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Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by issylarry(m): 7:49am On Feb 28, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Follow this advice or else..u are ready to lose all u v worked for ya marriage and ya brodaly love,take care of d daughter as urs.but mehn...dz case strong o...u want to finaly send ur broda to heaven immediately he hears abt this...God,I don't know if my advice is right or wrong but i dont want to mislead this man.He has done wrong and confused.... U don't have sense o,u know how to put food into your mouth,when u know d nose is not d right channel for food...means u know right from wrong U ended up moving to a friend's place,medicine after death..When she was disturbing u,there are other things u knew u could do but u dont because u were also enjoyin d puna..... Now,u r here soundin like a good boi.... Pray for forgiveness,ask for God's intervention. Dz mata pass my strenght |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Alanbenner: 7:51am On Feb 28, 2019 |
this is the problem most you Nigerians have. no brain, no maturity, no empathy, useless set of animals. someone damned his pride and his ego seeking for your advice and support all you could do is poke useless fun at him? Monkeys. this is why i hate to see most of you motherfuckerz here in Bronx, New York. I hate Nigerians with greater passion. most Africans from other nationalities are well behaved and law abiding citizens with spirit of love, respect for others, unlike you apes. y'all mentality is so fucking low, no wonder I hear lot of killings going on in the country. Bleep y'all motherfuckerz 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by mriyesecnerwal(m): 7:51am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Serious matter. If you have any elderly somebody in the family that's not biased it's better you consult them. I don't want to believe it's because of that your wife is having issues having kids sha. But it better you open up and move on since it's getting out of hand |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by MunorAnne(f): 7:52am On Feb 28, 2019 |
eyinjuege:She might also need a cervical cerclage. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by na2016: 7:59am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Alanbenner: Has this your rant helped the OP? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Akachukwu42(m): 8:00am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Some secret are meant to be taken to the grave. Don't break his heart further . Meanwhile take your wife for intensive checkup. Most miscarriages are caused by long years of untreated std |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by chocolatelady(f): 8:00am On Feb 28, 2019 |
The damage has been done . Before u tell ur wife or ur brother, pls make sure u involve a catholic priest whether u are a catholic or not. Priests are normally trained on how o handle issues like this. Pls never u tell ur wife this story on ur own becos u might lose her. As for ur brother, I am sure the priest will find a way of telling him but in all ur brother may find it difficult to trust u again. Just pray to God to forgive u first but also u have to forgive urself before u can make any head way on this case. Good luck. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by jossydebby: 8:04am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Dear poster, u have really made a big mistake, don't be surprise the child may not be urs, is likely that ur bro just use u to cover her adultery during the pregnancy, d child look so much like u because u slept with her and also stays in their house, the first thing u can do b4 revealing the secret is to take that girl for DNA test urself since d kids do come to spend holiday with u, after that if she happen to be ur child they reveal it, then only reveal the secret to ur wife, u can't tell ur bro because if u do, u want to kill him, but if she is not just confess that ur bro wife use u when u stay with ur bro that was why u left their house. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by jossydebby: 8:06am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Dear poster, u have really made a big mistake, don't be surprise the child may not be urs, is likely that ur bro wife just use u to cover up her adultery during the pregnancy, d child look so much like u because u slept with her and also stays in their house, the first thing u can do b4 revealing the secret is to take that girl for DNA test urself since d kids do come to spend holiday with u, after that if she happen to be ur child they reveal it, then only reveal the secret to ur wife, u can't tell ur bro because if u do, u want to kill him, but if she is not just confess that ur bro wife use u when u stay with ur bro that was why u left their house. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by drtwist(m): 8:09am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Vincent88: How are you 100% sure the baby is your own, have you gone for DNA test or she told you. Because during the period the man might be sleeping with her also. 3 Likes |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by IRIEBOY(m): 8:10am On Feb 28, 2019 |
I hope your brother or someone close to you is not on Nairaland, or else they will know you are the one that created the topic.. anyway, dont tell your bro or wife about it, bury the matter forever |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Babygal2020(f): 8:15am On Feb 28, 2019 |
yvelchstores:Very funny!!!! |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by ciouxox(m): 8:33am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Vincent88:Ask your doctors about a procedure called cerclage, wherein the uterus is tied to prevent miscarriage and she will be able to carry the foetus till full term. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by announcement: 8:33am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Debramaye: PLEASE DON'T BE SINGLE FOR LIFE.......U NEED A MAN LIKE ME. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by SaturnNick(m): 8:36am On Feb 28, 2019 |
nwanneniressure:Confessing to a priest is not all about spirituality or God (as you mentioned). These people are trained councilors and know how a societies' morals should be. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 8:36am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Vincent88: Talk to your wife first and make sure you have a supportive wife before beaking the news to your family. Don't let this secret go with you to the grave. Your defence is that you were raped by his wife. You were a minor when she slept with you. I'm sure others can see that. It will take forever for your brother to forgive you, but it's worth a try. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by mekyno777(m): 8:38am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Alanbenner: Easy! Every one is not as bad as u paint it. Though it's not the best act, bt thats human nature for u which i believe transcends beyond nigeria. Another thing is that some ppl come here with cooked up story (though i bliv this is not one of them). Pls why are u in a nigerian site if u hate us all that much? Thank God ur in USA......why not enjoy ur life and let us be. Cheers! |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Jeweldeprecious: 8:38am On Feb 28, 2019 |
my dear only the truth shall set you free, you were young and naive, you were seduced not like you raped her, first discuss with your wife, if she can support you then you have nothing to worry about, call a family meeting, involve a priest or pastor, apologise to your brother and seek for forgiveness, then take your child in, it may not be as easy as it sounds here cos emeotions are involved and some people will feel betrayed, but do it regardless. May God grant you peace, and fruit of the womb to wifey amen. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by UtaliEgo1(m): 8:45am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Stop telling us this shiiiii... it bro! |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by SaturnNick(m): 8:46am On Feb 28, 2019 |
OP, you are a very very selfish person. You are just pretending but this is all about one person... YOU. Am sure if your wife births you will keep mute. Well, continue keeping mute cos saying it will only make matters worse. This is a case scenario of somethings are better left unsaid. As for your conciousness, get to see a trusted priest for confession and for spiritual/moral advice. God help you. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Baselm: 8:47am On Feb 28, 2019 |
I don't think you should tell your brother, he is already heartbroken and a drunk. he might commit suicide or homicide(kill all the children) or murder (kill u or ur wife or both). sincerely pray to God for forgiveness, then forgive yourself which is very important, your wife will deliver, trust me. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by SamOyovwi: 8:53am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Just keep the secret forever. He might kill you Vincent88: |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by phatnpretty(f): 8:54am On Feb 28, 2019 |
your wife shouldn't be a problem if you guys are close, this was what you did when you were young , long before you met her. It's not an excuse but it's not something she has to hold on to. The real task is how to get your brother to forgive you. It would have been done by your mother if she was alive, or his wife if she wasn't your accomplice. Right now you need to find someone close to him and work things out, if not just carry the secret to your grave and adopt kids. it's better you don't spill it out than you do so and he ends up committing suicide, u will live with that guilt for the rest of your life. Some truths are better left untold. Check our odds before you take that bold step. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Sam2310(m): 8:55am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Modupetemmy1:The OP is not trying to be conscience free, is only trying to get the girl back because is wife is having a miscarriages. OP is self-centered, is not even thinking the effects it we have on his wife and brother. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 9:00am On Feb 28, 2019 |
5thElement: Excuse me? He was NINETEEN! He wasn't raped and didn't mention being raped as well. Don't make matters worse! 4 Likes |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 9:04am On Feb 28, 2019 |
lovelygurl: I thought I read 17. My bad. Well, if that's the case, openeness is still the key. He should open up to his wife and family members. What he did was wrong and terrible and an abomination but he didn't rape her and the girl-child deserves to know who her real father is. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by joeeee240(m): 9:09am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Debramaye: Me that is planning to woo you. You have entered o |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 9:12am On Feb 28, 2019 |
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Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by gurusubai7(m): 9:13am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by tallerSSS: 9:17am On Feb 28, 2019 |
For the fact that your brother has divorce the wife, I see a better chance to let him know here.. but first, you need to let your wife and your other sibling know(which is where your backbone lies) before telling him. tell him you repelled her severally but couldn't at a point which resulted in the biggest mistake of your life.. tell him it was God that used the last incident she had to expose are immorality and you never knew you she has taken in for you until she told you at a point she had decided to keep the pregnancy.. if truly he is your brother he will forgive you... in as much as he is divorce with the particular woman in question. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by michealdeco: 9:20am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Vincent88:are you sure your wife didn't have an abortion during her early stage of life that kicked in the special antibodies that's sees any baby as a threat to her body henceforth terminating it Let's say she is RH-negative and she had an abortion in which her blood mixed with the blood of the baby who might be rh -positve then the antibodies has already kicked in You should seek professional medical advice this is nothing to do with your former child Stop believing in superstitious stuffs 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by dopemama(f): 9:25am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Dear bro as much as I understand how troubled u are ,some secrets are best left unsaid...just like some one said that child you think is yours may actually not be it's cos from all indications your brothers ex wasn't sleeping with you alone...u 'll harm your brother more instead of helping him ....i repeat don't tell ur wife or u l loose her trust for ever 1 Like |
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