We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

You need to get her to talk something isn't right with her........
BTW hope you haven't also been failing in your responsibility as a lover,husband and father

Your own is a joke compared to mine.

Well, if she ll give her consent go to any registered pharmacy and ask for SPANISH FLY.

It will help increase her libido

Could it be that she is dancing to the beat of another drummer? If you're sure she's not then rush and seek medical psychological and/or spiritual attention for her because something is killing her slowly inside that you know not of!

Find another pussy

talk it out with her

She is aging. Its normal, her sexual drive would decline.

As women age, there sexual libido decline. Child birth is also another factor affecting sexual libido in women.
Ur wife is only adjusting to changes in her hormones.

/If your wife no dey do you well/


*Pam Pam Pam*

AWAY!!!

repeat 5x

5 kids in like 10yrs! I would cringe too

I hope you have help in the house.

sisisioge:
5 kids in like 10yrs! I would cringe too

I hope you have help in the house.

so cos she born a lot he cant sex her again oge u are a christain wife submit ur body to husband.

jakandeola:
so cos she born a lot he cant sex her again oge u are a christain wife submit ur body to husband.

sisisioge:
5 kids in like 10yrs! I would cringe too

I hope you have help in the house.

2 love birds

Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

FortifiedCity:
2 love birds

Mind yourself!

You force your waY sometimes

Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

Op do you know what it takes to give birth to five kids? Your wife is scared of having another baby. Why not talk her and you guys can do family planning whereby you can have sex without any chances of having a kod.

sisisioge:


Mind yourself!

I dey enjoy una 'fight'

Jakandeola come oo. Save me from your Lady

Go with her to a family planning clinic so you can get a method that works for you both or use a condom, your child is 2, she is afraid of another pregnancy.

If there are other issues talk with her about it

Check yourself well. You prolly have a severe case of halitosis.

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

Twice a week is excessive??

She's fvcking outside, don't gock it.

Small children on this platform who are so fast to conclude that a respectable married woman is cheating on her husband, fear God and watch what you say.
Op, ask the woman what her problem is. There will be an underlying issue.

FortifiedCity:
I dey enjoy una 'fight'

Biko accept my beg, no call the dude for my case. Thanks

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

oga your wife is having an affair period

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

twice a Month? Kukuma kill me

Ishilove:
Check yourself well. You prolly have a severe case of halitosis.

It seems you've had an encounter with the OP.

MANGAM:
As women age, there sexual libido decline. Child birth is also another factor affecting sexual libido in women.
Ur wife is only adjusting to changes in her hormones.

Can you prove that age causes decline in sex drive in female?


OP, she has too much work to do with five kids. Do you help with house chores? She's not a machine bruh, she'll get tired with five kids if you don't help her

She is approaching menopause

ashawopikin:
twice a Month? Kukuma kill me

Did u marry her for just sex? Focus on companionship

If u sex twice a week after being married for over 10 years how many times do u want newly married to Bleep weekly. Sex twice or three times weekly is for newly married less than 5 yrs or those on honey moon

u noticed some changes for over a year n did nothing... op na wah oo. You better find way to hold ur wife well well before u become side husband

Ishilove:
Check yourself well. You prolly have a severe case of halitosis.

Ishilove:

Twice a week is excessive??

After 10 years of marriage? yes it is.
Other things count eg companionship,cuddling, shared interests eg sports, discussions about long term retirement plans in bed , body warmth and shared jokes in bed.

@OP, Your youngest child is just 2. Poor woman is scared of another pregnancy plus she might be honestly tired with all the children and housekeeping.
Go with her for family planning.
Take her out on a romantic date or just pay for and send her to a spa .
Her libido is decreasing, you'd have to do more tlc, help around the house more and do more than just jumping on her if you want to get your groove on.
Stop forcing her abeg.