truthsayer009:


I actually knew a long time ago because a lot of stories do not add up. Last year I compared 5 stories & and the reply threads just like this one. I know its obviously fake.

Same method Instagram pages like Break up or Make up, JORO, TundeEdnut etc are using.

Most of their stories are Fake.

You should work for the FBI you know

This is a lesson to other women who are sleeping with their colleagues or other men thinking they would love you more than your husband. The response from your colleague says it all. He was just using you, you mean nothing to him. Solution time, you need to give your life to Jesus. Thats the only solution you have or else depression would lead you to suicide. Stay away from men, relationship with men should be surface. Is only Jesus that would bring your husband back cause he is very hurt. Once again have a relationship with Jesus. You would have confessed to Jesus in tears and your guilt would have been taken away. Nevertheless, Nairaland family loves you but Jesus loves you more.

Ganjafama:
You are making it seem as if the man is bad. The lady deserve no pity. Imagine her saying she would love to fvck the colleague over and over again in her previous post . If the husband decides not to forgive, he has done nothing wrong. The woman is a dangerous person who needs to be disgraced.

The husband is justified. However, you don't throw the baby away with the bathwater.

Khaleell001:


stop making it sound as if they guy was only guilty.

We condemn both for their illicit affair.
We just live in a crazy world were things as sacred as sex is so cheap that even the chaste ones are fast becoming endangered species.

Na only prayer and very strict discipline dey save person these days.

You are right they are both to blame. She’s already paying for hers. But that guy will also receive his reward. He thinks he’s a sharp guy.

Hmmm!
Hanty don't kill yourself oo! are u insane why would you even think of suicide.. wetin u go tell God?, there is no problem in life someone else have not passed thru.. it's good to say the truth, unfortunately u did that but it didn't go down well with u.. but console yourself and move on it's not the end of the world

rafhell:
Something tells me the OP is a big liar.
Let us read between the lines. You put out your post 11 days ago asking for advice. In eleven days, all these drama had played out.
You even got a 2 bedroom accommodation close to your work place and you already moved in with the kids.
Madam or whoever you are, not everybody on nairaland is daft.

Nice storyline BTW

It’s very very possible. 11 days is a long time. She probably told him immediately after the post and the rest happened. It doesn’t take long to get an apartment if you have the money.

Beckham14:
When you were spreading your legs like blue band you never thought of the love you had for that innocent man who put a roof over your head, you never thought of the "marriage" you wish to protect, Now you have lost the trust your parents had for you, and might as well lose the love of your kids when your "ex" husband tells them how promiscuous their mother is and how adventurous she can be with the dick in an hotel room.
Some mistakes are avoidable and you don't have any excuse to give for this silly mistake you brought upon yourself.
May God bless that your "ex" husband for handling that heart shattering news with such calmness, not all men can wait till you finish your sexcapdes without registering some thunderous blows on your face.
The m0ron who fuucked you like a cheap slut has dump you like a piece of trash.
Before you think of killing yourself by yourself, take those innocent children to your parents. I won't stop you from doing what you feel best for you, After all, you didn't seek for our opinions when you wanted to collect the dick.
Put yourself together and accept your fate.
Rest well.

I guess you never did anything wrong your whole life.
Saint Beckham

Chubhie:

That's too mean a thing to say to someone whose at their weakest point.

abi o
very mean

rafhell:
Something tells me the OP is a big liar.
Let us read between the lines. You put out your post 11 days ago asking for advice. In eleven days, all these drama had played out.
You even got a 2 bedroom accommodation close to your work place and you already moved in with the kids.
Madam or whoever you are, not everybody on nairaland is daft.

Nice storyline BTW

You've said it all

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

This story is like "Bobrisky": Totally made-up.

Chubhie:

That's too mean a thing to say to someone whose at their weakest point.

whose fault is that?...how can a married woman with two kids cheat with a colleague?., does that make sense to you?

I'm very sure most of the people condemning op are worse than her. She has sinned and confessed but many here are hypocrites. Some are even saying she is under a curse,as if the person's righteousness is not as filthy rag before God. Only God has the capacity to judge not you sinners.
Op,go and sin no more. He is a merciful God! If he is not a mercy,nobody will have the chance to live. We all live by His Grace.

Every mallam with his kettle

Funny story sha.

But.

You told him?

Fake story!!

Hm

generationz:





You should work for the FBI you know

In 2013, i met a girl who works for a dating site. Very Top popular one at that. She was hired to chat with Men and make them feel like she was a real lady looking for love or sex. As they needed more users on the platform.

She would basically be sex-chatting you on the platform, but never agree to meet or keep postponing.

They also hired many like her, this was 2013. So imagine today. I was surprised when she told me.

rafhell:
Something tells me the OP is a big liar.
Let us read between the lines. You put out your post 11 days ago asking for advice. In eleven days, all these drama had played out.
You even got a 2 bedroom accommodation close to your work place and you already moved in with the kids.
Madam or whoever you are, not everybody on nairaland is daft.

Nice storyline BTW

,,,,,,

rafhell:
Something tells me the OP is a big liar.
Let us read between the lines. You put out your post 11 days ago asking for advice. In eleven days, all these drama had played out.
You even got a 2 bedroom accommodation close to your work place and you already moved in with the kids.
Madam or whoever you are, not everybody on nairaland is daft.

Nice storyline BTW

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Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

I was among those who advised you not tell him but your conscience won't allow you. Will you take my advise now?

Moving forward. Damage control.

Allow your husband proceed with the divorce. You are a single mum now and it's not a bad thing. The bright side now is that you have unlimited, guilt-free access to any man you want now including your office hunk. Most importantly always be there for your children no matter what!

You should not loose both ways sister. It will not be easy, brace yourself.

Disclaimer: I also agree with the people who think your story is fake, my solution will work whether your story is fake or not.

I feel sorry for what has happened but I must tell you that you did the right thing. However, engaging your mentor or the spiritual authority he submits to would have saved you this embarrassment. You can still involve them if you have an existing relationship with them . May God of the unusual intervene

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

i told you not to tell him but you took advice of those nairaland teenagers that have not experience any thing about life. Now you are faced with this. You have lost everything. I knew that was what would happened, that was why, i stood my ground not to tell him. You choose your path. I sincerely pray your husband forgives you but you know things can never be the same. There are things better left unsaid. I will send you a pm

[quote author=Chubhie post=78304755][/quote] Haba, take am easu, na that small talk make you give am big slap like this

Katier00:
i told you not to tell him but you took advice of those nairaland teenagers that have not experience any thing about life. Now you are faced with this. You have lost everything. I knew that was what would happened, that was why, i stood my ground not to tell him. You choose your path. I sincerely pray your husband forgives you but you know things can never be the same. There are things better left unsaid. I will send you a pm

you are encouraging dishonesty... so you want her to keep living a make life?..it is well

babyfaceafrica:
you are encouraging dishonesty... so you want her to keep living a make life?..it is well

a make life. He who is without a sin should be the first to case the stone

Katier00:
a make life. He who is without a sin should be the first to case the stone

a fakw life i mean?if someone sin..they confess!!..if the man does not forgive her,at least God will forgive...I can't encourage dishonesty!!..at least now her conscience can now rest!!.. instead of been tortured.. my opinion though

truthsayer009:


In 2013, i met a girl who works for a dating site. Very Top popular one at that. She was hired to chat with Men and make them feel like she was a real lady looking for love or sex. As they needed more users on the platform.

She would basically be sex-chatting you on the platform, but never agree to meet or keep postponing.

They also hired many like her, this was 2013. So imagine today. I was surprised when she told me.

I'm very sure of that break or makeup

generationz:


I'm very sure of that break or makeup

No way, break up or makeup is the worst of the branch. I have known that page since 2017 where there is a footballer from Thailand who gives commenters around 300k every month for free.

Rumours had it, that he has something with Blessing_ceo, he stopped coming to the website in 2018.

Look that instagram page is full of lies. Even her dating site is full of Runs girls who pose as women searching for a spouse. No disrespect to women honestly its the truth.

Katier00:
a make life. He who is without a sin should be the first to case the stone

Casting my own stone madame

truthsayer009:


No way, break up or makeup is the worst of the branch. I have known that page since 2017 where there is a footballer from Thailand who gives commenters around 300k every month for free.

Rumours had it, that he has something with Blessing_ceo, he stopped coming to the website in 2018.

Look that instagram page is full of lies. Even her dating site is full of Runs girls who pose as women searching for a spouse. No disrespect to women honestly its the truth.

Never heard of the Thai footballer, you sure her was giving up to that amount?

Most of her stories don't just add up

Her stories about building houses, buying new cars and making millions sound too sugar coated
She makes money yes but not as much as she claims she makes from the site If not she won't still be working for the police force we're we know egunje plenty

I like her because she advice's ladies to work hard for their money and not depend solely on men for it.


However she lies a lot.


I wouldn't blame her. She calls herself THE STORYTELLER for a reason.


She even lies about the men who ask her out. Some time back her own followers caught in one fabricated story about a man that used to give her up to 20k for lunch

Its all part of the business sha. The hype.

Afterall , Linda ikeji is her mentor.

Its better than stealing

How do you know about her dating site? Have you ever visited it before?

Sent you a pm. Contact me Immediately ma

generationz:


How do you know about her dating site? Have you ever visited it before?

I have heard so many bad stories about her dating site. It is simply a secret Instagram page that you have to pay for.

But yeah, i also like her too. She's seems like a fair person in judgment as she doesn't make cases just because you're a lady or guy. Atleast she try for that one.

Apart from that, she is a full time hustler Lmao. Police officer + Instagram guru + magazine owner and other business we don't even know about.