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My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 10:07pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?" I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong. Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys. I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:09pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Then bleeping break up with her and bleeping leave it like that 366 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:10pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Are being held at gunpoint in the relationship? Wait no be you enter the relationship yourself? Why do you need us to pack you out of it? 257 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by SUPERPACK: 10:11pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Steal her pant and use her for ritual 150 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by ojun50(m): 10:16pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
SUPERPACK:if u don't have the brain to give an advice jst close yr mouth nd stop talking nonsense, u for carry yr own sisters pant go give am make him use 155 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by sholikay(m): 10:17pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
hmmm...this is serious... 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:18pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Quit, u guys ar not compatible 97 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by donbachi(m): 10:19pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
she is more dangerous than a handgun...run for your life and save yourself,family and friends further wahalas 27 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:19pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Let's wait for the elders.. This one pass Nairalanders! Lalasticlacla 33 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Learnstuffs: 10:21pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Too opinionated individuals cannot make a good relationship. It's obvious two of you are!! 85 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 10:23pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
ojun50: LOL.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 10:23pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
grayht: LOL bro this na serious issue 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Kenshinmunac(m): 10:25pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
sherylbakky: Mehn I wish I knew wouldn't have been involved with her. She is fucking proud but letting her go is so heart shattering because I got attached. Thanks for the advice though bro, 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nobody: 10:48pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Obinrin so wa nu, oni ohun oni ori oko... OP, run for cover before it's too late. She'll still learn her lessons later in life, by that time, she'd have learnt the hard way and might be too late. Cheers! 28 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by lilianofentse(f): 10:49pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Quit it bro,
Unless you're seeking attention here on nairaland. 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by SUPERPACK: 11:27pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
ojun50:okpo 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Benlight: 11:30pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Who sees fire and knows it is fire then decides to sit down and wait to see if it will burn him/her. You have seen all the signs yet you want advise. You said it yourself that you cannot cope with the attitude use common sense na. 72 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by labusinessguide: 11:51pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Here's my thoughts Too many bleeping words I feel you're too immature to be in a relationship This is not an insult... Bhet I suggest you consider growing up some more Then relationship will fall into place What you share with her is not called relationship but childishness...and the earlier you quit, the better you may learn exactly what dating and relationship entails. Best regards 132 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Pidginwhisper: 11:52pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
All these Secondary School type of relationships wey some people dey do sef. I tire 77 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by NotBeenPaid: 11:52pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Even with the broad daylight redflags, you still need an advice? 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by naijaguy1234(m): 11:52pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by meobizy(f): 11:52pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
This space is for sale. I don’t care to advice OP. All the advice I don drop all these years, nobody don pay me money for am. 61 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by toluleke(m): 11:52pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Send her to me will return her safely 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Nlolodo: 11:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by queenitee(f): 11:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Saffi: 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Butoneday2(m): 11:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
How old are you? 8 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Elchappo: 11:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
OP.. u re certainly a teen.. Once u ain't compatible wiv a Gal, just call it quit.. Met a drama queen last month, I quickly called it off.. 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by MissSweet(f): 11:53pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Dude, you don't have to force yourself on any girl. If she deserves you she will always reconcile. Just take a break from relationship issues and earn yourself value first... Trust me, If you worth her she will come for you else, find someone will understand you and cherish you more... And @op never you shout at a girl... you lose your respect for her. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Offpoint1: 11:54pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
I see a ship whereby 2 captains are trying to sail, A kingdom where 2 kings are trying to rule, A pack of wolves with 2 Alpha male, A pride of lions with 2 dominant male, A car where 2 drivers are trying to drive, I see a perfect ingredient for a disastrous home. Op, you don't need my advice... you need common sense. You don't have 2 madmen in a room and expect a tidy room. 90 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 11:54pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
You’re a control freak. She’s not your child! Just listen to yourself and the words you’re saying. You want to control her You’re correcting her You’re raising your voice at her You get upset that she talks back at you. Like she’s supposed to keep quiet like a child and listen to you talking condescendingly to her in the name of correction. What are you correcting her about? What makes you think you know more than her and as such are in position to correct her. You’re just upset that she isn’t accepting of your mansplaining. What normal person looks for who to control? I hope she sees the signs and leaves you before she ends up in a horrible marriage with someone looking for a subordinate, not a partner. I wonder who is raising these prideful, egocentric boys who think they can come into a woman’s life and run the show. Oh I know. GTFOH 173 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Portsvessels: 11:56pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Run I repeat RUN! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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