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Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by 1Sharon(f): 1:08am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Jubilancy: I know right. Are we going to marry ourselves 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 1:18am On Apr 15, 2019 |
SIRTee15: 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by chibuzorAbia: 1:19am On Apr 15, 2019 |
matify83: African mentality. Don't take a chance with the so called governor of the universe, follow the OP's logic. 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by whitering: 1:31am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Those of you insulting the op would one day realize that what he has said is nothing but the truth. Many are feeling bad not because of the write up but because of the reality on ground. Those hating should ask God to accelerate their turnaround blessings. 7 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Nobody: 1:35am On Apr 15, 2019 |
IkpuMmadu: LMAO. Your write up was well articulated but silly nevertheless. Your reason for marriage is centred around just having kids. This in my opinion is shallow of you. 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by safarigirl(f): 1:49am On Apr 15, 2019 |
truthsayer009:abeg talk the name well See as my mind cut like say na me, only to realize I never even had this conversation with anyone Guy, marriage dey slow down everybody life, be you man or woman, and once children come, forget all those dreams and hopes, cuz they have a 5% chance of being fulfilled, at most. Only a lucky few survive the rapture that marriage brings 13 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by kizyalex10(m): 1:57am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Who told u that he likes getting married late.the situation in nigeria have made it look so.d people who havent got what it takes to make their home comfortable and jst rush into marriage with jst hope.are d reason why nigeria is the way it is.is nt abt getting married. Is abt the ability to give ur family d best.if one can give his child a quality education and good life.do u think there will be touts who will snatch ballot box and take 5k to sell their votes?why do u think our northern counterparts happens to be d most under developed part in nigeria.they marry early and have so many wives littered here nd dere.making it impossible for d reasonable ones to out number them.constituting nuisance.u see a president win on social media but loose in reality because d other is banking on d mass illiteracy by d north.dats ehy d north hated jonathan for trying to enlighten their weapon 3 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Bianda24: 1:58am On Apr 15, 2019 |
In as much as your article is informative, your postulations can not be applied in all cases. It is good to marry early if you can but the reality is that not many will be able to do that. This is because of the economic situation. Many are well over 35 years of age and still had no job. One cannot marry in such condition. There are so many factor that can make a person not to marry early. Besides, everybody is in his own time line, Obama retires at 55 , Trump started at 70. Nelson Mandela spent most of his active years in prison and still became South African president. Therefore, one should just do his best. 4 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Bianda24: 2:02am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Emilokoiyawon:In as much as your article is informative, your postulations can not be applied in all cases. It is good to marry early if you can but the reality is that not many will be able to do that. This is because of the economic situation. Many are well over 35 years of age and still had no job. One cannot marry in such condition. There are so many factor that can make a person not to marry early. Besides, everybody is in his own time line, Obama retires at 55 , Trump started at 70. Nelson Mandela spent most of his active years in prison and still became South African president. Therefore, one should just do his best. 3 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by openmine(m): 2:02am On Apr 15, 2019 |
wonder233:true! 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by fvck(m): 2:06am On Apr 15, 2019 |
starstaz: Grammar fall on u |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by missyblissy: 2:13am On Apr 15, 2019 |
ednut1: Look for a good woman not a slay gueen and start small. You must not have it all before you get married. Plan with a good woman in one bedroom apartment and see as your life will change for better. The problem is how to find that one good woman that is willing to do this with you. Na money hungry women full everywhere. Bros i feel you but we scare sha!!! With God you will find her A good hardworking woman oooo. Not the lazy ines that all they know is spend spend spend 6 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by GavelSlam: 2:15am On Apr 15, 2019 |
lefulefu: Why you dey bring your guy leg out na? |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:28am On Apr 15, 2019 |
wonder233: Go marry abeg! Time dey go 1 Like |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:32am On Apr 15, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Go marry at 60 na! And that your materialistic culture that is always asking male suitors for too much wey dey make men to dey fear to marry, una better go change am, make we no dey born children we too old to take care of. |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:33am On Apr 15, 2019 |
truthsayer009: No mind am |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:39am On Apr 15, 2019 |
tete7000: So u go pick your own aso ebi at 50+ abi? You better go marry,and stop justifying the economic situation as cause of delayed marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:42am On Apr 15, 2019 |
gonkin: No rush o! Just take your time. Na runs girls and ashawo full outside now o, including our university graduates and masters holders. Dem full badoo and Inmessage, even churches. Shine your eye o!!! 3 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:47am On Apr 15, 2019 |
golddeejay: His point is valid and realistic whether u believe it or not. Leave story!!! 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by golddeejay(m): 2:51am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Tunagee:Good for you. |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:52am On Apr 15, 2019 |
chemgee: By the time u reach 60+ you go sha marry and born so your children can have dual citizenship!! |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 2:56am On Apr 15, 2019 |
SIRTee15: Go marry at 60+ u hear? |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by ikorodureporta: 3:05am On Apr 15, 2019 |
All these na daydreaming Me wey think say I go don marry abt 10yrs ago too Life isn't a straight line graph D only ppl I'll blame for this are those guys who have a lot, but remain playas like Wizkid & Davido, even without any kids to show for it, & those who does not like seeing their younger siblings' girl/ boy friends |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 3:05am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Frankiss44: No mind am! Candidate of old age marriage |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by doyinbaby(f): 3:08am On Apr 15, 2019 |
It is good to marry early especially for women.. However I will say women should not marry too early because you need some amount of emotional maturity to navigate through marriage Having a peaceful relationship is important and paramount because many couples have children yet the marriage still failed However women should know that it they wait too long before they get married it will be difficult to choose...marry when you can still select not when you will be forced to marry who you see 5 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 3:11am On Apr 15, 2019 |
DanXplore:Its not shallow. We are not oyinbos. A typical Nigerian gets married to have kids |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Tunagee(m): 3:28am On Apr 15, 2019 |
missyblissy: Exactly! Men want to kill themselves cos they are breadwinners. Remember if u kill yourself, another man go marry your wife and take care of your kids. Who told u that you cannot both make things work as husband and wife? Start small and see how blessings will follow. Most ladies out there are not ready to manage with any man, hence putting pressure on the men who begin to fear to settle down. Marry a lady who would also support you financially and ready to start with you, even in a room apartment, and not all this hungry ladies looking for who to drop their responsibilities on. A wife should support her husband where he fails, she should cover him up. This is the simple principle, but our men go dey look for women with big yansh and boobs, and not the good ones that can build their future together. Men, marry early and seek a good wife who is not too materialistic, and who would support you financially, emotionally and morally. Most of our successful big men in the country today married early to their own wives who gave them all the support they needed, and also persevered with them. Never marry materialistic women!!! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Unrated900(m): 3:42am On Apr 15, 2019 |
OK If we all married the girls at 18 as op claimed,then Who will Marry the 26 year old mum then. |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by Champella(m): 3:45am On Apr 15, 2019 |
It is one thing to get married early. It is a different thing entirely for one to get married early and is unable to provide for his family. As a man, I want to be extremely comfortable before I even think of marriage. I don't need to be worried about my children's school fees even if they tell me they would be resuming for a new term the next day. I don't need to be worried if my nephews, nieces and my children's friends want to spend their holidays in my house. I don't need to be worried if my wife and children want to visit my parents or hers. I don't need to be worried even if my parents, siblings or friends visit me unannounced. What about children on the streets who had lost their parents or their parents are not able able to train them? Do you know that if every financially stable person is able to train one child at least to be able to stand on his or her own, the level of poverty and crime will reduce? If anybody tells you to get married early, would that person be there for you financially if you have problems later in the marriage? Your guess is as good as mine. 5 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by AndLeo(m): 4:09am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Sure enough early marriage is better, but the truth is you marry when marriage set for you. Time has changed so life is not all about having sex and training children. Make money, be happy before you start bringing a child to this god forsaken world. In India, there is a group of people that charged their parents to court for bringing them to this world without their permission. Not everybody love the fact that they are in this world. 2 Likes |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by anochuko01(m): 4:12am On Apr 15, 2019 |
only animals should be living their whole lives just to feed, get an abode and reproduce. That shouldnt be the ultimate desire of humans. If all you aim for is to work, build a house, eat and reproduce, have a rethink because you cant do it better than animals. |
Re: The Consequences Of Late Marriage And Why You Should Marry Early by SmartyPants(m): 4:24am On Apr 15, 2019 |
Emilokoiyawon: Whatever will cause the 21 year old to divorce could still cause the 50 year old to divorce. Therefore, sense dictates that what the OP means is that, whatever you will do to have a successful marriage at 50, do it earlier. He has even alluded to that in his last paragraph. 1 Like |
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