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Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by GeoAfrikana(m): 6:18pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Raydos: My brother, the hustle is real. Unfortunately, the few lucky ones are accusing the many unlucky of laziness and indolence. 11 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Toseenlove: 6:34pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
GeoAfrikana: Finally someone that has a lot of sense. 9 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 6:59pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: I am sorry if I got you worked up or angry or if you think I am mocking your predicament. I will never do that, I was moved and push with what you wrote, that's why I said so. it will be important for you to note, I never abused or insulted you on your previous post. see in this life, people you call your family are not ready to help, not to talk of outsiders. Don't relent on people for your start up capital or think a job is too small for you to do. I wasn't inconsiderate to your plight. Thank you. 7 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 7:20pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
fatymore: why not just go away so everybody can rest, you are found on jumping on thread and write "go and fry Akara and Agege bread, there is no shame in it, do you want to fry that Akara and Agege after your NYSC? the man you are talking to has worked in a standard firm before now , has driven a nice car assigned to him, lost his job and he's looking for another job, why are you against it? what is your problem? I didnt know you, nor had you in mind when I was creating this post, I just dont know why you wont leave me alone, you said you are a Corper right? do you want to work in a corporate organization for 3 years and then return to fry Akara and Agege bread by your junction? show me where I said I'm looking for start up capital on this thread, your problem exactly? why are you so bend on making me look bad? obviously you dont have a job! please leave me alone, I beg you in the name of God, go away! EDITED. It's Okay , Thanks Fatymore, Faty Bumbum My Sister , you don't have to be sorry at least you made a point and we all still have a lot to learn in life, I I've learnt some things here today , so I will be saying Thanks to you , don't mean to be rude as well. I'm sorry 15 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by JbravoAdodger(m): 7:56pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Ganjafama: Me I need rope oh, plenty rope. I should send my details? 3 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ganjafama(m): 8:10pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
JbravoAdodger:Lol , God will not make us need rope. 1 Like |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 8:12pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: I am sorry, I don't wish any bad for you or whatever. May God in his infinite mercy answer all your prayers. I don't know you and I am not jumping on people's thread . Don't assume what you don't. 3 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 8:13pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Livecamp09: I don't want to reply you the way you did. And may God forgive you for thinking I am rubbing it on his face. 2 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:05pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
job job job! I need an angel please, or someone to engage me in any reasonable productive activity please! not a troublesome person please. |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by izzou(m): 9:18pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: Since you drive well, why not look for a driving job? Preferably taxis. In Lagos, you can drive on uber or bolt. But since you live in the North, you can try and look for all these small corollas and transport people. I'll advise you look for something that can give you daily earnings rather than a monthly stipend. Don't give up bro. You go dey alright Las Las 3 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by kristen12(f): 9:28pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Many of us are about giving up because of this job issue. Just hold on, things will get better. I followed your previous thread before and I think you have a temper you should work on. Sometimes just ignore instead of replying and cussing people out. It would be fine, it's just a matter of time. 12 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by JoannaSedley(f): 9:39pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
I can't link this personality to anybody I know for a job...so unstable and irrationally angry. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 9:46pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
kristen12: Thank You, its quite depressing because we are all human and nobody is born to be wretched in life , things must change for better ... God will show us the way , send us an angel because we can not avoid to fail in life, I will never give up till things turn around for better, Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by 1Sharon(f): 9:52pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Yeye OP just wants money 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Abcruz(m): 9:57pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: Who among you fears the LORD and obeys his servant? If you are walking in darkness, without a ray of light, trust in the LORD and rely on your God.--Isaiah 50:10 For our present troubles are small and won't last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!--2 Corinthians 4:17 Nevertheless, Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way prosperity will come to you--Job 22:21 The ear that listens to the reproofs of life abides among the wise!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 10:01pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
there is no giving up, I remain optimistic. |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 10:03pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Abcruz: Thank You. 1 Like |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by PattyB001: 10:19pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Mizwisdom(f): 11:44pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: Why are you taking everything personal? If you don't like her suggestion you can ignore it or simply type "thanks" then move on. You keep picking people's words up and down. You're giving the impression that there's no market for business where you live and you can't relocate unplanned, then why not do what others are doing and thriving too? You can't stick to events and small chops where it won't move, but you can always do what works at your end PS: look into security jobs 11 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by LewsTherin: 11:58pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
I didn't want to post on this thread but I think I should. I read your first thread and was considering contacting you. A friend needed a cook. But you were based in a different city so it wouldn't have worked. But now, I'm relieved I didn't. I want to believe you are trolling because if you aren't, you have a long way to go. Your utterances and attitude so far suggest that you believe the world owes you. Even if you don't think so, that is the impression you give me. You most definitely have not put your best foot foward. You've spent more time putting your foot in your mouth instead. Well, good luck to you. I hope there is someone who can take your attitude. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by jesmond3945: 12:36am On Mar 23, 2019 |
eventsmallchops:if you apply why don't you call them to follow up? Why not change your location? Why not hit the street? See in Nigeria now nothing comes on a platter. Try and do some volunteer work and besides what of the father of your kid? Never you think of committing suicide. Give your life to Christ, always play worship songs, always read your bible. Depression is from Satan. 2 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by cococandy(f): 3:50am On Mar 23, 2019 |
You made your condition sound really dire. To the point of saying that you’re ready to commit suicide. Anyone who suggests that you fry akara at this point is not making a degrading suggestion to you, considering that people do and use it to survive and even live okay lives. Is that not better than killing yourself? If your condition is still at a high level that frying akara is too much of a downgrade, then it’s not as dire as you’re painting it. Just saying. eventsmallchops: 17 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ishilove: 5:10am On Mar 23, 2019 |
eventsmallchops:This attitude will not get you the help you desire. Help can come from anywhere, including the 'kids' you're underrating. Success Adegor is a hit today because of an OND student who took interest in her, and God used that OND 'kid' to catapault the little girl to relative stardom. Embrace humility because it is even written in the bible that "God lifts up the humble, but resists the haughty (proud)" 16 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eyinjuege: 7:07am On Mar 23, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: Unfortunately, you fall in the category of unemployable.... I'm not beefing you here, but just stating some hard facts. Your attitude needs to be worked on. Other than your attitude, your view on life is also so despairing. No employer would want that around them. Employers need people that are problem solvers, who think outside the box. You always seem to see only the potential problem, never a solution or possible ways of moving around the obstacle. I wish you well in your search. Again, work on your attitude 10 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by prettysassygirl(f): 7:23am On Mar 23, 2019 |
I don't know why Fatymore is apologizing to this uncouth fellow, even if I have a position to offer u, I definitely won't, cos u are too arrogant, I don't know who the heck how think you are, your wife finished nysc four years ago, and so bleeping what? ? change your attitude man,nobody likes a proud man, even you creator, who is more than able to give you what u want. you look down on people too, very bad, if your type get money for this life, everybody must to dey bow down for u. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by fatymore(f): 7:32am On Mar 23, 2019 |
prettysassygirl:it is well... i dont want him to see me as an obstacle to his potential investor but believe me attitude is like a smoke. good morning. 6 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Cherez: 8:34am On Mar 23, 2019 |
eventsmallchops:Guy, from the look of things you seem not to need help. Even if people offer you help in bad ways just accept the help and abandon the bad/rude ways. Just get to the site the lady told you about and get the job. Then borrow 5k and jump trailers down to the location of your job. Oga, sleep inside the gutter if need be, get what you want and one day be out of the gutter to your house. Bros, life is tough ooooo! Take responsibility and stop enjoying a good house your pal has, go out their, slave your ass and make it. LIFE IS HARD!!!! This is the truth 6 Likes |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 1:34pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
fatymore: I ran out of data last night, just coming online now, at least you eventually accomplished your mission, exactly what you did on my previous thread! despite begging you to go away. you promised to set me up, hope you are very happy now, Thank You God is on his Throne. |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by eventsmallchops: 2:20pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
1Sharon: Imagine a comment like this? what is the relationship between my post and her comment? how old is she that she had the gut to call me YEYE OP, are we mate? saying I was only looking for money, who doesn't want money? is that not why I'm looking for a job? none of you condemn her desperate attempt to give the dog a bad name , I expect reasonable comments and not " YEYE OP", its not funny to me, I never mentioned money on this thread, I was initially looking for a business partner for my catering business before on here but dumped the idea after seeing high number of people begging for money in a very annoying manner on this forum and so decided to seek for assistance to search for a job like I stated in my post, I may have been angry because each time I create a post to seek attention of people in position to help, some kids staying in the hostel rush in and start insulting, create confusion on the thread which has being common occurrence on here, I should have just ignore her with believe that her opinion wont have any effect , but i saw this coming, there is no witch in any hidden place, B'cos this thing she just did now clearly gave her out as one , If I had taken my time to create a thread, why must she come in to post jargon when she knows the issue is beyond her? anyway, I didn't post this for this reason. whatever problem I'm facing is my problem and all this attacks wont solve it! so I wont even read any negative comment henceforth, I apologize to every well meaning people for repelling her insults, I will no longer respond to any insult. 1 Like |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by DBestDoc(f): 2:21pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
fatymore: Don't get emotional about this, don't fall for his emotional blackmail. You did absolutely nothing wrong. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Truly , I'm Giving Up On Life by Ganjafama(m): 2:22pm On Mar 23, 2019 |
eventsmallchops:Shut your mouth you idiot! Proud and arrogant peeps like you don't deserve help. I can assure you that the help you are seeking from this platform, you won't get it. Learn to work on your attitude before asking for help. 4 Likes |
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