Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,208,835 members, 8,003,971 topics. Date: Saturday, 16 November 2024 at 03:26 AM

Hard Facts Of Life. - Romance (4) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Hard Facts Of Life. (19068 Views)

Facts Of The Two Sisters Who Married Oba Of Benin, Ewuare II / Unfortunate Facts Of Life You Only Realize As An Adult / 25 Miraclous Facts Of Sex And What You Need To Know (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (11) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Veiniously: 7:40am On Feb 10, 2019
MJBOLT:
that guy is a clueless noob,christians and muslims do not even worship the same god

Who told you
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Veiniously: 7:42am On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
What if you god is the wrong god?

What wrong God again
As far am concerned it's not
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 7:43am On Feb 10, 2019
Veiniously:

Who told you
Muslims and christians don't serve the same god. Go and read the bible and quran.
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by MJBOLT: 7:45am On Feb 10, 2019
Veiniously:
Who told you

1 Like 1 Share

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kobicove(m): 7:50am On Feb 10, 2019
This is very insightful and also largely true

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 7:58am On Feb 10, 2019
Veiniously:


What wrong God again
As far am concerned it's not
There are many gods known to man eg. Yahweh, Krishnna, Allah, Eledumare (the Yoruba indigenous god) etc. What makes you think that you god is the right one out of all gods?
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 8:12am On Feb 10, 2019
MJBOLT:
.
grin you dey mind am?
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by TheEminentLaity: 10:36am On Feb 10, 2019
It seems you misunderstood what I posted earlier. Further reading of comments from this thread made me understand that, from your admittance, you do not know how the universe came about, neither do you know of 'the process(es)' from which it came about. How then did you become an atheist, what informed your decision, moreso if you came from a religious background? The gist of my earlier post is that you make suppositions with a certainty that is similar to religious fundamentalists that say 'there is (a) god'

Confirmed scientific theories are never wrong since they are based on observations, they may only be upgraded or superceded by a better one in the event of new observations.
You display an ignorance of the history of science. Chemistry had it foundations on alchemy. Theories are superceded, some become obsolete and some eventually turn out to be wrong. A simple internet search would reveal that. I don't believe in arguing for argument sake and I find many atheists reason that way. I would rather learn than win an argument.

Your original post reads like you are certain that there is no god, no afterlife, no 'supernatural' abilities even when you do not even know anything about the universe and the processes that led to its existence. It makes one think that you do this only to annoy the religious folks since you do not have any basis for your somewhat extreme positions.

I am not religious btw, neither do I believe in any god because I do not see anything in my existence and learning that shows that there is one. My position is based on something, mainly science and personal experience, but science itself is prone to changes. Why I insist that one cannot be stand on science and speak like a zealot.

Also, one cannot be an atheist – ala THERE IS NO GOD – in the literal sense because being that also requires evidence to show that there isn't a god, which everyone knows has not been proven. Those who then outrightly dismiss completely any possibility of a god/beign/intelligence is no different from a god believer.

https://www.famousscientists.org/10-most-famous-scientific-theories-that-were-later-debunked/
https://www.toptenz.net/top-10-most-famous-scientific-theories-that-turned-out-to-be-wrong.php

Martinez39:
Okay. grin


If you read my posts, you would know that I am talking about religious gods when I say that there is no god. My observations has led me to conclude that mankind is own it's own to solve it's problem and there is no help coming from anywhere.


If you mean near death experiences, check out one of my recent topics about NDEs under the moniker Martinez19.



When talked about abilities, I never meant physical abilities. Of course there are variations amongst us. I was talking about spiritual abilities. No one has spiritual abilities. Everyone is just human, nothing special. What is spiritually impossible for me is spiritually impossible for everyone.

Lol. What you call mysteries are natural processes that we haven't figured out yet. Confirmed scientific theories are never wrong since they are based on observations, they may only be upgraded or superceded by a better one in the event of new observations. Newton's law of gravity was superceded by General Relativity. Newton's law wasn't wrong but it had a small range of validity which was expanded by Einstein's theory. grin

2 Likes

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by TessBiwom(f): 11:12am On Feb 10, 2019
Do you believe that you exist?what makes feel the man you call"dad"is actually your father?
What gives you the assurance that when you go to bed at night,you will see the dawn of a new day?

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Amadaz(m): 11:19am On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
When we are born, our minds are at tabula rasa. What we know depends on our environment, experiences, exposure and, where possible, the indoctrination our society has given us. Reality is such that no matter what we believe, it doesn't change and it doesn't care about our feelings. Given that many grew up believing the wrong things and are still believing these things, I find it important to set things straight. It might be that many are sensible but still not aware of certain things. Without wasting your time, here are hard facts about life.

1) THERE IS NO GOD AND YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN : a lot might not agree but I challenge you to show me any evidence that god exists. Your life struggle is yours to bear and no god is coming to help you out. No matter how much you pray, what god you believe in and how morally upright you are, nature will always take it's course and if you don't do the right thing, you won't get the right result. Religion, psychic stuffs and other spiritual stuffs are ridiculous falsehoods with no sound basis in reality. Do away with them and start facing reality.

2) THERE IS NO AFTERLIFE : once you die, that's it. Your cease existing forever after you die and there is no coming back. So do all you want now that you are alive. This world is all there is, there is no spiritual/unseen world. This is where you succeed, this is where you fail. If you don't make it here, forget it and there is no second chance. This is where you are happy, this where you are sad. Once time has passed, it can never be regained.

3) PEOPLE HAVE THEIR PRICE : people are not moral. With the right amount of money and desperation, people will do immoral and mean things. For many, morality is only when it's convenient. Learn not to trust anyone for even your enemies may smile a lot. Money reveals people's true colour. When it comes to money, people are not to be trusted and are mean spirited opportunists. When you have money, people (men and women) will gather round you. They don't give a damn about you but your money. Learn to say "no," spend your money on yourself and leave the rest for your children.

4) SUCCESS IS NEVER GUARANTEED UNTIL IT IS ACHIEVED : that boy or girl that looked almost certain to succeed might end up turning out to be a "failure" in future. That boy or girl that was looked down upon might be the highest achiever in future. No one, I repeat no one, can know the future. You might do everything right and die before you reap the fruit of your labour. You might suddenly have an accident or disease that would render you useless no matter how bright you were. You might be lucky to make it. There is nothing like a way to make it in life instead all you have are principles that increases your chances at making it in life but chances are what they are and are not certainty. Until it is achieved, success is not guaranteed.

5) LIFE ON EARTH HAS NO PURPOSE : you exist for no reason. The universe doesn't owe you any meaning to your existence. The meaning your life has is the meaning you give to it. There is nothing like destiny and fate. Your life is how you plan it.

6) NOT EVERYONE WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE : we all know this but still like to act like success is our birthright because we think our life is in the hands of an imaginary god. Even if we all work hard, not all of us will make it and you could be among those that don't make it. Even among those that succeed, there will be variation. Some will make it early while some will make it late. Some will be privileged to be born in a successful family while some will be born in poor families.

7) YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL : that HIV you hear about can happen to you. That cancer you hear about can happen to you. That rape you read about in the news can happen to you. That ghastly accident you read on nairaland, newspaper and see on tv can happen to you. In short anything bad can happen to you. That untimely death you see and hear from wherever can happen to you. Who the hell are you to think that you are immune to these things?

cool THE UNIVERSE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT MORALITY. ALL IS CAUSE AND EFFECT : good things happen to bad people; good things happen to good people; bad things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. Do the right thing and you will get the right result. It doesn't matter whether your approach is legal or not (legality and illegality are man's construct), apply the rules and you will get the right results. Cause and effect agrees with the strong overcoming the weak that's why your corrupt and powerful politician can unduly put you in jail and you will rot there no matter how morally upright you are. Your saving grace is if there is a more powerful force to save you and keep him in check. The universe cares about rules and facts not morality and your constitution.

9) INJUSTICE, NO KARMA AND WICKEDNESS : The universe doesn't care about your wellbeing and disputes. That guy that raped you might never be caught and would go on to marry and be happy till he dies while you struggle to make a living. That rich guy that snatched your girlfriend or the girlfriend that cruelly snubbed you and went for a rich man might end up building a happy marriage and home while you keep on struggling. Justice is man's duty to uphold. That man that stole all your money might invest it and be successful while you rot away; that man or woman that stole your idea might use it to make billions while you rot away into oblivion and poverty; that fake friend that cruelly snubbed you during your hard time might live a life of fulfilment while you rot away in misery; that cultist that shot your sister might never be found and may go on to live a successful and happy life. There is nothing like karma, if man doesn't seek justice then justice will never be implemented. Sorry for you if you think god will avenge your hurt and fight your battles. Sorry for you if the person you want to bring justice upon is very powerful. Take heart, it's life.

... to be continued
spot on
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 11:31am On Feb 10, 2019
TheEminentLaity:
It seems you misunderstood what I posted earlier. Further reading of comments from this thread made me understand that, from your admittance, you do not know how the universe came about, neither do you know of 'the process(es)' from which it came about. How then did you become an atheist, what informed your decision, moreso if you came from a religious background? The gist of my earlier post is that you make suppositions with a certainty that is similar to religious fundamentalists that say 'there is (a) god'
I became an atheist simply because there were no evidences to support the existence of any religious gods and their doctrines. I further concluded that these gods never existed and were made up when I critically and rigorously analysed their claims.


You display an ignorance of the history of science. Chemistry had it foundations on alchemy. Theories are superceded, some become obsolete and some eventually turn out to be wrong. A simple internet search would reveal that. I don't believe in arguing for argument sake and I find many atheists reason that way. I would rather learn than win an argument.
Do you know what it means when a scientific theory is confirmed? Since according to you theories change, you should be skeptical of antimalarial drugs because the principles behind might be wrong? I repeat no confirmed scientific theory is wrong. They can only be superceded and upgraded. Alchemy wasn't the foundation of chemistry, it was just scientists breaking away from superstition to face facts. It's like telling me that religion is the foundation of science. Alchemy is based on nonsense and assumptions without evidences but chemistry is based on evidence.

Your original post reads like you are certain that there is no god, no afterlife, no 'supernatural' abilities even when you do not even know anything about the universe and the processes that led to its existence. It makes one think that you do this only to annoy the religious folks since you do not have any basis for your somewhat extreme positions.
There is no afterlife. The concept of an afterlife or a spiritual world are man's invention because he doesn't want to die. Those that believe in an afterlife should bring evidence to support their claim. I observe human life and there is no shred of indication that there is an afterlife. You keep trying to put words in my mouth. I said no one has any spiritual ability or gifts. Do you know what I mean by that? It seems you don't. Abilities like telling the future, performing miracles, disappearing, divine anointing etc are nonsense and no one possesses them. Abilities like a prodigious memory, football mastery on the level of Lionel Messi, prodigious mathematical abilities etc. are not spiritual or supernatural. They are natural but rare. Rare.

I am not religious btw, neither do I believe in any god because I do not see anything in my existence and learning that shows that there is one. My position is based on something, mainly science and personal experience, but science itself is prone to changes. Why I insist that one cannot be stand on science and speak like a zealot.
Confirmed scientific theories cannot change but can only be improved. A scientist can speak like a zealot on issues that science has already figured out but all scientists become humble on issues they know nothing about.

Also, one cannot be an atheist – ala THERE IS NO GOD – in the literal sense because being that also requires evidence to show that there isn't a god, which everyone knows has not been proven. Those who then outrightly dismiss completely any possibility of a god/beign/intelligence is no different from a god believer.
Lol. Can you prove that there is no indestructible pink elephant eternally sleeping at the centre of sun? Religious people are the ones that claimed that there is god, it's left for them to prove their claim not athiests. One can be an atheist but it takes great erudition in science. A deep study of quantum mechanics, mathematics, biology and other disciplines reveals the handwriting on the wall though this handwriting hasn't been confirmed. This handwriting is that there is no god and everything is physical and can be explained when discovered. Many things which people spiritualized turned out to have physical explanations and there has never been any physical observation for which there was a physical explanation that turned out be spiritual in nature.

https://www.famousscientists.org/10-most-famous-scientific-theories-that-were-later-debunked/
https://www.toptenz.net/top-10-most-famous-scientific-theories-that-turned-out-to-be-wrong.php

I will check out your website. Lol. grin

2 Likes

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 11:40am On Feb 10, 2019
TessBiwom:
Do you believe that you exist?what makes feel the man you call"dad"is actually your father?
What gives you the assurance that when you go to bed at night,you will see the dawn of a new day?
I know I exist, it's self evident. How can I open a thread on nairaland if didn't exist? I don't know if I share the same DNA with my father but that's not important, the man that takes care of me is my father. Fatherhood is by responsibility not being a sperm donor. I don't need any assurance that if I sleep, I will wake up tomorrow. I take life as it comes.
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by davien(m): 12:36pm On Feb 10, 2019
As an atheist of course I'm going to say I don't believe in any god/gods existing..

But here's where it gets crazy, if I put on my believers hat I will spew so many "proofs" that all believers here are spewing but do they actually hold up? No, they don't.


If they did god believers would believe the same thing and speak in one single voice, let's say you argue that they can't because of fallible human reasoning that could lead them astray, then how do you know you aren't one of them?


Do you know why it's inconclusive god/gods exist? It's because it's explained in a way that protects it from ever being detected outside of belief..


Do you know what else falls into such categories, fairy tales, ghost encounters, ufo encounters, near death experiences, hallucinations or visions as they are called, etc..


All these things are never direct, happen when the individual is susceptible to emotional, hormonal, chemical, and/or outside influences that cannot be trusted


These influences and their accompanying experiences when documented can be advertised as revelations from otherworldly beings... Beings who somehow want to communicate but lack direct approaches.. Why hide in the shadows?


The myriad excuses range from human beings lacking or losing the ability to converse with such beings through either our or a third party's actions..


So is the solution excluding direct communication and instead exchanging that indirect unconfirmable, easily dismissed experiences?


It's bad enough on a neutral ground these experiences can be ignored or thought not to exist in the first place, when they're believed to exist what do these beliefs teach us about our fellow human beings, do they bring us together or divide us into groups who share the same strong urge to believe something we don't know to be true..


If God(used in capital to enforce its common usage) is real and wants to be an active part in our lives it/he/she/they would be 100%, that's assuming it wanted to in the first place..


That leads to another thing, why would a being vastly different from human beings on a level of omnipotence want human recognition, why would he want a throne and kingdom when humans left such systems long ago to form democracies..


It's easy to align dots and see that a religion born of a certain time would have the features of its birth, throne, kingdoms, gold and precious minerals to adorn, chariots, etc..


A modern day religion would also have modern day themes, like say scientology, they believe humans are bodies with trapped alien spirits from another planet that came here on ships that look like airplanes... Do you believe that? Why?


It all boils down to the why? and of what use is it?


The reason we could accept these foreign religions in Nigeria isn't completely because they were forced on us.. It answered those questions above good enough at the time...


The why was because the white man or Arab religion made them successful and its usage were the trade it allowed to happen... The calendar used today was brought on by religious traders.. So as at then it had a use.


But as we all know change is constant.. We started learning about the world around us and how we shouldn't adopt ideas simply because of fancy, and if it worked, to examine deeper and weed out the most useful from the least useful.. this approach is called science..


Hate it, demonize it, denigrate it.. It is what has made human beings great and powerful in this world..


That ancient tiger that would have eaten our ancestors alive wasn't killed by prayer and fasting, it was killed by adopting the best method to protect ourselves... we barricaded our homes and hunted them when they least expected it, we made spears and tied rocks to wood to bash the hyenas that chased us at night.


But fear is an old friend, alone and afraid we knelt down, carved wood and stone and begged them to help us when we didn't know how to.. Has that changed over the years?


"Where is my help, my help cometh from the lord"..


If you want to believe these things because you feel safer and more alive with that, that's absolutely fine and every bit as much of the human experience as you can have, but when you start whining, carrying megaphones to insist on being right about it all then you are in for your whole world being rocked from within..


An ideal society is one that recognizes the manipulative nature of having a state religion and put in place laws that keep cross tampering out of reach..


Federal Road wasn't made for Muslims to migrate on, neither was it made for cattle..


Megaphones weren't meant to wake people at 3am about salvation, heaven or hell.


These tales you keep insisting on their accuracy have never been used outside belief to make something new, they are either translated or inscribed, and every inscription bars the meaning each passage might have had in its original copy..


Based on all these and other things I can confidently say a god does not exist, or more correctly, there is no reason for me to believe a God exists, can exist, or will exist in the near future without one or more of these points changing..

5 Likes 3 Shares

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Kiddogarcia(m): 1:01pm On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
I overestimated your intelligence. Since you have taken it upon your self to remain ignorant and irrational, there is nothing I can do.

@bold
What?! angry are you kidding me? undecided so both the bible and Quran are true because people still use and believe them? How can both books, which contradict each other, be valid? According to the Quran, Jesus is just a prophet but according to the Bible, Jesus is god and the son of god. The bible does not even mention Muhammad. SMH. I rest my case. angry

You overestimated my intelligence.nice one bro.the bible and the Quran made reference to Julio Caesar,both also talked about queen Sheba,and history tells us that both actually existed.apart from being religious book,both book serves as a way to revisit history,Egypt,Ethiopia,Jordan,Israel etc, are in the bible,and today they still exist till today,so point number one both books are valid
Number two,Muhammad came three hundred years after Christ,so just take a minute to think about this.almost all stories,all happenings in both books were the same,only the Jesus and Muhammad stories differs a bit.so if after three hundred years Muhammad could write a book of that has same stories,prophecy as the bible,then you have to know something was leading him,and that something leading him God.mind you there was no Christian in Arab land at that time,point number two.
We've heard stuff,Noah's ark was found in turkey,the building of queen Sheba still exist,miracles happens everyday,we've heard stories of people who died and came back alive,to tell stuff about after life.point number three
No one was there when evolution theory took place,those people that brought that idea only believed in what they didn't see also,and also there was no evidence that it really took place,so I have a right to believe in God,who I don't see also,but I have little evidence of him.tell me about your physical process am ready

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 1:24pm On Feb 10, 2019
Kiddogarcia:
You overestimated my intelligence.nice one bro.the bible and the Quran made reference to Julio Caesar,both also talked about queen Sheba,and history tells us that both actually existed.apart from being religious book,both book serves as a way to revisit history,Egypt,Ethiopia,Jordan,Israel etc, are in the bible,and today they still exist till today,so point number one both books are valid
Number two,Muhammad came three hundred years after Christ,so just take a minute to think about this.almost all stories,all happenings in both books were the same,only the Jesus and Muhammad stories differs a bit.so if after three hundred years Muhammad could write a book of that has same stories,prophecy as the bible,then you have to know something was leading him,and that something leading him God.mind you there was no Christian in Arab land at that time,point number two.
We've heard stuff,Noah's ark was found in turkey,the building of queen Sheba still exist,miracles happens everyday,we've heard stories of people who died and came back alive,to tell stuff about after life.point number three
No one was there when evolution theory took place,those people that brought that idea only believed in what they didn't see also,and also there was no evidence that it really took place,so I have a right to believe in God,who I don't see also,but I have little evidence of him.tell me about your physical process am ready
SMH.

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Veiniously: 1:42pm On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
There are many gods known to man eg. Yahweh, Krishnna, Allah, Eledumare (the Yoruba indigenous god) etc. What makes you think that you god is the right one out of all gods?

Still the same God different name Gpd has thousands of names more are yet to come
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 2:10pm On Feb 10, 2019
Veiniously:


Still the same God different name Gpd has thousands of names more are yet to come
They are not the same god. grin
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by perousd: 2:18pm On Feb 10, 2019
Come make I take you go baba side make he nak u with jazz make you cough money cone out. and then you will start explaining how it happened. Instead to seek for truth, you seek for evidence or rather seek to disprove evidences. Before I move on. do you believe that man is a spirit , has a soul and lives in a Body? Do you understand that man can leave their body and go places?do you believe that a woman or man can manipulate weather ,turn to a bird and fly?
I can help you see these things in case you haven't. I can take you to my village if you don't believe.
There's a God that beats your human capacity; intellect and proofs.
There's a master planner of everything. There's a higher power that render the human senses absolutely clueless.
But I'm serious about taking you to my village for proofs. If you do not believe in God after 3 days, I'll refund you for wasting your time.

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Veiniously: 2:56pm On Feb 10, 2019
perousd:
Come make I take you go baba side make he nak u with jazz make you cough money cone out. and then you will start explaining how it happened. Instead to seek for truth, you seek for evidence or rather seek to disprove evidences. Before I move on. do you believe that man is a spirit , has a soul and lives in a Body? Do you understand that man can leave their body and go places?do you believe that a woman or man can manipulate weather ,turn to a bird and fly?
I can help you see these things in case you haven't. I can take you to my village if you don't believe.
There's a God that beats your human capacity; intellect and proofs.
There's a master planner of everything. There's a higher power that render the human senses absolutely clueless.
But I'm serious about taking you to my village for proofs. If you do not believe in God after 3 days, I'll refund you for wasting your time.
Op oya o

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 2:57pm On Feb 10, 2019
perousd:
Come make I take you go baba side make he nak u with jazz make you cough money cone out and then you will start explaining how it happened. Instead to seek for truth, you seek for evidence or rather seek to disprove evidences. Before I move on. do you believe that man is a spirit , has a soul and lives in a Body? Do you understand that man can leave their body and go places? do you believe that a woman or man can manipulate weather ,turn to a bird and fly?
I can help you see these things in case you haven't. I can take you to my village if you don't believe.

There's a God that beats your human capacity; intellect and proofs.
There's a master planner of everything. There's a higher power that render the human senses absolutely clueless.
But I'm serious about taking you to my village for proofs. If you do not believe in God after 3 days, I'll refund you for wasting your time.
@bolds
Trash and nonsense. They are all hear, "dem say dem say, I hear I hear." When I ask people who believe in our traditional voodoo and silly tales if they have seen these things in action, they say "no." It's only hearsay and make believe. You that is talking, have you seen it your own eyes? grin

3 Likes

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by perousd: 3:44pm On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
@bolds
Trash and nonsense. They are all hear, "dem say dem say, I hear I hear." When I ask people who believe in our traditional voodoo and silly tales if they have seen these things in action, they say "no." It's only hearsay and make believe. You that is alking, have you seen it your own eyes grin
You're evading my request. Where is your location?? let's confirm your assertions. Let's "make you believe" . You have no idea of what is real. you think its by ranting on nairaland! Mtchew.

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Ucokezie(m): 3:50pm On Feb 10, 2019
OP, I'lI take everything you said to be your opinion, I know you are human and you have the choices before you.
However believing any or all of those things is up to you, to me they're crap. I'm a Christian and I know my heritage in Christ so I don't even know about my cousin not to talk of yourself. So know there's power in believing.
Bless You!
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Ucokezie(m): 3:52pm On Feb 10, 2019
There are gods and there's the Almighty God!
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 3:56pm On Feb 10, 2019
perousd:

You're evading my request. Where is your location?? let's confirm your assertions. Let's "make you believe" . You have no idea of what is real. you think its by ranting on nairaland! Mtewwwww.
No thanks. If you want to believe in ridiculous garbages and falsehoods, suit yourself.
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Veiniously: 4:12pm On Feb 10, 2019
The truth is that op is scared of the truth

Op knows about spiritualizm....and his even scared to the core
If you can be scared of that then God exist

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 4:12pm On Feb 10, 2019
Veiniously:
The truth is that op is scared of the truth

Op knows about spiritualizm....and his even scared to the core
If you can be scared of that the God exist
SMH. Carry your wahala dey go.

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by perousd: 4:48pm On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
No thanks. If you want to believe in ridiculous garbages and falsehoods, suit yourself.
Scared little boy. Its not about what you believe. What is:Is!
Reality remains!
Enjoy your delusion! but I promise you that your tears and grammar won't be enough to console you when it matters.

2 Likes

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 4:59pm On Feb 10, 2019
perousd:

Scared little boy. Its not about what you believe. What is:Is!
Reality remains!
Enjoy your delusion! but I promise you that your tears and grammar won't be enough to console you when it matters.
Lmao. OK. grin
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by catalan15(m): 6:30pm On Feb 10, 2019
Martinez39:
When we are born, our minds are at tabula rasa. What we know depends on our environment, experiences, exposure and, where possible, the indoctrination our society has given us. Reality is such that no matter what we believe, it doesn't change and it doesn't care about our feelings. Given that many grew up believing the wrong things and are still believing these things, I find it important to set things straight. It might be that many are sensible but still not aware of certain things. Without wasting your time, here are hard facts about life.

1) THERE IS NO GOD AND YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN : a lot might not agree but I challenge you to show me any evidence that god exists. Your life struggle is yours to bear and no god is coming to help you out. No matter how much you pray, what god you believe in and how morally upright you are, nature will always take it's course and if you don't do the right thing, you won't get the right result. Religion, psychic stuffs and other spiritual stuffs are ridiculous falsehoods with no sound basis in reality. Do away with them and start facing reality.

2) THERE IS NO AFTERLIFE : once you die, that's it. Your cease existing forever after you die and there is no coming back. So do all you want now that you are alive. This world is all there is, there is no spiritual/unseen world. This is where you succeed, this is where you fail. If you don't make it here, forget it and there is no second chance. This is where you are happy, this where you are sad. Once time has passed, it can never be regained.

3) PEOPLE HAVE THEIR PRICE : people are not moral. With the right amount of money and desperation, people will do immoral and mean things. For many, morality is only when it's convenient. Learn not to trust anyone for even your enemies may smile a lot. Money reveals people's true colour. When it comes to money, people are not to be trusted and are mean spirited opportunists. When you have money, people (men and women) will gather round you. They don't give a damn about you but your money. Learn to say "no," spend your money on yourself and leave the rest for your children.

4) SUCCESS IS NEVER GUARANTEED UNTIL IT IS ACHIEVED : that boy or girl that looked almost certain to succeed might end up turning out to be a "failure" in future. That boy or girl that was looked down upon might be the highest achiever in future. No one, I repeat no one, can know the future. You might do everything right and die before you reap the fruit of your labour. You might suddenly have an accident or disease that would render you useless no matter how bright you were. You might be lucky to make it. There is nothing like a way to make it in life instead all you have are principles that increases your chances at making it in life but chances are what they are and are not certainty. Until it is achieved, success is not guaranteed.

5) LIFE ON EARTH HAS NO PURPOSE : you exist for no reason. The universe doesn't owe you any meaning to your existence. The meaning your life has is the meaning you give to it. There is nothing like destiny and fate. Your life is how you plan it.

6) NOT EVERYONE WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE : we all know this but still like to act like success is our birthright because we think our life is in the hands of an imaginary god. Even if we all work hard, not all of us will make it and you could be among those that don't make it. Even among those that succeed, there will be variation. Some will make it early while some will make it late. Some will be privileged to be born in a successful family while some will be born in poor families.

7) YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL : that HIV you hear about can happen to you. That cancer you hear about can happen to you. That rape you read about in the news can happen to you. That ghastly accident you read on nairaland, newspaper and see on tv can happen to you. In short anything bad can happen to you. That untimely death you see and hear from wherever can happen to you. Who the hell are you to think that you are immune to these things?

cool THE UNIVERSE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT MORALITY. ALL IS CAUSE AND EFFECT : good things happen to bad people; good things happen to good people; bad things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. Do the right thing and you will get the right result. It doesn't matter whether your approach is legal or not (legality and illegality are man's construct), apply the rules and you will get the right results. Cause and effect agrees with the strong overcoming the weak that's why your corrupt and powerful politician can unduly put you in jail and you will rot there no matter how morally upright you are. Your saving grace is if there is a more powerful force to save you and keep him in check. The universe cares about rules and facts not morality and your constitution.

9) INJUSTICE, NO KARMA AND WICKEDNESS : The universe doesn't care about your wellbeing and disputes. That guy that raped you might never be caught and would go on to marry and be happy till he dies while you struggle to make a living. That rich guy that snatched your girlfriend or the girlfriend that cruelly snubbed you and went for a rich man might end up building a happy marriage and home while you keep on struggling. Justice is man's duty to uphold. That man that stole all your money might invest it and be successful while you rot away; that man or woman that stole your idea might use it to make billions while you rot away into oblivion and poverty; that fake friend that cruelly snubbed you during your hard time might live a life of fulfilment while you rot away in misery; that cultist that shot your sister might never be found and may go on to live a successful and happy life. There is nothing like karma, if man doesn't seek justice then justice will never be implemented. Sorry for you if you think god will avenge your hurt and fight your battles. Sorry for you if the person you want to bring justice upon is very powerful. Take heart, it's life.

... to be continued
This sounds more reasonable but I bet you a lot of people will not agree with u simply because of their inability to differentiate between hope & reality.Truly religious give us hope but what is the essence of the "Hope" that may not come forever.To those who believe in religion,Hope may be good.But to me,I think REALITY is better...

1 Like

Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Martinez39(m): 6:35pm On Feb 10, 2019
catalan15:
This sounds more reasonable but I bet you a lot of people will not agree with u simply because of their inability to differentiate between hope & reality.Truly religious give us hope but what is the essence of the "Hope" that may not come forever.To those who believe in religion,Hope may be good.But to me,I think REALITY is better...
Reality is better and safer than any hope. Hope that can never materialise is of no use. Jesus is never coming back, there will never be a rapture, prayers are useless and there is no karma. Thanks for your input.
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by catalan15(m): 6:40pm On Feb 10, 2019
Amakavula:
My answer is going to be long , let me book space..

I am a fencist when it comes to God. Intelligent arguement would suggest God doesn't exist, but we all know the world isn't intelligent or logical.

On one part, believing there isn't a God is quite intelligent, but believing there isn't isn't fulfilling either. What we are left with without a believe in a great force is a void of hopeless and emptiness ; that our lives offer no purpose ( my supervisor from Japan mentioned how Japan is trying to get people more religious to avoid suicides )

I always likened the God argument to a person lost at Sea. There is a 10% chance people are coming to find you, or there is a 90% chance nobody is coming. But I would take 10% all the time due to the hope and believe it inspires. Which could determine how best I thrive for a better life.

Hopelessness isn't cool, Whether God exist or not could be debated back and forth with no conclusion, but Believe brings you assurance of a better future.

Compare this two scenerio: The Doctor says you got Cancer and there isn't a cure and you will die , and nothing can be done.

Or after going back Doctor says he made an error with the Cancer type , that you still got Cancer but people survive it 10% of the time.

The change in emotion in that person could be the difference between life or death. God is that 10%.


On life and meaning, we find our own meaning through our Passions. There is no collective purpose just individual things. I want to be a writer ( script Writer ) to inspire and educated people, that is my purpose and I hope to find fulfilment there.

Lastly there isn't a good thing about pessimism. it makes you depressed, achieve little and look at things in gloom. Cheer up love. grin

I guess you are right to some extent......
Re: Hard Facts Of Life. by Deepocean(m): 10:13pm On Feb 10, 2019
One of the challenges that have being complicating the reality of God and His existence to you is that you are too rigid in accepting all the physical things that have proven the existence of God and I keep on wondering the type of proof that you still want to know, the Bible and the Quran that you are pretending not to believe in have lots to proof that God exist, let me start from the Bible and take you to what is happening in our own generation now. The first man and woman that existed on earth was created by God, and then they were able to see Him face to face, they communicated, hugged, had handshake and did other things physically, but they abuse that privilege , it's a pity they aren't alive to come and confirm this, but since you believe that nobody existed has Adam, Eve, Abraham, David e.t.c, I won't dwell on that, but if you can do yourself a favour, visit isreal or make your research, then you will see people confirming it for you themselves that they are lineage of all these people you don't believe in their existence.

With the advancement of technology I think human should be able to create life that will be a concrete proof that God doesn't exist, but science they haven't been able to do so, life didn't come by chance, it's purely spiritual not even physical, the spiritual only gave birth to the physical that we are seeing, if you are to be sincere with yourself and I, you must have heard if not seen of dead that have risen after days which physical means is responsible for this? Noises from the environment or what? I don't know the part of the country you are from or the part of the world you are from, there was a popular Nigeria musician that died and rose and gave his experiences of his adventure on life after life before he died again, you may still want to use sciectific illogical fallacies to proof this wrong, but that doesn't change the truth,

I'm a science person, but I have not heard or seen the laboratory preparation of drinkable water in the laboratory, can the reason been that the chemical combination is so simple to what scientists do not want to waste their time on? NO.

Scientists are only finding knowledge concerning what has been in existing, scientists can't create anything, they can only reproduce something from what God has created through a means that is highly beyond what our small brain can comprehend. there's no way we can have access to all this thing apart from the physical means.

But if God doesn't exist, will there be any spelling like GOD, or will there be any thought as regards the existence or nonexistence of God?

I believe in Miracle, because I have seen where miracle occurred, and this is as a result of supernatural power and forces controlled by the supreme being GOD.

2 Likes

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (11) (Reply)

The Most Hated Guy On Nairaland Aquires A Car For 2.3mill (picture Added) / Lady Narrates How A Man Was Asking Her And Her Cousin Out At The Same Time / Why Women Are Like Cats, Men Are Like Dogs

Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 145
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.