sisisioge:


Biko accept my beg, no call the dude for my case. Thanks

Noted.

How's your day going

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

Bwahahahaha. You are GOAT!

ifyalways:


After 10 years of marriage? yes it is.
Other things count eg companionship,cuddling, shared interests eg sports, discussions about long term retirement plans in bed , body warmth and shared jokes in bed.

This is news, but it seems oga's libido is higher than madam.

5 kids?? I tap into the anointing

FortifiedCity:
2 love birds

That story has a happy ending. Na their pre-wedding pics we dey wait

FortifiedCity:
2 love birds

hahahah guy love bird me I got a girl of my dream not a homeless girl I Neva need a girl DAT go about looking for house and ask anybody to stayed eit her

FortifiedCity:
I dey enjoy una 'fight'

Jakandeola come oo. Save me from your Lady

hahahah oge na my formal wife in rooms

This is why I insisted on packaging the dullard back to Daura. Imagine things are so hard that women no longer enjoy their husbands.

ThothHermes:
That story has a happy ending. Na their pre-wedding pics we dey wait

May your front tooth fall off!

sisisioge:

May your front tooth fall off!

The Lord works in mysterious ways

Sex twice a week isn't bad unless the man wears her out in bed.
Fear of pregnancy, tiredness.
Her age again is a factor.

Oga, do u help out in the house or is she the only one doing it all as a virtuous Nigerian woman?

Sometimes, smooching and pillow talk help relax the hormones and give reassurance.

Sometimes too, take her to the top without actually doing anything. Lead her to multiple orgasms and watch her come after you.

U guys don't just know how to do it right.
Always humping like a he goat.
Shior.

Sex twice a week isn't too much to ask for. @op get a side chick but do not fail in your responsibilities to your family.

yvelchstores:
Small children on this platform who are so fast to conclude that a respectable married woman is cheating on her husband, fear God and watch what you say.
Op, ask the woman what her problem is. There will be an underlying issue.

You will know them. They always believe the worst of women

Get a sex therapist for the both of you. On the day of your appointment, don't tell her where you guys are heading to. Surprise her. After the session, if she throws a fit, get a side chic.

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

Mr Man!

Your wife is receiving another's man dicck!

if you can't do a DNA test on your children I advised you divorce your wife! I repeat divorce your so called wife.

sisisioge:
5 kids in like 10yrs! I would cringe too

I hope you have help in the house.

Help in the house when he got work to do, comes back from work to feed his family, pays for the house bill, child's welfare and even the wife's welfare. And you expect him to do some house work

With this kind of mentality you and your type deserve a madman who will take care of your body by panel beating it to stupor

Useless women!

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

please change your Monika to "ogafoolish*

apelike1:


Help in the house when he got work to do, comes back from work to feed his family, pays for the house bill, child's welfare and even the wife's welfare. And you expect him to do some house work

With this kind of mentality you and your type deserve a madman who will take care of your body by panel beating it to stupor

Useless women!

You are really as you name implied! Your speed to comment led you not to read what your highlighted. Ndi jakujaku!

5 kids will ensure that she’s always tired. Especially when the last one is still a baby. Lord have mercy.

P.S forcing your way will make sure that she feels revolted some more by the act of sex and maybe even disgusted by you. I wouldn’t ever enjoy anyone who forced himself on me. EVER AGAIN


1) Start by apologizing to her. You have committed a crime against her spirit and body by raping her. Let’s hope she forgives you.
2) consider permanent birth control. If you can afford vasectomy, very good. If you can’t, use condoms. Birth control shouldn’t always be a woman’s problem to deal with. However if she wants to take on the responsibility of birth control for your family, very good as well. Thank her.
3) find out if there are additional issues related to her decreased appetite for sex. Too much work at home or outside the home?, fear of pregnancy, resentment for you for any reasons including your offense of raping her? Etc. resolve those issues.
4) start over. Build the romance up again. Show more interest in her besides sexual interest. That works to make sex more appealing after you’ve been with someone for a while.
5) decrease your expectations.
6) when you do start having sex again, ensure that she enjoys it. Many men see their women as masturbatory aides instead of physical beings who should achieve orgasm same as them. I would get tired too if the sex is always about your orgasm. If it’s over when you cum. Then No thanks.

Do you know this family and what their routine is?

apelike1:


Help in the house when he got work to do, comes back from work to feed his family, pays for the house bill, child's welfare and even the wife's welfare. And you expect him to do some house work

With this kind of mentality you and your type deserve a madman who will take care of your body by panel beating it to stupor

Useless women!

Look at how casually you’re suggesting infidelity to a married man. When it’s your turn to get cheated on, you’ll start foaming at the mouth like someone with chronic epilepsy.

Icekeeng:
Sex twice a week isn't too much to ask for. @op get a side chick but do not fail in your responsibilities to your family.

Is any of you by chance her side dude?

shakmati:
Could it be that she is dancing to the beat of another drummer? If you're sure she's not then rush and seek medical psychological and/or spiritual attention for her because something is killing her slowly inside that you know not of!

apelike1:
Mr Man!

Your wife is receiving another's man dicck!

if you can't do a DNA test on your children I advised you divorce your wife! I repeat divorce your so called wife.

ashawopikin:
oga your wife is having an affair period

revolt:
She's fvcking outside, don't gock it.

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

you mean you rape your wife...wtf!

ifyalways:


After 10 years of marriage? yes it is.
Other things count eg companionship,cuddling, shared interests eg sports, discussions about long term retirement plans in bed , body warmth and shared jokes in bed.

@OP, Your youngest child is just 2. Poor woman is scared of another pregnancy plus she might be honestly tired with all the children and housekeeping.
Go with her for family planning.
Take her out on a romantic date or just pay for and send her to a spa .
Her libido is decreasing, you'd have to do more tlc, help around the house more and do more than just jumping on her if you want to get your groove on.
Stop forcing her abeg.

How old are you? Must you lie. These guys must be in their late 30s or early 40s. Sex twice a week is not too much for that age range

apelike1:
please change your Monika to "ogafoolish*

An idiot like u should be buried alive

ogawisdom:


Did u marry her for just sex? Focus on companionship

If u sex twice a week after being married for over 10 years how many times do u want newly married to Bleep weekly. Sex twice or three times weekly is for newly married less than 5 yrs or those on honey moon

I don't care about newly weds, she is my wife, if I try too much, I fit leave her make she rest on Sundays

ashawopikin:
I don't care about newly weds, she is my wife, if I try too much, I fit leave her make she rest on Sundays

Good luck but u have no right to force her, it must be mutual consent

ogawisdom:


Good luck but u have no right to force her, it must be mutual consent

it is the wife that enjoys sex the most, that's why I am suspecting this OP's wife of extramarital affair, she's fuc.king a young blood, period!

ashawopikin:
it is the wife that enjoys sex the most, that's why I am suspecting this OP's wife of extramarital affair, she's fuc.king a young blood, period!

Every woman is not the same especially after having 5 kids

Ahmed0336:
Your own is a joke compared to mine.

Well, if she ll give her consent go to any registered pharmacy and ask for SPANISH FLY.

It will help increase her libido

Any evidence this works?

apelike1:


Help in the house when he got work to do, comes back from work to feed his family, pays for the house bill, child's welfare and even the wife's welfare. And you expect him to do some house work

With this kind of mentality you and your type deserve a madman who will take care of your body by panel beating it to stupor

Useless women!

Do you have sisters?

sisisioge:


You are really as you name implied! Your speed to comment led you not to read what your highlighted. Ndi jakujaku!

you are curse and you know that

No wonder you are miserable in life by placing curse on yourself! You can go jakujaku yourself or what ever that shiit you wrote there!


Useless

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

Tell her what you've observe and ask she is OK with you having a side piece. If it is something beyond her control she will allow, if it is not she would improve your sex life