cos she is brave.. she wants me over to UK to be with her.. what should i do? Cos ASUU is wasting my time..

you're having a bad dream . . . Wake up

On a more serious note,I'll say you are blessed

faithfull18:
It's not advised. That's my final answer.

U prefer to die in silence while what u want slips off?

adaminda4you:
Its not advisable for a girl to walk up to a guy and toast him. She should just show him the green light for him to take the necessary action. If he doesn't respond then be sure that he is not interested.

One of the few posts that makes sense here.
It always end badly if a lady approach a guy, guys have ego and cannot be proud of such in the midst of their friends.
Also, that's the way it's wired in this part of the world.. that a man should approach a lady and not the other way round.
On the other hand, women cant handle rejection if the guy says 'No'. She would feel so terrible and be emotionally down for longer days, especially if she's not the extroverted type.

ceeroh:
To be sincere, if a girl approaches me.. I go fear oo, I won't trust her one bit. She might have an ulterior motive. But anyways, I'll try not to rubbish her. We can become friends and I'll then take time to study her. If I'm sure I'm safe, then I might give it a shot.

U have refused to drop some of the old fashion theories that our grand fathers fed us with in the olden days.

Upgrade and Updates are not just only good for devices. Human begins need them too.

ebukamen:
You guys are just forming 'you are not cheap ' . Nonsense! You will soon take advantage of the girl's love for you.
I will advise our girls to know that guys hardly appreciate what they didn't fight for

Exactly!

dulux07:
Brave.
Cheap is how quickly she opens her leg for him.

What is wrong with you people?

dulux07:
Brave.

Cheap is how quickly she opens her leg for him.

What is wrong with you people? Why can't you people try to change your mentality?
Tsk tsk.

Brave

bobolizim:
brave.Well, I was asked out by a lady recently. She told me that she's in love madly with me and I accepted, cause I love her too. In fact, I really do love her. I do not see a big deal in what she's done and ain't gonna take her for granted for doing so. Most important thing is we both love each other. It all boils down to ideology and refinement.

Not all guys are the same, i'll rather be on d safe side

She's not, she's expressing her feelings.

no lady should take such risk. as for me I can never do such..... approach a guy? hell no! aw suppress d feelings n pray....Lord unattach my heart from such guy

"Taps mic and clears throat"

Let me start with the story of Queen Sheba, who heard of the wisdom of Solomon, and she left her own country, to visit him.

Anyone should correct me, but if I'm not mistaken, I don't recall anywhere in the Bible, where she was condemned for going after she wanted.

So what am I trying to say?

Life is too short ladies. If you admire any guy, either here on Nairaland or anywhere else.

Walk up to him and tell him your mind. If he sees you as cheap. Don't fret. Your mother carried you for nine months, so you can never be cheap.

Walking up to a guy, indicates MATURITY, BRAVERY, CONFIDENCE, CLASS and STYLE.

Don't ever let your affections for someone, hold you to ransom.

Should he say yes Great. And if no, turn your back (just as you turn your back on your faeces, and flush it away), and go your way, with your head held high.

It's not man's world, it's a world for every human.

"Drops mic and leaves"

marvin906:
she's brave..
which is rare..
most chicks will just drink poison than confess their feelings

the relationship am so enjoying right now, I approached him, he had the same feelings towards me but not that bold enough to approach me, we're so happy now, that if he hasn't heard from me, nothing matters anymore

adaminda4you:
Its not advisable for a girl to walk up to a guy and toast him. She should just show him the green light for him to take the necessary action. If he doesn't respond then be sure that he is not interested.

bbe pls aw do we know d green lights...can u pls enlighten or shed more light pls

OwoukoUrua:
you're having a bad dream . . . Wake up

On a more serious note,I'll say you are blessed

bro its real.. i facetime her every evening.. me myself find it hard to believe..she is really loaded too..

She's the most amazing and coolest ever!! Love me a girl that is real!