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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:23am On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003: Your dilemma is understandable, but you need a sound therapist to help you out if this is not an attempt at becoming a story teller, trying to write a book of fiction. The annoying part of sexual escapades is that you end up looking like a fool. You'll soon exhaust that euphoria of sleeping with such a guy, painfully he'll dump you for another lady with shallow thinking. Didn't he know that you are married? Coming back to your husband, even if you're going to still tell him, maybe not now, or else, be ready to leave that marriage. That man, with the way you have described him, may not forgive you easily. However, your sexual life is also key, the problem is that we have a culture that is very deceptive and people not real with their feelings. All you need do to get that man to the level of sexual excitement you want is openly talk about it with him. You can both learn better ways of enjoying your sexual relationship. For the non-enjoyment of the sex, you're both guilty. As a relationship counsellor, I know you need a few more information. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by BlueAir: 9:24am On May 01, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:good morning to u too. Don't u think, women's internalization of thoughts and feelings is what makes u think they handle it than men?? And internalization of thoughts and feelings towards cheating doesn't make women better than men but worse! Women may hide their resentments and hurt and reprimand in ways u don't know or revenge cheat and men would externalize their thoughts and feelings. A man may case chaos and say he forgives and really forgive. But a woman might not externalize her thoughts and that makes the matter go on forever. Pls are my points true or not. And do women really handle it better or not 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by ChristianNorth: 9:24am On May 01, 2019 |
I am not going to judge you, but make sure you don't fall for that guy and don't tell your husband. We don't forgive a cheating wife, no matter how nice we play along. Believe me, if you try that game with the guy again you would definitely love him and this is going to unleash you as an Adulterer. Right now, you are not, until you do it the second time. You can always wave it away as stupid mistake. But indulging the second time, would harden your heart. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by BalogunIdowu(m): 9:24am On May 01, 2019 |
A major thing we need to realise is that sex life in a relationship is as important as anything. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by 300wayne: 9:24am On May 01, 2019 |
Saffi:this ur mentality fit kill person 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Jwonder(m): 9:25am On May 01, 2019 |
dview001: Ahhh!! Easy naa this is too harsh |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Fineboybigboy: 9:25am On May 01, 2019 |
truthsayer009:The truth is nothing is hidden forever |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 9:25am On May 01, 2019 |
zicoraads: Brother you took the words out of my mouth. The only time I consider my girl to be mine is when she is with me. Once she goes to her place I zero my mind and just feel she could be in someone else's hands. You cant trust these ladies anymore, sad,sad,sad ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by BarrElChapo(m): 9:25am On May 01, 2019 |
Gym isn't the problem here. Its just the generational gap. Obviously a guy at 40 something would generally still want a younger pretty lady for marriage but then he may not have that high drive for sex especially if he married a trophy wife or just for procreation. It now depends on whether the woman can cope cos obviously the gifts of love such men can give just to win the lady over will leave these important issues not talked about. Evtspez: 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by BlueAir: 9:25am On May 01, 2019 |
IDERAWOLE:perfect advice. Less justification, more advice. This counsellor advice are normal things any positive minded person should be able to do without a professional counsellor but no ![]() |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oluwasegun007(m): 9:26am On May 01, 2019 |
You are not the first neither would you be the last young lady, Communicate your sexual frustrations to your husband... Request for transfer... Go and sin no more... 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Snow02: 9:26am On May 01, 2019 |
dview001:lmao wtf... this is definitely a movie |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oluwasegun007(m): 9:26am On May 01, 2019 |
You are not the first neither would you be the last young lady, Communicate your sexual frustrations to your husband... Request for transfer... Go and sin no more..... |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Alanzazani: 9:26am On May 01, 2019 |
As a married man, I will advice you take this secret to the grave. Ask God forgiveness and disabuse your mind from the pleasure young studs offer you. It is very dangerous to seek sexial satisfaction outside your marriage. This applies to men and women. It brings complications. If you tell your husband about this incident your marriage is over. No amount of love will save this marriage 8 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by skyhighweb(m): 9:27am On May 01, 2019 |
like dey say if a man cheats u won't know, emotions are checked. if a woman cheat, she becomes confuse. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by macello4(m): 9:28am On May 01, 2019 |
Shelumiel:And U too Have a nice day. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by biebs: 9:28am On May 01, 2019 |
divorce ur husband and marry ur colleague ..... u dnt deserve love u deserve sex so go get alot of it...when your satisfied find anoda man n marry. jus don't torture d poor man by staying and causing him shame. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by gowaga68: 9:28am On May 01, 2019 |
Gowaga68 was here. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 9:29am On May 01, 2019 |
Acidosis:He should just resign & become a gym instructor. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Blakjewelry(m): 9:29am On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003:well for starters research have shown that cheaters normally feels a normal heighten sense of pleasure than normal maybe due to the fear of been caught and fear is tied to emotion. when such people leave their spouse and runaway with those they cheat with, the end is disappointing. secondly most of these young guys you see out there they are fund of taking a lot of stuff just to pleasure a woman especially when he knows its another mans wife. don't be surprise you just get a dose of tramadol effect Lol. also if tossing you around in bed is what you want, why don't you introduced those to your hubby. I don't support cheating in any form, my secret is never get bite what you can't chew and swallow the damage has already be done because if I am your hobby, forgiving will be very hard if possible. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by JasonScoolari: 9:29am On May 01, 2019 |
BlueAir:Lol, you've done so well in your enlightenment and I've learnt something from you today. Many thanks bro. What a way to start this month. ![]() |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 9:30am On May 01, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Take it easy on the woman. I'm sure you aren't a saint either. I hope you're not the man though. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LarryBee1k: 9:30am On May 01, 2019 |
Idk 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by SaucyBenks(m): 9:31am On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003:useless woman... Cheap thing! I pray your husband finds out... Good men are often treated badly in relationships... I hate marriage! I really wish I have the words to explain how I feel for your useless self right now.... When you opened your legs like the way the red Sea was divided, your mind never ran to your husband n how he's busy working himself out to provide for the family while someone who doesn't even know how you n your husband both started is busy enjoying what your husband rightly owns, how he dipped his dick in your married pussy and dipped it out with all your creamy juices around it and in his mind, he calls you a Bleep mate but in your senseless mind, you've found what you been looking for and your husband can go to hell abi... Idiot! Shameless thing! Go on for another round n let's see how you'll conceal this for long... Madam scratchy cunt! 4 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by BlueAir: 9:32am On May 01, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:nice starting this month with u too bro. Thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 9:32am On May 01, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Wall has ears bro, the guy she slept with might brag about it to his friends and among these friends one will want to try his luck he gets turn down he becomes jealous and sells her out Any crime committed by more than one party you at risk bro. You can only trust yourself but not the other party/ies. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:34am On May 01, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:.. I so much love the way you said it without sugar coating. The funny thing is that she one of those that will be shouting men are scum, men are cheats up and down this forum but look at her opening legs for a colleague at work.Why is she not bold enough to use her main account,? Indeed she is a promiscuous Dog. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by felaismyhero(m): 9:34am On May 01, 2019 |
the religious ones here are annoying me with their comments.this is a human issue:more like why some people talk alot and some others dont talk much,and then you saying that loquacious people are sinners or that you who dont talk much are better humans,because of d bible.bullshit! loquacious and libidinous people will continue to exist for as long as the earth exist! its very normal to like sex too much! i hate all these perfectionistic and judgemental people sef 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oduademonest: 9:35am On May 01, 2019 |
Move on, the deed is done. No one is perfect, forgive yourself and move on. Sex is a beautiful thingy 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 9:35am On May 01, 2019 |
BiggyB242: Ah try luck ke? Untop married woman matter ![]() |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by K4daniel: 9:36am On May 01, 2019 |
My advice to people is you will always see 100% of menand women better and finer than your husband or wife...self control is the rule of the game. Pick up your rag , do a self analysis of your mistake , learn from it and Move on..say no to adultery again..don't divorce , remember you are only a human, forgive yourself look into a mirror AND SPEAK SENSE TO YOUR BRAIN.It works..Tell yourself folake behave well otherwise the young guy will continue using you and you become sex slave to him.The young guy can never mary you..you are after 2..so free yourself now.Many women have done this before and got forgiveness from the God of all flesh.ASK FORGIVENESS FROM GOD AND MOVE ON. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by oduademonest: 9:37am On May 01, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE: If we scrutinize your private life, you probably do worse. At least, she is honest. OP, you have to move on. 2 Likes |
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