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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oluwafavourme(f): 9:13am On May 01, 2019 |
You'll always find more of your colleague anywhere you go. You hv to work on urself first so as not to fall again then you may now quit to avoid awkwardness wth your colleague Talk to your husband, tell him the truth If he wants you to stay, good, you guys will work on a solution together cus it seems like the sex is the problem If he wants you to go, also good, you will hv learnt ur lesson, wait for ur spec and won't do the same again in ur next marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by madridsta007(m): 9:13am On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003: I think this is my first comment on marriage matters. I counsel persons in church [in my church youth’s ministry] so I felt an urge to write this. Firstly you’ve committed a sin which, while God can and will forgive you if you repent, it will have a ramifications on you and your family for LIFE. The sexual sins hierarchy are like this: Homosexuality and Lesbianism is worse than Adultery and Adultery is worse than fornication. You broke your marital vows and while your conscience KNOWS you are wrong, I won’t be surprised to hear that you will go back adultery because it is a powerful spirit— very, very powerful, only which Christ can break. It is that simple. Unless you go for a spiritual deliverance, you will go round in the circle of adultery. You can’t stop it with your own strength. Hence while I’ll suggest that you can physically cut yourself off from your fellow adultery partner [sorry, but I use blunt words when speaking], cutting all form of communication, etc, you need to open up to a spiritual head [ensure he is an experienced, elder pastor or his wife] and open up fully. As for your husband, let your conscience tell you what to do. I can assure you though that, no matter how long it takes, he will eventually find out— especially if he is keeping his own marital vows. I hope ladies here read this. Marry someone you LOVE. Nothing more, nothing less. Clearly, you do not love your husband. If you did, you won’t intentionally commit adultery. Adultery is an intentional act. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Shelumiel: 9:13am On May 01, 2019 |
macello4:Why shouldn't everything be prayer , can you answer ? 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Imo1stson: 9:14am On May 01, 2019 |
Your husband might also have same encounter but men have a locked mind. He can just decide to end it at once if he felt as guilty as you and that's why women should avoid cheating. There sex ofyen comes with emotional attachment whereas men see sex as just food that they eat and forget instantly. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oderinlewo(m): 9:14am On May 01, 2019 |
Eleribu |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Olorunnim: 9:14am On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003:Just observe how other guys at your work place are looking to hit it with you,they also wanna have their share, why because he told them. And you're going to tell your husband and your mother what you did, that's your punishment |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oboy81: 9:14am On May 01, 2019 |
BlueAir:What Do You mean By Real Market? |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by sisisioge: 9:14am On May 01, 2019 |
budaatum: No...the one who foqs another girl lovingly and wholeheartedly but adores his wife lovingly and wholeheartedly. Isn't live just perfect when we have words to help us escape our conscience? Whew! May God bless us all fa. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Bigcake: 9:15am On May 01, 2019 |
Shelumiel: That will be possible if this forum was founded by your Mother. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Bishopeot: 9:15am On May 01, 2019 |
To be carnally minded is death but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. This lady is heading the devils way. Sex will never give you peace of mind, only Jesus will 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by hensben(m): 9:16am On May 01, 2019 |
cococandy:Women are not polygamous in nature but men, this is the reason women are cool been a second or third wife, even sixth wife like Regina Daniels as far as the good things of life are available. But can never be cool with been the second or third husband. Infact, once a man know you have a boyfriend he can never take you serious, he will just been using you for sexual satisfaction. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Bossjakande: 9:16am On May 01, 2019 |
cococandy food is ready let here wat u have to say |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Hoodbilonia: 9:17am On May 01, 2019 |
Bich |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by BlueAir: 9:17am On May 01, 2019 |
oboy81:just marry or date someone who has been over indulged or over liberalized from young, then u will know ![]() In layman's statement =" date or marry a radicalist to find out" 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Shelumiel: 9:17am On May 01, 2019 |
Bigcake:I can see you are one of those online delinquents . Have nice day ...slowpoke 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by 300wayne: 9:17am On May 01, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:somebody should help me with that My nigga meme......u spoken my mind this people are just something else.. U good problem u no good problem why u no consider "sexually attracted" b4 getting married to him 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by JasonScoolari: 9:18am On May 01, 2019 |
BlueAir:I have to agree with you on this bro... But in my opinion, I think women can handle it more than us. The thought of it alone can consume any man in split seconds. Good morning friend. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 9:18am On May 01, 2019 |
You still need more sex from the guy? Yippy hahaha, I tire oo! I guess your husband is not sexually good. Then why did you marry him, cos of money? Ladies that marry cos of money e.g Regina D. May find themselves in this situation. Anyway I don't know what to say or how to help you. Thinking about the guy and hoping he fvcks you sef is a sin talkless of fvcking him again and again, even in your mind. Really I don't know what to advise you ooo. Sincerely what you've done is grievous and you probably need to confess and ask for forgiveness, if not unmhnm angels and God saw you o, even the devil does and might use it against you on the judgment day. Anyway forget about the guy and you could probably tell your husband about your sexual drive and how you want him to sex you more.. Take care! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by hayoholla(m): 9:18am On May 01, 2019 |
virgoquin: This response is unarguably the most honest and sincere of all response. No string attached, but honestly I love you for your comment, more to the fact you are even a Virgo like me, madam you deserve an applause |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by johncreek: 9:19am On May 01, 2019 |
Honestly, am getting scared of marriages everyday 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by felaismyhero(m): 9:19am On May 01, 2019 |
Iziquiel:but thats the problem? the guy is a good guy,he would not understand.he would feel used,and the social stigma too! she made a mistake marrying that guy.some humans should never marry! its not in their dna to be loyal! 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by sunkieisland(m): 9:20am On May 01, 2019 |
I'm the husband and I can connect the dots. She's fired. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by IMASTEX: 9:20am On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003:Firstly, you write well. Secondly, I understand your state of dilemma right now. The more reason it is wise for close age gaps between couples due to sexuality issues. I won't judge or blame you for an already done deal. Neither am I promising you that your sexual urge will go down or that you won't repeat it again with the same colleague or another person. You're only feeling guilty because it is your first time, soon it won't be a big deal anymore. Especially, when your husband is in his 60's & you're in your 40's. My advise is simple, work on your husband's sexuality the way you want it. You can get him supplements for improved libido & teach him bed matrix. Chat me for private counseling. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Bigcake: 9:20am On May 01, 2019 |
Shelumiel: It was nice rubbing mind with you. Foool |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Raalsalghul: 9:20am On May 01, 2019 |
pocohantas:You enjoying this right! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by kushercain: 9:21am On May 01, 2019 |
dview001: I was laughing and enjoying your post till I got to the bolded. You need to know where to draw the line 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by macello4(m): 9:21am On May 01, 2019 |
Shelumiel:NO |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by atakamus: 9:21am On May 01, 2019 |
I don't have advice for you. I will just say. Go ahead to get hit by that guy ok. He will take video of two of you and leak it on social media. Then your eyes will clear. Kwontinue. Them force you marry. When una no go stay one place. You taste ever hammer around. Idiot. The children may not even be the man's own. God have mercy. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by emmanuelpopson(m): 9:22am On May 01, 2019 |
Slyprof: so been a full house wife won't make her cheat? someone is seeking For sexual fulfilment and you saying this. don't you know that a house wife may cheat more because she will be idle and will be chance to go out or invite her partners into the house? brother... the deed here is she wanna experience some fun which the man can't give her due to his age and performance in bed, reason why she couldn't find him sexually attractive anymore but young guys of her age can do that.. I can't be more explanable than this. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by wifeesnatcher(m): 9:22am On May 01, 2019 |
May I not meet a brainless adulterous lady like you. A lady her emotions dictate to her psychological traits Some men are scum, I'm sure he pester you tpto go into marriage with him. You convince a lady into relationship you don't pester or persuade her Olosho will always be olosho |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Shelumiel: 9:23am On May 01, 2019 |
macello4:Then don't criticize it . Have a nice day 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LyfeJennings(m): 9:23am On May 01, 2019 |
O GA o. See as this op is using oribiruku for pleasure. Anyways, u need to find a way to quit this sh1t U got uraelf into before it ruins all U built. |
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