Dear romancelanders
Good morning to u all
Plz I need advise.. My girl came to my house and drop her fone with me to help her to charge it.
Then after she left a message come in and it was a guy called Peter.
I try to read thru their previous chats and I see they chat like boyfriend and girlfriend.
There was even an instance the guy was asking her to take her out to eatery and she agreed.
She came back to collect her phone I didn't say anything.
So the next day she came to my house and I asked her I go tru her chats and I saw one peter guy she was chatting with.
I now asked her who peter is and where and how she met him.
Her reply to me was None of my concern.
I was so annoyed that I shouted at her and show my annoyance she later stood up and told me that he is just an ordinary friend to her that she can never double date this and dat.
But I got annoyed with that her first response "Non of my concern " I expect her to explain to me in a polite manner and I will believe her for her words.
But she flare up.
Right now the relationship is heeding to a collapse she refuse to say sorry and she keeps justifying herself.
The relationship is 2 years and we are planning to get married by December.
But right now am pissed off.. Because I hate a stubborn woman as a wife.
She keeps telling me am wrong and we argue on chats everyday and am getting bored and tired of the relationship.
Please what should i do..
I want you guys to help me with good advise. Thanks all

No respect.

This is a delicate issue ..

From your side of the story seems your boo isnt ready for marriage


Sit her down and have a good heart to heart talk with her.. Watch out for her next move

She might password her phone or start clearing her chat
Keep the relationship going until you have any concrete evidence and hold anything marriage for now till further notice


You can as well sprinkle some of ur moniker on her

Don't trip over no bitch,Call-off the gatdamned marriage so you don't get tied up with a blaady feminist for the rest of ya entire life

Why do you guys like frustrating yourself in a relationship?

holywater24:
Dear romancelanders
Good morning to u all
Plz I need advise.. My girl came to my house and drop her fone with me to help her to charge it.
Then after she left a message come in and it was a guy called Peter.
I try to read thru their previous chats and I see they chat like boyfriend and girlfriend.
There was even an instance the guy was asking her to take her out to eatery and she agreed.
She came back to collect her phone I didn't say anything.
So the next day she came to my house and I asked her I go tru her chats and I saw one peter guy she was chatting with.
I now asked her who peter is and where and how she met him.
Her reply to me was None of my concern.
I was so annoyed that I shouted at her and show my annoyance she later stood up and told me that he is just an ordinary friend to her that she can never double date this and dat.
But I got annoyed with that her first response "Non of my concern " I expect her to explain to me in a polite manner and I will believe her for her words.
But she flare up.
Right now the relationship is heeding to a collapse she refuse to say sorry and she keeps justifying herself.
The relationship is 2 years and we are planning to get married by December.
But right now am pissed off.. Because I hate a stubborn woman as a wife.
She keeps telling me am wrong and we argue on chats everyday and am getting bored and tired of the relationship.
Please what should i do..
I want you guys to help me with good advise. Thanks all

oga u dey find excuse to no marry
i think u both hv trust issues

Run run run

Was hoping she would at least explain herself and show a sign of remorse if nothing was actually between them and if she actually cherished the relship.

But I don't know, if you are close to her family report her to her brother,mum, sis or dad abi and see what they would do about it and most importantly her reaction.

But it shouldn't cost her anything to explain and apologize cause she was wrong or may she doesn't love you again.

I don't get her.

I now asked her who peter is and where and how she met him.Her reply to me was None of my concern.

the nerve

once again, a weak guy dating a immature girl with no priorities but HOE for life

I think seun should start screening these crappy threads out this section instead of promoting the weakness and stupidity guys display

Get a side chick too

grad2012:
Was hoping she would at least explain herself and show a sign of remorse if nothing was actually between them and if she actually cherished the relship.

But I don't know, if you are close to her family report her to her brother,mum, sis or dad abi and see what they would do about it and most importantly her reaction.

But it shouldn't cost her anything to explain and apologize cause she was wrong or may she doesn't love you again.

I don't get her.

Thanks so much for that.... I tot as much

hi, I'd like to holla at you, do u mind following back?

amiibaby:
Run run run