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My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:16pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife. many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities, sometimes depression and addiction many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man. they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood. there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship. i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers there is also tendency for these type of boys to be drop out or runaways and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship. 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShinqRambq: 3:26pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
D way Assumptions fly around without Research in Nairaland ehhnn,Boys from single mothers possess the characteristics of a father-figure and are very manly and strong most especially dose only child.Dey grow up to fill in d missin number first in Kindergarten den in reality 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Heartbender: 3:26pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! ![]() 57 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:27pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
ShinqRambq: is my observation not research again? i wrote, that i have friends from single mother homes 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Heartbender: pls stop being emotional, there are successful boys from single mother homes also there are many who came out angry. just because you are a lawyer doesnt not mean everybody made it 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShinqRambq: 3:33pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
wetdick:Nxt time,locate a very good Lab,wit a smart Lab attendant before u do any research.I declare dis ur observation null-and-void. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:35pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
ShinqRambq: so i have to be in a lap coat and employ an attendant to do research and observe, LMHO, 1 Like |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShenTeh(m): 3:35pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Raised by my late mum alone. No father no uncle no father figure. Today, besides being a handy/DIY guy, I think I am a great dad and husband. Awesome at home and at work. (Please let me brag in the face of this insult you posted up there) I bless my mum and God. 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by xendra: 3:36pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Pathetic observation ![]() ![]() ![]() than most men I know and I've always dated men who's both parents are alive and together yet all mannerless and spoilt pussys with plenty of low self esteem. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShinqRambq: 3:36pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
wetdick:Yes,exactly 1 Like |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:38pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jaysolu(m): 3:38pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
He ain't wrong tho
Jst cuz yu guys didn't turn out like dat doesn't mean others will
I have a friend who matches this research 3 Likes |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
ShenTeh: you are taking it the wrong way, this is not an insult. there are plenty of young men without fathers who didnt make it and wished they had a father in their life 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Nobody: 3:42pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Most of them are the "what's she bringing to the table" gang. They lack that idea of responsibility a man shoulders. I won't blame them, after all they saw their mom toil to take care of them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Electricwiring2(m): 4:15pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Please can i use straw just on one of them? |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Newboss(m): 4:24pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Jaysolu: I have at least 5 people you know, with both parents but match his research. Number one example is wetdick. His moniker alone is a evident ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by hesilo(m): 4:25pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
This write up is 70% correct....I have seen most of the mentioned traits in my male friend who's father are not living with their mothers. 5 Likes |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Uglymugg: 4:33pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
It means you grew up with a father. Heartbender: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by LoRdCaT(m): 4:36pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
wetdick:This is a very stupid and fallacious assumption 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Heartbender: 4:44pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Nope. He was always on the road. And you mentioned people whose dads were late Uglymugg: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Boxer007(m): 4:45pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
ShinqRambq: Hi |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Uglymugg: 4:49pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Heartbender:He was on the road since he died? |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShinqRambq: 4:57pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Boxer007:gay,don't quote me in ur life again |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Heartbender: 4:59pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Yes....the road with your sense. They died together Uglymugg: 4 Likes |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Uglymugg: 5:02pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Heartbender:Yes! There's that irrational anger from a lad who was brought up by a single mother. Let if flow through you, son. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by BabbanBura(m): 5:03pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
xendra: How old are you? 1 Like |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Jaqenhghar: 5:10pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
wetdick:Go and tell the likes of Lebron James, and Shaquile O' Neal that they are Mama's boys 2 Likes |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Boxer007(m): 5:10pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
ShinqRambq: Darlin but why do u observe boys and not men. You don't like men? Real men? |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Heartbender: 5:10pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Hehehe....this one is bored from wanking Uglymugg: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by ShinqRambq: 5:14pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Boxer007:Blaady alternate-of-a-feminist |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by Uglymugg: 5:19pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Heartbender:Lol... you got me! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Observation Of Boys From Single Mother Homes by oglalasioux(m): 5:38pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Very good write up. Most of the things you stated are true but... I'm a living example of what you are talking about but... 1. I've never belonged to a secret cult (I'm in my 40s) 2. I've never been in a police cell. 3. I've always had the greatest self confidence (thanks to my uncles). 4. I've always worked hard for my money. 5. I've always had the confidence to walk up to any woman I want and if it doesn't work out I move on. 6. I don't attach emotional undertone to whatever. But... Because of the distance between my mother and I, I've always had a liking for women older than me. Agreed; might be because I've always longed for a motherly love. Just maybe... 2 Likes |
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