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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by drmikeadams(m): 1:54pm On May 01, 2019 |
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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:56pm On May 01, 2019 |
Do you know how many of those women in polygamous marriages have side dudes outside. Well y'all can keep consoling yourselves with the lies. hensben: 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:56pm On May 01, 2019 |
The ability to overcome committing this sin again lies with you, yes you conquer your emotions for this young colleague if you truly want to. What happened has happened, what's important is to get it off your chest and move on. Dont ever make the mistake of confessing (for now) to your hubby, don't even confide in a close friend or your pastor, if the weight is so heavy, then go to any far church where no one knows you, and do confession. Why should you even think of telling your husband? Whats if he gets out of the marriage? You know men and their ego. Pls bear in mind that am asking you to delay confessing to your husband because of your young kids. Allow your children to grow, keep mute, then you can do the confession far into the future. Permit me to talk from a Christian religious point of view, confessing to your husband is something you must do, becos God will ask you on judgment day. It's a big pity that you have no physical attraction for your husband, hes far older, the marriage is only 4yrs, you both have a long way to go, yet you have already cheated. There is a difference beteew ''like and love'', no female can love the opposite sex without having a physical/or sexual attraction, so you never loved the man you married you only like him, got carried away, and now in deep poo. The solution is to manage your husband the way he is. it's too late to quit. You should also discipline your emotions, bring it under check, don't you know many married or single ladies have seen cute creamy guys, but overcome temptation becos of self discipline, becos they are committed to their own men? 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Ozkar: 1:56pm On May 01, 2019 |
Saffi:you are just another lady that thinks she knows how men think. Clearly, you have no clue. I like how you'd rather blame the mate's thoughts of the betrayal for ruining the marriage and not the actions of the cheating spouse. I bet your post would be different, were roles reversed. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 1:59pm On May 01, 2019 |
Do you what prostitute means? Does she prostitute herself for money? You idiots crucify women for doing 1% of what you applaud men for. una go dey alright. wifeesnatcher: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 2:02pm On May 01, 2019 |
It's called karma. Men have always gotten away with cheating and adultery and women have learned they can too. ikhileomotayo: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 2:08pm On May 01, 2019 |
Stupid like your mother right? Hedonini: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by wifeesnatcher(m): 2:12pm On May 01, 2019 |
trapQ: Can you give an applaud if your son's wife do this to your son mumu.. Why married someone that's unattractive to you if not that you're dumb and stupid. In fact the prostitute na understatement, she's a mere sex machine that deserve no marital dividends May God upgrade your sense of reasoning |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Firefox01: 2:13pm On May 01, 2019 |
trapQ, you're just all over the thread . Madam OP, well it depends on your choice. If you want to keep on cheating, do it far abeg and for the sake of your husband, don't let any man Bleep you raw so you will not give your husband a bastard or a STD. However, if you want to be committed to your marriage, train yourself to find your husband sexually attractive. Whatever you do Sha, do NOT confess anything to your husband. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 2:15pm On May 01, 2019 |
Including your mother and sisters. Strech: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by stevups(m): 2:15pm On May 01, 2019 |
Your husband can do it better, he's taking it easy with you. But the colleague would handle you like a stranger. If you faint, you faint!! |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by trapQ: 2:16pm On May 01, 2019 |
Fool. Learn to read comprehend and then respond only when you have something sensible to say. Otherwise shut the fvck up and go back to chasing shadows. wifeesnatcher: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Powerexpert: 2:16pm On May 01, 2019 |
I'm guessing you might be a banker. You betrayed the man's trust. Whether you tell him or not, it's a matter of time before he finds out. You want to eat your cake and have it. It depends on the religion and belief you both shared but be rest assured that once he finds out, that your adventurous act will be your worst nightmare. Have you thought of your kid with the man? You didn't find time to explain his sexual life with him but later you will be preaching that communication is key in marriage or avoid marrying him. The ball is in your court, cut off & face your family or cut in, enjoy the ride but don't come here to create another thread of how your husband divorced you. It always starts with, he's a honest friend, we get along very well. The video calls sets in, the long day call at work, the chats and all your secret dealings and because you already have a fantasy which the young man is filling. I'm sure you'll still cheat again because you can't always draw the line and when you feel you'll change, you're already engrossed. Best of luck 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Jehar: 2:17pm On May 01, 2019 |
Humans and error...nobody is perfect after all |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 2:19pm On May 01, 2019 |
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Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by wifeesnatcher(m): 2:20pm On May 01, 2019 |
trapQ: This slowpoke want to start what she can't finish. I guess you're the Op? . You wey dey suppose use do sacrifice still get mind to still post that you still want to be enjoying the diick. Your case can be related to poor home upbringing Dumb girl like you would not discourage me from not having sensible girl child. Awon omo wobe OSI |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by pkang: 2:20pm On May 01, 2019 |
tessytessy: I can't tell o but someday that man would feel he doesn't have to be f**king a married woman and may decide to leave her alone. She then might loss her husband and boyfriend. But the Bleep, most married woman would just talk about their sex life with their husband as soon as you muster up the courage to ask them. All the women coming close to me have told me about their sex life and they are married. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Carlos122(m): 2:21pm On May 01, 2019 |
The most important thing in marriage is communication. How hard was it to simply tell your husband what you felt? You would have communicated and made him understand first. . Now you have yourself to blame. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by robosky02(m): 2:21pm On May 01, 2019 |
Marbella003: Moral of this sory 1 age difference matters don't over look it 2 physical appeareance mtters keep fit and attrctive 3 maintain intimacy: any man/woman who communicte to you more than your spouce can steal your hart ask adam and eve 4 always discuss your sexual prefrence how you want it with your spouce don't assume he should know how you want it 5 you still feel like doing it again.. The truth is that feeling come and go but love is a CHOICE stick to your man else you make yourself a laughing stock 6 taking a transfer changes nothing The chnge must come from within 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by PrinceGeorgia: 2:24pm On May 01, 2019 |
Oloshoo...this is what always happens when faithful man married Oloshoo as wife. My advice for you woman please go sit jump inside lagoon before you pass that gonorea to the innocent man call your husband...Ashawo |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by colizee(m): 2:25pm On May 01, 2019 |
I know who you are madam |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Femiblessing: 2:26pm On May 01, 2019 |
It's not that simple but ; 1.seek for forgiveness from God 2.if you really want to be with your hudhusd ,you have to really upgrade him to your level , introduce him to a fitness trainer tgat will help him work on his body. 3.sincerely tell him why you want him to work on his body, let him know you are not feeling him as expected. 4.Then wait until he gets to your taste.even the guy in your office didn't get that body in a day!!! If you love yourself ,DDONT TELL HIM |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:27pm On May 01, 2019 |
Abi o, very funny that anyone would feel that a woman would be happy to be in a polygamous situation. Such a funny opinion. It is religion that causes it. Women in polygamy are just managing the situation, they got no choice. Religion, lack of a desirable suitor, or greed are the only factors that would push or force a woman into polygamy, otherwise, no woman would like to share her man. trapQ: 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by hensben(m): 2:27pm On May 01, 2019 |
trapQ:Having side guys is not a polygamy rather cheating. Men marry six women, at least traditionally. Can women do this. They only Bleep secretly for sexual satisfaction because truly a man with six wives will not be able to satisfy them equally. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by ghuzy01: 2:29pm On May 01, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Werey |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by jrklinz: 2:32pm On May 01, 2019 |
Is 1 tin 2 write a confession & is another tin 2 own up 2 ur act of unfaithfulness.u sud have tot abt d long term effect it cud bring in2 ur life,ur marriage and probably ur kids if u have any.in marriage ur obligated even by God 2 b faithful 2 ur partner as at dis moment u stand d risk of getting a divoce or dieing in depression.my advice is"STOP" dis act & pray 2 GOD u develop self control & as 4 d new found lover u probably met nt b d only 1 his sleeping wit at d moment.which makes u vulnerable 2 contacting any form of disease & lastly open up 2 ur husband hw best u want 2 b sexually attracted 2 him. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 2:33pm On May 01, 2019 |
Investmentfreak:Does cuckold exist in Nigeria Fear no go fit let me do am. I'll be thinking I am been used for ritual /renewal |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 01, 2019 |
trapQ: No, stupid like you and that old, shameless wh.o.re you have for a mother. Since you had to quote me to prove that madness runs in your family. Useless thing. |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by femi4: 2:51pm On May 01, 2019 |
virago:Well, the guy will try to avoid her with time |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Fhemmmy: 2:58pm On May 01, 2019 |
Except your interest in men changed, it means for the rest of your life, you will be changing men for the younger and physically fit one, because the one from your office will not forever remain young . . . . |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Princeofasia: 2:59pm On May 01, 2019 |
u are an olosho that was turn to a wife. the guy broke the golden rule |
Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by Princeofasia: 3:02pm On May 01, 2019 |
sisisioge:you sey mind the idiot? the olosho is a gold digger |
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