Jubilancy:
So people like us that's still searching hoping and praying should kill ourselves with B.P ?

1Sharon:


I know right. Are we going to marry ourselves

ednut1:
Bros life no easy as u paint am. Many guys are over 30 earning peanuts. How den go marry. Average marriage costs 2m plus renting and pimping house 1m don waka.

Please are you same as the popular Tunde Ednut on Instagram?

Electricpart:
U see Marriage is nt to be rush you get marry when you are ready if you knw you are ready and capable early no problem if nt wait on till you are fit. Don't go and start get married early because they say it better and then start facing tribulation in it wait till you are ready everyone is nt the same










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Goddys:


You think your post is wise but you are ignorant of you think all there is to life is to have and train children.

Did you read the post at all??. He said if having children is your aim of marriage

everyone would love to start having children early but don't forget that people differs. some can be jobless n r ready to impregnate as many women they come across because they don't care n they believe only women should struggle to race a child n wen the child can start hustling after pry school. while some men would be patient to at least to be averagely be able to provide for the family. lastly don't forget that u r not a man enough if u don't consider your parent and younger ones and your wife family no matter how little. women can marry at any age they wish n not a man

Nonsense dumb trade...face your fears, all man got different reasons to live, life is not all about marriage.

MelaninGold:

You are right...the men complaining here are well over 30 but have little or nothing to show for it and are not willing to settle down. That's why they are pained. The truth hurts.

Yes, how is everything their fault? I know a civil servant in Abuja that earns 55k, aunty he is 31 this year and can bearly survive alone. What is 55k in Abuja and in this present economy.

marriage matter is not what anyman can jump into like that,the Hausa people that love early marriage today from 15years down introduce poverty and begging to her generation.there is no award for married very early.couples that married very early without any issues of children can't consider it as evil.

Tunagee:


So u go pick your own aso ebi at 50+ abi? You better go marry,and stop justifying the economic situation as cause of delayed marriage.

And why assumed I am not married? If someone chooses to marry at 50, how is what people do with their personal life your business? Will you stay in marriage with them? E ma gbe eru eleru, e fa ti yin lowo. How individual chose to live is not your business, everyone ought to cooperate with his creator and fathom out his destiny. Life is not about marriage, sex and children, their something more lofty to seek - God.
People like you preoccupied with marriage always bring to my mind the beautiful words of Christ - "Just as it was in the day of Noah, so shall it be on the day of son of man; they were eating, drinking, marrying and giving out in marriage until Noah went into the ark and shut the door against them" You know what happened next, they all perished in their preoccupation with empty desires. God can give anyone anything at anytime. Marrying early doesn't guarantee success in marriage. I wish you can research how old was Joseph when Mary was bethroned to him....

IkpuMmadu:


https://etimes.com.ng/the-consequences-of-late-marriage-and-the-very-reasons-why-you-should-marry-early-if-you-can/

By Anayo M. Nwosu

I can not agree with you less. The onus is on us all to teach this down to those following us and make everything necessary possible for them to actualize this early marriage.
God help us all; the benefits are obvious and enormous!

Acidosis:

People should understand that marriage isn't for those who have achieved their dreams. As a matter of fact, the best person to discuss that big idea and investment with is your spouse. Dangote (although hailed from a wealthy family), had not achieved his dreams when he married his first wife and had his first daughter. Dangote today is 61, his first daughter, Halima is over 35.

I'm not saying those who have no means should marry, but we all must stop giving excuses. If marriage did not stop Dangote from achieving his dreams, then it won't stop you. Your marriage can't be worse than Dangote's, a man who has had 4 failed marriages, with 13 children. Yet, he's African richest.


Y'all should stop giving excuses. Your dreams are not bigger than Dangote's!

and how do you know our dreams are not bigger than dangote own?

wonder233:
yen yen yen... Obsession with marriage is why we are still where we are in this part of the world.
You will hardly see articles about how young people can attain financial freedom or at least survive in the face of daunting and grim economic realities.
No! It's articles goading them into marriage and reproduction to swell the already bloated and unkempt population.
Sometimes I truly wonder if this part of the world isn't cursed afterall

Abi o. Thumbs up

ednut1:
Bros life no easy as u paint am. Many guys are over 30 earning peanuts. How den go marry. Average marriage costs 2m plus renting and pimping house 1m don waka.

only foolish guys who aren't ready will be waiting to have millions before getting married.

Social medias and what they see online is making them stupid forgetting all hands aren't equal. One can easily marry a lady with less than 100k if he is ready to cut his coat according to his size. Not until a guy has it all before he can get married unless he is working towards satisfying his demanding wife to be who wants it all.

babyfaceafrica:
too .many generalizations..... people should marry when they are ready... simple!,

what time exactly is ready.

fisher5:
what time exactly is ready.

when he is financially and psychologically ready...

Tunagee:


Go marry at 60+ u hear?

I'm married....
So look for someone else to yarn dust with....

kizyalex10:
Who told u that he likes getting married late.the situation in nigeria have made it look so.d people who havent got what it takes to make their home comfortable and jst rush into marriage with jst hope.are d reason why nigeria is the way it is.is nt abt getting married. Is abt the ability to give ur family d best.if one can give his child a quality education and good life.do u think there will be touts who will snatch ballot box and take 5k to sell their votes?why do u think our northern counterparts happens to be d most under developed part in nigeria.they marry early and have so many wives littered here nd dere.making it impossible for d reasonable ones to out number them.constituting nuisance.u see a president win on social media but loose in reality because d other is banking on d mass illiteracy by d north.dats ehy d north hated jonathan for trying to enlighten their weapon

3 gbosa for you

wonder233:
yen yen yen... Obsession with marriage is why we are still where we are in this part of the world.
You will hardly see articles about how young people can attain financial freedom or at least survive in the face of daunting and grim economic realities.
No! It's articles goading them into marriage and reproduction to swell the already bloated and unkempt population.
Sometimes I truly wonder if this part of the world isn't cursed afterall

1 million likes for this your comment. Nonsense and garbage, marriage this marriage that as if that's the only reason we are existing.

Good write up Nwosu. You really took time to research this topic and did justice to it. Let those that have ears hear! �

matify83:
These permutations would only end up depressing your psyche if you ruminate on them too hard.

Make money
Invest wisely
Leave the rest to the ONE that governs the universe.

"First Class no be who collect extra sheets ""

Many are still chasing that money around.

Your assertions and assumptions are flawed

tete7000:


And why assumed I am not married? If someone chooses to marry at 50, how is what people do with their personal life your business? Will you stay in marriage with them? E ma gbe eru eleru, e fa ti yin lowo. How individual chose to live is not your business, everyone ought to cooperate with his creator and fathom out his destiny. Life is not about marriage, sex and children, their something more lofty to seek - God.
People like you preoccupied with marriage always bring to my mind the beautiful words of Christ - "Just as it was in the day of Noah, so shall it be on the day of son of man; they were eating, drinking, marrying and giving out in marriage until Noah went into the ark and shut the door against them" You know what happened next, they all perished in their preoccupation with empty desires. God can give anyone anything at anytime. Marrying early doesn't guarantee success in marriage. I wish you can research how old was Joseph when Mary was bethroned to him....

Late marriage when you're going to have children is bad. Learn and move on.

it doesn't pay anybody to stay long before getting married just dt the economic situation in this part of the world is two escalating to the worse situation. It's even gud ro marry @50 left a legacy for ur kids have something they wards can leave on than to marry @26 or 30 and have a crashed married. u can't kill urself if u can't cope of marrying early. no matter the age u marry the most important thing is to plan urself and be happy cus this life is onlu meant to happen once live like u never live before be happy and enjoy every stay here cus life has no duplicate. if I see moneu today i'll definatly marry it can never be too late for any body. our destiny and choices in live differs

ejibaba:


Yes, how is everything their fault? I know a civil servant in Abuja that earns 55k, aunty he is 31 this year and can bearly survive alone. What is 55k in Abuja and in this present economy.

Then, he should do something about improving his income. If doesn't do that, he will eventually marry with that same 55k or slightly higher monthly income and it will still be a late marriage which OP is preaching against

ednut1:
if the lady agrees. Her parents or urs will kick against it na. Am from d south btw

den d parents ll fund it....if two of una say today we no wan do something like sleeping with ur self ll ur parents come and force ur guys....abeg one got to live on dier means

Raalsalghul:

Rubbish and balderdash. Got a fellow here, married before 30 and is a deadbeat. Whether 27 or 56, just leave a legacy for your kids. Simple!

The truth is that, if care is not taken, you will marry at 56 and still discover that there is no legacy to leave for them. If your present income is not sufficient to support wife and children, do something about it ASAP and marry early. Many people wouldn't make effort to improve their income but will opt to delay other things including marriage. Wrong and very common approach.

ejibaba:
I agree with you but the economy no de help matters at all.

This is the reason men and even women are hunting for working class.

All we pray is long life, marry when you are ready so you don't regret the marriage.

I have a better example of an uncle that married 37years and had the first child 38years. At 23 the first child who was a graduate got married and had the grand child the next Year. All 4 children are graduates and working and he is 72years this year.

The beauty in marriage is peace and peace is not possible in the absence or inability to meet basic daily needs.

His own dad died at 64. He didn't have luxury of time to live long and see them through schools.

maasoap:


Then, he should do something about improving his income. If doesn't do that, he will eventually marry with that same 55k or slightly higher monthly income and it will still be a late marriage which OP is preaching against

He should do what? Steal or kill himself? Pls, stop acting like you are not in Nigeria. This same attitude explains why they end up using you ladies for blood money.

No marriage is late...

Jubilancy:
So people like us that's still searching hoping and praying should kill ourselves with B.P ?

don't give a hook about anybody's fvcking thinking

maasoap:


His own dad died at 64. He didn't have luxury of time to live long and see them through schools.

That's why I say pray for long life or pray to make it early in life so in the end you will achieve all you plan

The truth is bitter, early marriage is the best and for me I married early and my first son is my pal now. I did not wait until I have millions, my wife and I joined hands to build our home

matify83:
These permutations would only end up depressing your psyche if you ruminate on them too hard.

Make money
Invest wisely
Leave the rest to the ONE that governs the universe.

"First Class no be who collect extra sheets ""

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