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Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Vibesking(m): 6:28pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
There's a particular sect of individuals [male and female] who always seem to be at the opposite side of luck when it comes to love. These folks have been heartbroken and emotionally battered to point they believe that love only exist in movies. For the males who fall into the above category, they've come to accept that all women are inclined to be repacious and money-grobbers. They claim that all women have an inherent tendency to cheat and are generally gold diggers. Also, there's a particular sect of females who are unlucky with love too. These folks seem to have a magnetic field around them that appears to always pull players towards them -- they always tend to fall in love with men who eventually cheat on them. As a result of numerous heartbreaks, you hear such women recline to saying things like "all men are scum. " These two sects of individuals have one thing in common: they BELIEVE the worse about the opposite sex. To the average person this might not make sense. But there's been various psychological studies which reveal that your life often catches up with your thoughts. Your reality will move in the direction of the mental pictures you've established in your mind. If you believe that all men are scum, be assured that only scumbags will approach you. And after a while, you begin to wonder where all the good men are. There's no diabolical powers are after you; its just nature obeying the universal law of attraction. Look carefully into the life of men who believe that all women are avaricious. These are exactly the kind of wowen that always come in and out of thier life -- women who like money above anything else and don't mind spreading their legs for a parcel of bread. Here's the bottom line: If your want to attract good, first learn to see good in others. The quality of your life is in direct correlation with how you think and see the world. 2 Likes |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Op thanks. You are absolutely right. I guess careful meditation to rid my consciousness of the thought that all men are cheats and liars will draw me to a better person. Law of attraction is real. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by DanDeeBoss(m): 8:43pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
I rather stay single than fall into the trap of a failed relationship.... One can't be lucky at all times.... |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by ImaIma1(f): 8:47pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Vibesking: The bold is so true. They keep attracting what they have filled up their heads with. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by johnkey: 8:54pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
God blessed me with true love. Appreciate true love if you have one. I can't wait to marry my baby. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Uglymugg: 8:55pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Lmfao |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Uglymugg:Yea. Laugh uglymutt laugh 1 Like |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Uglymugg: 9:11pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Top lel |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by urboyAce(m): 9:59pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Love is an illusion.. the bullshit fades away...stop looking for true love Pple try to work things out themselves that's y they fail...keep calm and see things working out in its own acvord..fate.. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Biglittlelois(f): 10:15pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Vibesking: Well said. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Biglittlelois(f): 10:18pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss: How will you know it will fail if you're not in a relationship? Everyone goes into a relationship hoping for the best not the worst. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:23pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:I know....Many have had worse relationships in the past |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Vibesking(m): 11:03pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: You got that right. Meditation coupled with positive affirmations are instrumental in reconfiguring our thought patterns. When the great poet, E.C Henley said "I am the master of my fate. The captain of my soul," he wasn't just being poietic, he was stating a philosophy that's as old as time itself -- we control the outcome of our lives by controlling how we think. Even Solomon, the Jewish King understood this. "As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man" - Proverbs 27:19. The outcome of our lives is a reflection of our most dominant thoughts. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Vibesking(m): 11:08pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss: You shouldn't allow people's negative relationship experiences to dictate the outcome of yours. The fact theirs failed doesn't necessarily mean yours would. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by DanDeeBoss(m): 11:10pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Vibesking:What if I am talking about myself I'll be lucky Las Las |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Vibesking(m): 11:14pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
urboyAce: Leaving things to chance or luck isn't just plain laziness, but also grossly dangerous. There's no significant success (either in relationship or otherwise) that has ever been gotten by chance. Desire needs to be mixed with action before you can get anything worthwhile. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Vibesking(m): 11:20pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss: Would you rather depend on luck or be in control of your life? A good relationship won't just fall on your laps, you've got to create the atmosphere capable of attracting it. |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by DanDeeBoss(m): 11:23pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Vibesking:Alright then... Thanks |
Re: Could This Be The Number ONE Reason For All Your Failed Relationships? by Nobody: 11:46pm On Feb 24, 2019 |
Iuminouz:Ogini |
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