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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by vgodwino12(m): 9:23pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
lilmax: Please don't say this again, we are wired differently. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by vgodwino12(m): 9:25pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Almost every one has spoken well, please go for him. 5 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by ThothHermes: 9:43pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Lalas247(f): 9:47pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Does he have a beard ? If not you know wht to do .... Pls don’t @ me Sipping Rum ![]() Jokes aside if you find him boring then just decline ... trust me you will tnk me later Trying to change a man is extremely difficult 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by seekingop: 9:55pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
vgodwino12:thanks so much |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by seekingop: 9:56pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Lalas247:thank you and he keeps beard 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by seekingop: 9:59pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Pusyiter:that's just the reason |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Godsent12(m): 10:15pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
believe me,that guy is trying to be careful,he does not want to say or do anything that will hurt you,thats why he is humble while talking to you,he really loves you.I'm that kind of guy. 32 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by kense88: 10:20pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Lol. Experience 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by mozele(m): 12:58am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: if you are still single hala me make I give you small headache. |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Xbursta(m): 2:05am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: true talk |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Xbursta(m): 2:08am On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: ![]() AntiBrutus: |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by ubunja(m): 2:11am On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:how quick girls are to say that their love for Bad Boys is a myth. ![]() Who are they trying to trick in 2019. Like who really would believe that blue lie. Lmfaooooo 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by ubunja(m): 2:12am On Mar 04, 2019 |
mozele:lol smallnyana headache. ![]() |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Daeylar(f): 5:03am On Mar 04, 2019 |
CyberWolf:Same thing from you. So being nice means being boring and lacking confidence? And having confidence means you must be nasty or be a bad boy. Please. A man can have confidence and still be nice. A man can be boring and still be a devil. All these ridiculous stereotypes. badadvice:SMH ![]() Lalas247: Thank you jare. seekingop If you feel he is too boring for you, you can decline. You don't have to wait around hoping he gets comfortable enough to start having confidence around you, neither do you have to feel you need to do this or that to get him to have confidence when he is with you. Man never finish for this world. If however you want to try out the suggestions given here that's all good also. Since he is has been your friend and he has good qualities I wish you luck. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. 4 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Wizywiz(m): 5:28am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Thread close All of u go and prepare for the days hustle....before u join the next level hustle |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 5:42am On Mar 04, 2019 |
If a guy is boring and you as a girl cannot come up with something to spice up the moment, then you are more boring than him. Where is it written that it is a man's job to always come up with something new to discuss, spice up a conversation with jokes and humours, etc? 49 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 5:43am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Daeylar: Madam Daeylar, before you go attacking like someone on heat...I called it useless for a reason. If there is anyone jumping into conclusion, it has to be you. Like how can someone ignore a whole post and focus on just the first paragraph. Seems like you are looking for a way to attack without remorse and reading further wouldn't help that. How do you do this? 12 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by femi4: 6:00am On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop:Help him build his confidence. You want to throw away other good qualities. Entertain him or are you boring as well 6 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Pusyiter(m): 6:02am On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop:The question now is, what exactly do you really want? |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Daeylar(f): 6:03am On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Aunty Brutus. You're still projecting. If you're on heat. Has no business with me. If there is anyone jumping into conclusion, it has to be you.How can it be a conclusion when there is a question mark there? Do you know what a question and a conclusion is at all? Like how can someone ignore a whole post and focus on just the first paragraphSame way you ignored my whole post and started flying into conclusions. Seems like you are looking for a way to attack with without remorse and reading further wouldn't help that.More flying into conclusions. All to divert attention from the questions I asked you. You can answer my questions or you can move along. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 6:07am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Daeylar: Your question is totally irrelevant and it wouldn't arise if you took some time to read and understand. I do not buy the school of thought that only bad guys have confidence, but knowing it will be the next things guys say...I started my post with it. Even Ubujah that is more defensive than you, got the message. Once again, how do you do this? Next thing na, you will start prancing upandan, taking side comments at people who do not agree with you. The only time you are happy is when things go your way. You are one special giel. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Preshy561(f): 6:15am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Op, some of us like those boring guys. I like a guy that's shy oo ![]() ![]() About his confidence, that's what you will have to help him build cos it's paramount. 6 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 6:23am On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop: You want the confident and cocky ones, be ready for a heart break. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Daeylar(f): 6:24am On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:This is all that needed to be said. Your verbal diarrhea is unnecessary. But I understand. You can't help it. If you don't turn a simple answer into some type of drama and spectacle with unnecessary lines filled with delusions and projections. You wouldn't be at peace with yourself. Besides. This Next thing na, you will start prancing upandan, taking side comments at people who do not agree with you from the same girl who runs up and down different threads giving people who have disagreed with her unnecessary snide mentioñs? I've told you to stop projecting, but it's seems like a second skin to you while hypocrisy seems to be the Cherry on top Anyways. Don't let your hypocrisy and stupid projections hit you on the way out from my mentioñs. You've answered my question. I'm done here. 5 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 6:32am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Daeylar: K 7 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Ejiod(m): 6:54am On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:nne biko hafu that lady... You bigger than that abeg.. |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 7:57am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Ejiod: Lol, e never reach like that. How you dey? |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Ejiod(m): 8:03am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Kaycee7(m): 9:26am On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Format that we've been using since 4500 BC, Poco just came from nowhere and scattered. If no be say I get home training, I for call you winch. [img]https://media1./images/7151cbd13b094e81e95ea664ee830c00/tenor.gif?itemid=4851012[/img] 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by austyn0(m): 9:46am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Lalas247:Madame has been going gags over beards since time immemorial. ![]() Also, there are reasons why he is boring and boring can be classified into different parts.. "Does he just mope while you do the talking", " if the music player is turned on and you want him to come dance with you and he prefers to support his jaw with his fist and watch", and several other examples that will warrant I start contemplating on concurring your "decline if he is boring" assertion. The first few commenters made the good points, she should analyze the nig' further. If he is my former self, the kinda guy that is ashamed of going all worldly to the girl to avoid being seen as a player but is lively enough to make her smile most times, she should soldier on with him and get to know more about him, there is every possibility he needs to be comfortable around her. |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by kollinzgee(m): 10:24am On Mar 04, 2019 |
lilmax: bro, you are the one who lacks sense here not the op.why do you like you partner? is it not because she has all the qualities you like in a woman lets say she is beautiful and intelligent or would you settle for an ugly and dumb woman ? same thing with women too they all have qualities what they want in a partner and most times it is confidence and charisma accept this fact or be doomed with women .the op is even considerate sef most women will just reject you straight. 4 Likes |
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