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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by naijainstinct: 12:24pm On May 01, 2019 |
femi4:You're funny bro. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by sodiamond: 12:25pm On May 01, 2019 |
kelvinrhs: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by monerozi5590: 12:25pm On May 01, 2019 |
BarrElChapo: A man at 40 is much sexually active bro. Forget that lady. She is simply a free giver. Some girls no matter how you sex them, they will still cheat. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:33pm On May 01, 2019 |
Don't generalize, it's all about individual differences. Not all men would lose interest after doing it severally with a woman. Some men can toss, pump, shatter, and monoveaur a woman's body for many many more years, they only stop when age weighs them down. Hedonini: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 12:37pm On May 01, 2019 |
That's where you get it wrong. Prayer can kill the root cause which is lust. virgoquin: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 12:44pm On May 01, 2019 |
I saw that movie too. It was a classic. tenmariner: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 12:45pm On May 01, 2019 |
Lmao Chubhie: 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Edaniels9(m): 12:52pm On May 01, 2019 |
Chubhie: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by eebraa(m): 12:54pm On May 01, 2019 |
This one is loud.There's a chance you will still have sex with him again and again |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 12:55pm On May 01, 2019 |
Well we are not talking of polygamous marriages. Cheating is cheating wether by a male or female. truthsayer009: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:56pm On May 01, 2019 |
True talk. Saffi: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 12:56pm On May 01, 2019 |
cococandy: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:00pm On May 01, 2019 |
I wonder. BluntBlunt: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 1:05pm On May 01, 2019 |
My fellow men out there....if you like your life and want to keep your sanity...NEVER EVER EVER EVER IN YOUR LIFE GET MARRIED TO A NIGERIAN WOMAN. EVER !!!! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Shelumiel: 1:08pm On May 01, 2019 |
freethinker01:Bros, please read my post before you say something foolish again. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:09pm On May 01, 2019 |
Lmao pocohantas: |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Caleycash(m): 1:12pm On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003:you will still go back for more!!!, you better leave his presence (your work mate) by all means if you really want to quit cheating on your hubby |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by sisisioge: 1:14pm On May 01, 2019 |
xyz123456: Well, when they get there they will cross the bridge . 60-65 yrs sexual partners are kinda at par, if you ask me though. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:16pm On May 01, 2019 |
Hush!!!!! Common adultery you're mentioning me. Men commit adultery and do other worse things everyday, do you condemn them? Unlike you, I don't support evil. I'm all for equity and justice. prince3009: 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:18pm On May 01, 2019 |
And men should get married as what? Double standards won't kill Nigerian men. oboy81: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 1:20pm On May 01, 2019 |
trapQ: Someone who calls adultery "common" will definitely commit it because it is COMMON! Unlike you, I don't support evil. I'm all for FIXED! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Psoul(m): 1:21pm On May 01, 2019 |
Madam, just continue enjoying your sin till the day u will be caught. No need of terminating this blissful experience. This kind thing dey sweet die Even the Bible says in the Book of Proverbs 9:17, Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant. Proverbs 30:20 Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness. Proverbs 20:17 Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel. So continue to eat the bread in the secret. Congratulations. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by PrinzCarter(m): 1:21pm On May 01, 2019 |
drmikeadams:cheaper dan cabin biscuit if u can twist ur words den if u HV a car combine dis two elements ur the real G.O.A |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Benosky011(m): 1:23pm On May 01, 2019 |
See, for me, I'll be direct. First, you said age did not matter because both of you are educated and that you both are in love. Well I think you are not telling yourself the truth on this, or, rather you didn't tell yourself the truth. If age was not an issue here, why being attracted to "young and energetic men" who are within your age? You have already made a mistake in that. You failed to consider your future feelings in before going into the marriage. But one thing am sure you wouldn't want to do is to walk out of the marriage. It is natural that human is attracted to where one enjoys great s*x. Let me bet you, even if you take a transfer, it doesn't change the mental chasm of the pleasure you enjoyed with the gold digger. You will always wish to meet him. Not because you love him, but because he gave it to you the way you liked. And who says you may not meet another good guy at the new place of work. Let me tell you, that will soon ruin your marriage. And who knows where you may end up. I am only interested in a permanent solution. Who said your husband cannot give it to you the way you want it. Look for means to change his ideology about marriage and sex. Yes he is bothered with a lot of responsibility and duty, but, as I teach in the churches, the man became a husband before being a father. He must be reminded that his first duty as a man is to satisfy his wife. You looked elsewhere because he couldn't give it to you the way you want. I know it will be very hard for you, but it's important you tell him what happened. It will not be swallowed by him just like that but you must do it. To make it easier for you, I'll suggest you visit his spiritual head and tell him your mind. He should be able to help you talk to him, and also call him to his primary duty of making you happy. He needs to go extra mile to make his wife happy. It's important you do that to save your marriage, your future and your children. If your husband is not able to perform, then it will create a room for infidelity. Enjoying your marital sex life with your husband will help you erase completely the memories of your good times with that young man. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:24pm On May 01, 2019 |
All the men who cheat on their wives with their female colleagues where have they transferred to? Why should a man dictate to his educated wife to be a full housewife, are you people that insecure? Do you not know that even housewives cheat with their house boys and gatemen if the opportunity arises? There is absolutely no danger in intermingling. The causative factor is lust. Slyprof: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:25pm On May 01, 2019 |
But even pastors cheat nowadays and so many "so called" born again christians are pretenders who cheat too. JoeOdion: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by robosky02(m): 1:39pm On May 01, 2019 |
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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by ICONgold(m): 1:42pm On May 01, 2019 |
Hello. Thanks for seeking help, it is a step forward and a step in the right direction. This is grievous but shit happens. It is more bad because your husband is responsible, mature and loving. The fact is that you didn't cheat because you are not sexually attracted to your husband, you cheated because you wanted to cheat and flirt. How did you marry someone you were not sexually attracted to in the first place? You must first accept it has nothing to do with your husband sexual ability but the information, pictures, images and videos you occupy yourself with. If you watch porn, your first assignment is trying to seek help on how to stop it. That been said, you should talk to your husband about this if you ever want to stop. He will be angry, it will break a cord of trust, he may say you should move out but if he really loves you, might give you a second chance. With time, your commitment and loyalty he will heal. If you fail to tell him, he will eventually find out and that will be too bad for both of you, if you are lucky he will divorce you peacefully, if you are not, you may lose part of your body and God forbid life. That you know deep down inside you that you don't want the excapade stops is enough reason for you to get a divorce and enjoy sex with your boyfriend but he won't marry you and don't blame him, he knows you will still cheat on him. But really stop watching porn and you and your husband can seek help help with experts. I wish you well in your choice between love where you can work with your husband to get good sex and your sex without love with the risk of losing everything else 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:47pm On May 01, 2019 |
You're just a cretin. autonomous22: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:51pm On May 01, 2019 |
Men see sex as food bla bla bla. Yet men leave their wife and family for a total stranger all because of a vagina. Imo1stson: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by opparadise: 1:53pm On May 01, 2019 |
I read the OP's message and tried scrolling through some responses from the females. Y'all females accepted her deed and was petting her in place. Y'all stink! As for the main animal, you are a special kind of prostitute! Animal ! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by DONADAMS(m): 1:54pm On May 01, 2019 |
bukatyne:you're very right..I also had a girl that cheats on her bf with me. don't get me wrong, I rejected her advances but it became too much I had to. asked her why she's cheating and she said her guy treats her so gentle on bed(missionary all through), that he thinks of her as a good girl buh she likes it rough. I adviced her to make the guy do what she likes but she said she's scared that he might think of her as a bad Girl. maybe the guy too wants to flip her but he's scared of her..these things are easy...talk to each other and understand each other. May God help us 1 Like |
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