Newboss:


If you plan to marry, this your question already contain a summary of all the reasons.

I will never marry.

PUSSYHOE:
smart woman my ass

lol smart woman my ass
Just go cook, suck Dick, bend over.

ubunja:
marry one get 7 free? What are you even saying?

Bros you are really not as intelligent (no insult meant)but you are slow in decoding. Cheers

Yigiyaga:
Bros you are really not as intelligent (no insult meant)but you are slow in decoding. Cheers

so simplify

ubunja:
yet women are on average less intelligent than men.
Do you even know what you're vomitting??

Oga next time try and understand English before you embarrass yourself.
If you like go marry olodo, because shape and beauty. just prepare to be clapping for other kids who take 1st position while ur pikin go pack class for head. Prepare to buy koboko, olive oil, pay for lesson teacher, provide sorting money cos pikin no fit pass exams. extra school fees when pikin fail and has to repeat. visits to MOF..... add urs

addictiv:

Oga next time try and understand English before you embarrass yourself.
If you like go marry olodo, because shape and beauty. just prepare to be clapping for other kids who take 1st position while ur pikin go pack class for head. Prepare to buy koboko, olive oil, pay for lesson teacher, provide sorting money cos pikin no fit pass exams. extra school fees when pikin fail and has to repeat.

you didn't challenge my point.
And don't mind me embarrassing myself. I do it everyday

ubunja:
you didn't challenge my point.
And don't mind me embarrassing myself. I do it everyday

cos ur point is off point..

addictiv:

cos ur point is off point..

then you must have ignored it.

ubunja:
I will never marry.

you are not even capable of marriage.

Newboss:


Every situation is different. The parameters and variables of any situation determines the smart choice and the dumb choice. There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to life because of how dynamic life is. What's a smart choice now could be a dumb choice ten minutes from now.

Also, what's a smart choice to me could be a dumb one to you. So if you deem a lady smart, then you both definitely share a view to a very large entext. To me, suicide, abortion are sometimes smart choices, but to most, they are not. They have their reasons, and I have mine. We can both defend our reasons.

There's no standard example of smart choice and dumb choice.

One chilled bottle of Heineken for you guy.

dingbang:
But from all these descriptions of a smart woman, why do we still fall for dumb ladies?

Because most Nigerian men do not love to be challenged. Reason I advocate Nigerian men should travel abroad especially to Europe and North America, will open their horizons to see smart women as really desirable. I have had at least two girlfriends that were smart, one from SS2 to SS3, the other in University, and I had a blast, it was a very useful relationship.

Yigiyaga:
Such women are rare if not extinct.Been searching my whole life .

Then you have not been searching well then. They are all around you. Expand your circle first, and you will find them. Even found one or two in NYSC Camp when I was not even looking.

synanza1:
if you marry a smart girl she will give you smart son like this one

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIjzSt8_lkU

No be this kind son o lol, this one na oversmart dey worry am hehe

TimiRume:
Summary of all that has been said above me and the conclusion: Smart women are an asset, to you and to your kids.. but most men don't want smart women, they want a beautiful woman who knows her place.

Gbam. Could not have said any more. Change that most men to most Nigerian men though and you are 100% correct.

ubunja:
quick internet research would have showed you that the more educated a woman is, the later she marries, the fewer children she wants and the more likely she is to divorce you

That is so untrue here bro. Look at her family values and family first. My 2 cents.

ubunja:
investment ideas? Bwahhh like what? Marry a rich man

The way you disrespect women smh, I hope you do not do that for your mother.

Samleen:


I don't know where you got your statistic from but you have the right to hold you opinion. I would not like to talk much about my relationship in a public forum as this.... I would have prove you wrong with my experiences...

The best to marry is a smart woman, just be smart and intelligent yourself... I may not reply you on subsequent mentions. Thanks

Thanks bro, his disrespect of women and his awfully wrong stereotypes about women shows something is missing SMH. Unfortunately, his thought process might be helping him with most Nigerian women as they either want a rough guy, irresponsible guy, or a man with mental flaws as this ubunja guy, so he thinks his thought process about women is the way to go smh. Cannot be anymore wrong for the guy. Reason I have always cajoled most Nigerian men to go out with foreign women and then know how to treat a lady as a result.

yemi15:


Then you have not been searching well then. They are all around you. Expand your circle first, and you will find them. Even found one or two in NYSC Camp when I was not even looking.

Honestly speaking,time for that is past. I have a son and i guess im now emotionally unavailable. Probably going to live the rest of my life as a man friend to mutually beneficial women. The fear of marriage has me pinned.

addictiv:

Oga next time try and understand English before you embarrass yourself.
If you like go marry olodo, because shape and beauty. just prepare to be clapping for other kids who take 1st position while ur pikin go pack class for head. Prepare to buy koboko, olive oil, pay for lesson teacher, provide sorting money cos pikin no fit pass exams. extra school fees when pikin fail and has to repeat. visits to MOF..... add urs

Lol. You dey talk to person wey yarn say he no go ever marry. That guy get hin own SMH.

Yigiyaga:
Honestly speaking,time for that is past. I have a son and i guess im now emotionally unavailable. Probably going to live the rest of my life as a man friend to mutually beneficial women. The fear of marriage has me pinned.

Bad experiences should not influence your future decisions. Take time to look for a wife this time, know her well, know her family well, know her friends well, and from that you can now determine if the lady you are interested has the values of keeping a family and a home. Maybe you did not do your research well the first time, that is why you had a bad experience. My 2 cents.

funmisticqueen:
you are not even capable of marriage.

Exactly dear. Don't know where he learned how to disrespect women smh.

ubunja:
investment ideas? Bwahhh like what? Marry a rich man

Please, stick to your village level and mediocrity

yemi15:


The way you disrespect women smh, I hope you do not do that for your mother.

He will log out and face the reality. Unless he sticks with his village girls.

Eberechi24:
A smart woman will help you make good decision in life.


Most men shouting they are yet to meet smart woman, pls are you smart? you can't be jumping all over places looking for the smart woman when smartness eludes you. It take smartness to spot a smart woman.

A smart woman has her flaws, when you meet her don't expect her to be perfect.

They're like " I want a smart woman yadayadayada... "
... till she's smarter than them.
Then they go
"she's not submissive, she's proud.. "

Just be honest men.
If you want a dumb woman, cool. Marry her and be happy .
Don't pretend to like a smart woman just to sound woke then you start complaining when she calls you out on your bullshit.

Go for your type.
How difficult is that?

Amyrikal:




They're like " I want a smart woman yadayadayada... "
... till she's smarter than them.
Then they go
"she's not submissive, she's proud.. "

Just be honest men.
If you want a dumb woman, cool. Marry her and be happy .
Don't pretend to like a smart woman just to sound woke then you start complaining when she calls you out on your bullshit.

Go for your type.
How difficult is that?

Lol, now you sound like my friend.

For the average Nigerian man,

honestly,

No advantage.

You'll be miserable.

Stick to your doormats.

Ejoorr

Amakavula:
Deserve a home cooked meal and a hug. Anytime you are around Abuja let me know.

He is my Christian broda, and I am presently in Abuja to SLAP Buhari. Biko, I need that HUg and Home cooked meal prepared by Yours truly. Kindly tell me what time to show up, and I will be there before you even say Jack Robinson. Just a quick one, I go even carry Spoon for pocket just in case�

Preshy561:

He will log out and face the reality. Unless he sticks with his village girls.

I feel for him already but your ilk in other women are giving him the confidence that it is okay to disrespect women.

ubunja:
because the dumb ones are always the hot ones.

Ugly chicks focus on studying because no man will marry them. So they make sure they will be independent.

An example of a dumb-ass man...
Being independent is not about your looks. Its a state of mind.... Its a drive towards a goal...

Any one who lives their life depending on other will forever be at the mercies of their benefactor....

ubunja:
our mothers were not "smart" but they did all that and more.
You the smart ones of today can't even pick up a Broom without whinning for Africa.

What do you mean by saying our mothers were not smart? What's your definition of being smart?

yemi15:


I feel for him already but your ilk in other women are giving him the confidence that it is okay to disrespect women.

I don't know for them.
Most are males in using females account

Cathyblinks:



An example of a dumb-ass man...
Being independent is not about your looks. Its a state of mind.... Its a drive towards a goal...

Any one who lives their life depending on other will forever be at the mercies of their benefactor....

why do you think we always laugh that most feminists are ugly??