You had a sex romp and nothing more

Now that's a matured game she wants to play, simply apply two can play d game on her. She knew from the onset she was into you more than you were into her, she just wants to shake the table around a little bit but don't fall for that. Just send her a response,tell her she should direct the message to the appropriate person, and while she is at it, she should make sure she checks your number whenever she wants to send a message. You don't entertain such messages

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

...alpha males bro..

faith551:

This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".
Normal me would ignore the text and wait

First class wyning.. Abegi.. So she no save your number again....
What happened to the normal you.¿¿

Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??

Maybe it was a message to her girl-friend

Children playing relationships won't let us rest

Don't take her serious, why do you all cash feelings so quick? Just play along anytime she comes over just enjoy yourself and also remember not to do her any favour because she isn't yours.

Op just move on like nothing happened.. Don't stress yasef over women matter before you die before ya appointed time biko..

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

Mans geed up, that’s how the g gets down. Dunno bruda

MariaLavina:
She only wanted the rod between your two legs, you got too attached. She owes you nothing, not even bills paid on a date because you never got to pay any. You be one night stand, accept your L and move on.

This is it! Have you been in my head lately? You took the words out of my mouth. Baba got some pucci, caught feelings and started claiming girlfriend when all the babe wanted to do was get some. Uncle, move on. She doesn't owe you shiiit. You've served your purpose

VickyRotex:


Highlighted. Please I can't laugh

Yes, the lady is more or less GoTv . lol

faith551:



thank bro. but am thinking something more subtle but direct like. "Ok, now I guess that wasnt for me"

No....

WOW as someone else suggested packs much punches. It will make her to start thinking wild not knowing exactly what you meant or where you are coming from.

MariaLavina:
She only wanted the rod between your two legs, you got too attached. She owes you nothing, not even bills paid on a date because you never got to pay any. You be one night stand, accept your L and move on.

If that so,then it would be nice. Am not the type to flaunt feelings and I dnt catch them easily. But she was always going on about how I have refuse to give our relationship a name, how I might leave her for other girls when she travels.

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.
I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest). On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).
Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.
This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".
Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

lol.. see this one, you wan chop Igbo kpomo.. usakpa..

All This Baby Guys Self

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

Guy,while u r work-Zoning...

don't 4get to chop and clean mouth

it's a game,finish it well

faith551:



she's pretty, and brainy.
btw how many ladies these days get to offer to foot bills?

And that is why you committed to a relationship, 14 days!

Remember that JESUS is coming back very soon! Give your life to Christ now! Do not be taken unawares! Delay is dangerous!

Why bother yourself when you can be backing her,knowing fully well she's your hoe

MrBrownJay1:
why the headache? you just know the babe, so forget about her deceitful self and move on with your life.

et voila!

Shmmmm

DanDeeBoss:
Guyman just rush everything
sexy74:

My brother e tire me ooh.
Abeg ask him again.

WAT A PITY

destiny just gave you a sugar mommy and you're here taking it serious. maybe because you're of the same aged or you're aged then her. sugar mommy is sugar mommy regardless of age


if a Lady give you pssyy and pay the bills why give yourself unnecessary headache over relationship

but why would a guy of this contemporary age believes in matchmaking? matchmaking is dangerous emotionally

Op, guy, you have no girlfriend o. Please. She can email whatever she wants to anybody.

Have you both decided to date, forgetting all other romantic interests? I guess not.

So no reason to fret.

There is No free girl out there. They are either in, just about coming out of, just a about beginning, a relationship. Most new girls you meet are just making you their plan B just in case. If their main guys bleeps up you rise up the rank.

Until they have a wedding ring, most are still scoping. Never mind only two weeks dating.

MrBrownJay1:
why the headache? you just know the babe, so forget about her deceitful self and move on with your life.

et voila!

Don't you think he should have a taste of the biitch before dumping her sorry ass?

faith551:


This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

These chewing gum boys of nowadays sef. Very jealous set of people. What is wrong the sms? There is nothing there to suggest she's cheating. And 2 weeks?she probably doesn't fancy you after all. If you are not interested why not move on and let her be?

Why the burden you putting on your good self? Why not let her slide away from you so you can fulfil better things? Please, receive peace and let her go

thats a red sign ...better detected early than late or never in a relationship

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You just met her two weeks ago, common sense should tell you that she wouldn't just put all her eggs in your basket. Give it some time and work on the relationship if it works for both of you, then you can take it to the next level. A girl that is being approached by different men won't know which one is serious or the real deal until you show her you are serious and not just looking for a fling.

Davash222:
Just two weeks and you’re catching feelings

na wa

You met a girl 2 weeks ago, went on 2 dates in a week and she is already your acclaimed girlfriend?

Where are you guys rushing to?

Take it easy

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.

I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest).
On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).

Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.

This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".

Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

She is not your wife.