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Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by id911(m): 10:46pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
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Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by mkoabiola: 10:48pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
This is not applicable to average Nigerian youths.... he financial economy of this country is not smiling at all 3 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by BrotherBlood1: 10:53pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
This is DUMB writeup. 11 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by ednut1(m): 10:54pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MelaninGold:so is it their fault ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Spaceclenzy1(m): 10:54pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MelaninGold:. Good observation abt Some people here 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by martius101(m): 10:57pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MelaninGold: No b ur fault nah.....shey b nah marry Dem go marry you......+you sef get married first to that man that u want. 8 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 10:58pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MelaninGold: Lmao, you actually think getting married at 36 for a Man is late? 40+ is what is considered late for a Man, not 30+ 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
IkpuMmadu: If I had the means nothing will stop me from getting married tomorrow, d problem is the bills, You need a steady source of income, business or otherwise. Nobody is urging me to marry, but seriously I feel how much time am loosing almost every time talk about marriage or age comes into play 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
So the very essence of marriage is having children? Marry when d time is right for u. 8 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:02pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Everybody wants to marry at 30. I even planned to marry at age 24 but the economic realties in this country will make you irresponsible if you try it. I know of some who tried it and defied all odds which include the financial burden and challenges in the country which will outweigh them and tag them irresponsible. It was a risk they are aware of and went ahead in taking such risks. Though they are still surviving, and struggling they have become hardlined debtors, a nuisance and liability to neighbours and so much irresponsible. Yet they hold on that it was maturity that made them take their stand. I don't want to take that risk and I won't advice anyone on such. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by wonder233: 11:03pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
yen yen yen... Obsession with marriage is why we are still where we are in this part of the world. You will hardly see articles about how young people can attain financial freedom or at least survive in the face of daunting and grim economic realities. No! It's articles goading them into marriage and reproduction to swell the already bloated and unkempt population. Sometimes I truly wonder if this part of the world isn't cursed afterall 45 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 11:04pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Please ma, kindly tell us what the essence of marriage is. 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by mascot345: 11:05pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
This your write up is rubbish. People graduate without jobs. How do you expect them to marry. Some people will look for jobs for 10 to 15 years. No job in the country. Provide jobs and this your write up will be the best. Don't blame anybody that is single. Some people don't even have hope of 3 square meal. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Getting married early is good but ability to sustain the marriage is more important. Better to marry late than marry wrong. it is also important that one is established to a certain extent before any talk of marriage. Dem no dey catch late comer for marriage. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by millionboi2: 11:09pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Emilokoiyawon:don't mind d guy.....na him family problem. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Amhappy(f): 11:09pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Scientifically the OP is very correct 4 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 11:09pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
MelaninGold:so the father has no investiments.so they are now depending on the first son.na wa. anyway if u marry too early as a man and you have ambition of moving forward in ur life u can never move forward in ur life cos the wife and the kids will forever become a saddle in ur life.best time to marry as a man is wen ur finances can include other feeding mouth and ur job is very secured. u cant be thinking of marriage as a youngman wen the only way u earn money is playing betnaija or u teaching in private lessons. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by millionboi2: 11:10pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
mascot345:lol and senseless.....he lacks d moral justification to tell anybody wen to marry. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by tete7000(m): 11:11pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Rubbish and nonsense, created to cause anxiety in people. Let God guide your decisions. He can't take you where he won't be able to sustain you. If he chooses to make you marry by 50, stick with that, he is capable of settling the rest... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by AIZubair(m): 11:13pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Nice piece. Alhamdulillah. Got married at age 28. Wish everyone the very best. 4 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Halo22: 11:13pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Every mature man is willing to marry when necessary, but the situation of the country is so frustrating for a good number of teeming young people. Therefore, plan yourself according to ur ability and don't create unnecessary wahala for yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by gonkin(m): 11:14pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
IkpuMmadu: If the economy was easier what's to stop u from marrying after graduation. I graduated at 24 finished nysc at 26. Spent 3yrs jobless. Using my skills to earn then. The girl I was dating told me I was going nowhere in life and im taking her along. Last year I scored job that pays 6 digits, took one of dad's cars to step up my profile now looking for the eligible but many are taken . Still searching, so sometimes it's situation. It's not like I chose to be at 30s and unmarried. If I see my type and shes of the right frequency it won't take long. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 11:15pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
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Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Gabson001(m): 11:16pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
I can't bcux of early marriage collect loan nah.. Lai lai when the ryt time comes, wil get married, i knw my God aint sleeping 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 11:18pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
See what buhari is causing here na.. Well, marriage is not ticket to heaven oo This days, is not when men cry when wife is not giving birth to make child.. Now even female child can make u happy Marry anytime God has prepared for u to.. Even if u marry late, try to make it better and Godly.. Sarah in Bible gave birth at what age? And still lived a Godly life.. 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 11:21pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
lefulefu: Asin ehn, my bro. The thing tire me, foolish parents putting so much pressure on First borns. That's how one Idiotic girl starting with "Saf**" in her name was arguing yesterday that Women in marriage is what make Men successful. Me that I know once you marry your life slows down by 85%. All the risk & opportunities you could take before is no longer available, you have to think of your Wife & children first. Any man who doesn't get his finances right before marriage is forever doomed. He will die in Poverty I swear! 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by enemyofprogress: 11:22pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Seun when will you marry? Nairaland babes are tired of waiting for you to make your final selection 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by henrixx(m): 11:22pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
I think it's more reasonable to hustle well while you're young than rushing to get married. If you hustle well at a young age you may have just created a lasting foundation for financial success. I mean a foundation that could last a life time. When one thinks negative you have to think positive as well and always go with the positive. So I think it's better one gets married when you are really ready. Let's not forget. You can get married early and still fail to live up to your responsibilities 6 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by golddeejay(m): 11:24pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
All in I see in this article is a lot of 'in the box' thinking. Living life according to some archaic standard will only live you frustrated. The Op come across as the kind of parent that will advise his kids to "Go to school, get good grades, get a good job, marry early and retire at so or so year and let your children provide for you in your old age". No pun intended, you sound educated but with "rigid & programmed" thinking. We live in a world with choices. Someone can decide not to get married or adopt a child/children or marry to same sex(where it is legal), work from home and other stuffs that are not according to your archaic programmed thinking. You throw a lot of statistics to back up your points...like 1/400 baby dies at childbirth and so on. Again living your life on statistics will cripple you with fear, frustrations and the rest. We are all different with different ideas and struggles Making choices and planning your live or family is not always "one size fits all" or following the crowd. I am not the one that rubbish other people's opinions but this is an offpoint. BTW, I am married. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by enemyofprogress: 11:25pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:don't mind the yeye op 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Lanretoye(m): 11:26pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Okay now I wan marry,who go marry me o... |
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