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Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Evangkatsoulis: 12:02pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
sacx: Was it cause by loud music? |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by sacx: 12:38pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Evangkatsoulis: Not really. No known cause |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Zeinymira(f): 3:34pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
janefrancisca: I understand how you must be feeling but don't let it get to you. This is a phase that will surely pass. Marriage, happy home, good kids, wealth.....you will have it all 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by janefrancisca(f): 3:37pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Zeinymira:Amen and Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Zeinymira(f): 3:54pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Reading this thread made me sad |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CapedBaldy: 5:00pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
alot of things make me depressed. I'm almost 19 and I'm always worried about my health. I've been having migraines since I was 7 the worst one happened last year a migraine lasted for 2 months. Another problem now is I have visual snow which makes me see afterimages all the time. I also have double vision and I also have tinnitus. I have scoliosis and no one has had it in the history of my family and sometimes my family makes it seem like I did it to myself on purpose. I'm about to take jamb for the 5th time though I've never failed just always been rejected. I am battling an addiction with porn and masturbation. I've been using porn since I was 9 and started masturbation at 13 but today marks 90 days since I last did that. I also have anger management issues but my siblings make it worse. I don't think I'll be able to control it till I live alone. I used to be a very happy extroverted and intelligent child but now I'm very introverted although I'm getting better. I just wish I can live a normal life as a young person instead of constantly worrying about going blind or dropping Dead. 6 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Datdeltagirl(f): 5:36pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
AceRoyal:I think I might have this, what are the symptoms please |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 5:52pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Datdeltagirl:Shot attention span on anything Easily get bored with things and people Always looking for the next big excitement Risk taker, some are great gamblers Finding it difficult to complete any task, etc. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 6:07pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy:Your health issues are all in your head and mind. You seem like a very emotional person who is also very meticulous. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Datdeltagirl(f): 6:08pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
AceRoyal:ok I think you just describe me well except for gambling part and I don't usually take risks. But the rest part is so me I easily get bored with people I just stop communicating with them and I don't even want them to communicate with me self, maybe I need help. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 6:12pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Datdeltagirl:It's easy to deal with,it just requires discipline. You can contact me via the number on my monika |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by PreciousRahl(m): 6:15pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy: Are you in Delta State? |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by sconp: 7:06pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
MissSweet:Most people feel depressed, lonely, despised, unproductive or stagnant at certain points in life. I think it's part of the human psyche to question ourselves and subconsciously compare ourselves with others whom we think we should measure upto and when we fall below par, we sulk and a range of emotions overwhelm us. I like your resolve it'll become better and you'll work and do what it takes to make it better. Cheers 4 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CapedBaldy: 7:12pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
PreciousRahl:Yes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by sconp: 7:15pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
curryandthyme: Hi If a r/ship is getting you depressed before marriage do you think it'll change when you get married? I might be wrong but I think that the thought of a fiancée should bring happiness and not misery. I bet your family didn't know he cheated. 1 Like |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CapedBaldy: 7:17pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
AceRoyal:I'm trying to use the law of attraction to see if I can fix them because I really believe what you said there is true 2 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by PreciousRahl(m): 7:23pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy: Would it be possible for us to meet? I'm based in Warri I might be able to help you out with some of your issues 1 Like |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 7:31pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy:It might not work because sooner than u think..... You'll get bored and slip further into depression. |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CapedBaldy: 7:46pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
AceRoyal:what do you think I should do |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CapedBaldy: 7:49pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
PreciousRahl:No offense but I don't think I can do that. I'm not good at communicating with people and I only posted this here to vent since I know no one knows me here 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by oyetpel(m): 7:50pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
Where do i start from? 2 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by PreciousRahl(m): 7:52pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy: No worries bro. I hope you find peace |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 10:15pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy:Learn to enjoy boredom..... The fun is in the journey and not in the destination. Sometimes boredom builds responsibility. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 10:18pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
CapedBaldy:Learn to get out of your self inflicted prison and comfort zone, the world outside is more beautiful and exciting.... 3 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 10:31pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
oyetpel:Even this too will pass away.... Don't be deterred, one day u'll look back and be happy and proud of urself. Ur regrets will fade away into happiness. As for loneliness, we can be friends. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by fucc12: 1:10am On Feb 21, 2019 |
AceRoyal:Sadly this me |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Estellie: 1:19am On Feb 21, 2019 |
... I used to see depression as something alien to the strong. I thought I was strong and shouldn't be depressed.. Each day I'll sit down, thinking, crying, damn! it was terrible... I knew I was slowly slipping into depression, I told myself 'Hey!! remember you're strong..you can't be depressed. you're not depressed..you can't be.' I was lying to myself just to feel better, it didn't work though... I became scared. I kept picturing suicide. I was scared of my thoughts cause mehnn I was going way too far... I checked my blood pressure and the result wasn't encouraging at all...The man who checked it was shocked sef cause he said I always look happy, bright, full of life and joy..what could be wrong?? What are you thinking about, small girl? I realized I was destroying myself and my potentials so I decided to pick myself up and be strong as always. I read books, I played with little kids(that helped a lot), did few things I love doing, went out, embraced life. My problem isn't solved yet and I can't say if I'm out of the whole depression stuff, but I feel a whole lot better, stronger and happier. I know so many depressed people are viewing this thread, I also searched for a thread like this when I was down... I'm just gonna say that depression ain't the end of the world. It's owkay to feel sad and downcast sometimes buh refusing to stay down is what makes you stronger... Pick yourself up to stand tall... Life is like a big merry go round, you just have to take control of it..... 9 Likes |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Biglittlelois(f): 2:01am On Feb 21, 2019 |
Marriage pressure at home |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 10:49am On Feb 21, 2019 |
fucc12:Care to talk about it? |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by AceRoyal: 10:50am On Feb 21, 2019 |
Estellie: God Bless you |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by Iykesmooth: 11:04am On Feb 21, 2019 |
I am broke, have little to nothing to feed on and the uncertainty of the future gets me all depressed The Hunger +depression is Really making me think of things I shouldn't |
Re: Come Share Your Biggest Problem, Challenge Or Source Of Depression! by CapedBaldy: 1:06pm On Feb 21, 2019 |
PreciousRahl:thanks man |
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