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Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Beckham14: 12:34pm On May 22, 2019 |
ekems2017:According to a 2014 study, Most Nigerians hates hearing the bitter truth, infact, they prefer to lodge in Lies than to come close to the truth. "You know how disastrous a fire can get when tempered with, but you still went ahead to place your hand inside" Are you expecting a pat on the back for that level of foolishness? I don't bash and will not bash you, but if you feel offended with my comment, that's your business. The truth is indeed scary. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by vengedre(m): 12:36pm On May 22, 2019 |
I really feel for you sha... |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Beckham14: 12:37pm On May 22, 2019 |
superlanny:You started well as a human being but ended everything like a silly g0at. Have a nice day. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by vengedre(m): 12:38pm On May 22, 2019 |
Beckham14: |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Automatic3444(m): 12:47pm On May 22, 2019 |
[quote author=superlanny post=78614324] Baba we all know she fuccked up, but you don't throw the baby and the dirty bath water away, sebi this one still feels remorse, the ones that don't feel remorse and continue to do it for years and even kill you so as to pave way for more fucck collection, you dey act like say no be all man dey mess up, just like Jesus said, he who is with no sin cast the first stone, don't be an hypocrite and be acting all saint up, na person like you go dey cry like pickin when him fucck up, be forming nonsense boss there.[/quote I commend u for this.. Some post are not met for underage, single and so on. It take wisdom and understanding 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by quinSonia(f): 12:51pm On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003...you should have it a secret but on a serious note take this advice don't KILL YOURSELF PUT YOUR KIDS B4 your self and hustle 4 dem 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Mac2016(m): 12:53pm On May 22, 2019 |
RiyadhGoddess:That man won't take her back 95%. She shd free her mind. We only have a transient time here so be happy always! 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by BlueAir: 1:00pm On May 22, 2019 |
JasonScoolari:maybe |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Okonyeleo(m): 1:01pm On May 22, 2019 |
Don't take your life dear otherwise you will wrath in hell. allow him to take his decision and don't send anyone to beg him cos if he accepts you back base on the influence of others and not with his mind, he will surely make your life a living hell. This is one of those things we call challenges in life, fight it with God and you shall found peace. Am pastor I can be of help send me your DM me your location I can visit. Don't ever think suicide. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by erumena(m): 1:04pm On May 22, 2019 |
Though what you did was wrong and confessing was the right thing to do. Meanwhile, your husband is going through the normal phase of pain of betrayal. What you do now is to keep praying to God to intervene since you've owned up to your mistake and watch the Lord work wonders in your marriage, and also, let this be a lesson learnt. God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by sandra50(f): 1:05pm On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003:Lol..you cheated and told your husband you cheated?who does that?I remember against telling you not to tell him when others where asking you too..where are those people now..they will still come and blab here why you shouldn't worry that God is pleased with you now that you have confessed your sins.. God can never be pleased with a sinner. That's why I tell people to marry a man they love and not for another reason..and if you feel there is a need to marry someone you don't love then you should have it in mind that you must be the best wife for him..you made a very big mistake by cheating and instead of keeping it to yourself you went and told you husband,you actually think men forgive such?you look worthless to him now and there is nothing you can say that will make him forgive unless God speaks to him..instead of you to change it and tell him you only wanted to know his reaction should you ever cheat on him..my dear it over and it's going to be a big burden on you because you are the one who broke your marriage. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by MrDoGood(m): 1:08pm On May 22, 2019 |
Beckham14:Haaaaaa brother this is too much oh...... You've already crucified her and not waiting for repentance. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Beckham14: 1:11pm On May 22, 2019 |
MrDoGood:Crucify her with the truth, YES! |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by kunleweb: 1:11pm On May 22, 2019 |
pansophist: Pansophist. Pansophist. Pansophist how many times i. Call you? Too much sense kee you there 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Teaser4(m): 1:13pm On May 22, 2019 |
Going to court to divorce na long thing.. I will divorce you with my mouth...you dare not cross my way till I die.. I'm so unforgivable, some sins can't be forgiven...like my wife sleeping with another man... don't tell me and make i no find out...but I go find out someday...cos all days for the thief one day for efcc....we done done done...no one can talk to me...not even God...i won't listen |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Nobody: 1:22pm On May 22, 2019 |
OP reading this i felt like insulting you but i will hold my peace... I pray he divorces you sef, you are married and went to open leg for a small boy, your Colleague at work, now the guy have sharply denied you. Its very very good, i like your husband very well.... Ladies you guys should stop cheating on your husbands, you may cheat on your bf but husband is a no no please..now you rendevous have turned into roundabout.. Let me tell you how to resolve this but i am mad at you. Seeing he is using this tatics, he is just like me, travel with him...but before you travel beg him one more time and let him know that if it goes to your parents that one might be journey of no return....Tell him you are willing to sponsor the DNA on saturday for his children, bombard the baba the texts..short texts, make him miss you even as he is angry, text him every evening and first thing every morning then he will start expecting your text, dont go and be crying in your texts oh, just sweet words, you are my king bla bla bla, make crazy promises, if there any changes he has been asking you to make physically or otherwise...this is the time to do it, i pray God saves your marriage... |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by MrDoGood(m): 1:24pm On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003: Now we're moving forward. I was expecting something like this to happen. If he didn't reacted this way, i would have told you to file for divorce before you meet your water-low. But since it played out how i expected, we close to the solution. Most importantly, you're free from the guilt and any reasonable man will be mad at what happened. Now on the way forward on how to get your husband back and you home again, you need someone who cal really talk to him and make him understand that divorce isn't the best way. Someone who you believe can light up his heart towards you (possibly a Rev Father or a grown man of God) whom has experience life. Pls DO NOT involve your friends oh...... The issue should be a household one and no friends. Cos friend do quarrel sometimes. You don't need to be a catholic before a Rev father will help you. And you ba, do your transfer from ur current work place to avoid nonsense. I wish i can call you now to speak with you. You still have 80% chances of winning your husband back. Do not call him now but constant text messages of apology will do more good than call cos he's very angry. Then apply the above i stated and do not get your parents involved and i believed he's not told them. Killing yourself isn't the best way forward. Believe me cos you don't know what your kids will have to go through when you're gone. But i am very certain your family will come back again. I wish you all the best ma'am. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by diego101(m): 1:26pm On May 22, 2019 |
You see how sweet the ladies mouth is, if you hav been sweet like this to him , Nothing will ever make you think of cheating not to your boyfriend but to your husband... it might interest you to know.that the same idiot that you cheated with will not even take you in .... if you doubt it call him and tell him what's going on .. Sometimes I laugh when some of this girls act like they are smart .. Please let's all her husband to forgive her because soon we will hear that she has taken sniper too and Die...then the children that doesnt know anything will now suffer for her bad deeds Please drop his number ... I will personally like to talk to him and give him reasons why he has to forgive you 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by olaJako(m): 1:27pm On May 22, 2019 |
Whatever caused you to cheat is best known to you.... I feel no pity for you.... |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by pansophist(m): 1:27pm On May 22, 2019 |
kunleweb: Egbon mi, over loyalty de worry me. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by diego101(m): 1:28pm On May 22, 2019 |
sexyseeker: Same thing I was saying ... Some guys are wicked too, what do you gain bedding another mans wife when there are younger and fresher girls out there who are willing to hook up with you for free ...yet he still have to sleep with her... Now see 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by kunleweb: 1:32pm On May 22, 2019 |
pansophist: You spoke the truth 100%. Masculinity and manliness needs to urgently be realigned. The global feminization of men needs to be stopped in its tracks. Its time for Kings to regain their knighthood and be the real men the owners, possessors and guardians of power. Nothing less my brother. All this vagina worshipping needs to be stopped |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 22, 2019 |
Beckham14:Nigeria and their stupid mentality, even if she cheated on him, why didn't he do a DNA test to confirm if the children are his B4 driving them out, the man is over reacting jor, he's just using this as excuse to get laid with other women. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Summerbody: 1:39pm On May 22, 2019 |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by charlsy(m): 1:41pm On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003: First I want to utterly discourage you to do away with that suicidal thought, that’s the worse thing that would happen to you because you would not only let your children suffer but your soul surely wouldn’t be in a good standing with God if you’re a christian. I know suicide would be the most easiest thing to do to escape from the pain and shame you’re facing, I say this because I have being there but it’s never the best option. It leaves nothing but a wake of destruction in its path and more so, suicide is demonic and of the devil because each time the pain you feel never seems to go away, a demonic voice keeps telling you to end your life so the pain would go away. RUN from that voice and turn to God in prayer of forgiveness and help. You made a very big mistake which you regret and confessed for to your husband, that shows you are sorry for the wrong you did which is the first step to self healing and a step required for God to step into your life and heal you from the pain you feel. Please don’t give social media another news of a suicide to carry as news. I am here for you if you need someone to help you pull through this phase of your life. Reach me on 0 7 0 3 0 7 9 0 6 4 1 if you need someone to talk to. Let’s walk through this phase together and with God. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by RiyadhGoddess(f): 1:43pm On May 22, 2019 |
Mac2016: You are not God and thank God, God is not man |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by charlsy(m): 1:45pm On May 22, 2019 |
Don’t please |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by 001spice: 1:47pm On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003:i think the right and ask God to forgive you.am sure God will restore back your marriage n your home. Guys in this forum plz let us all remember her in our prayers.am certain God will give her her heart desire |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by Mujtahida: 1:50pm On May 22, 2019 |
rafhell:You are spot on Bro. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by kelvinovie25(m): 1:59pm On May 22, 2019 |
Beckham14:Bro this is too much, have compassion for God sake, not that what you saying ain't the truth but she is here to seek for help nd don't judge people, it's not a good thing to do, Express the love of God bro. |
Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by oneTIMEman(m): 2:01pm On May 22, 2019 |
Your husband is suppose to buy you new Benz and send you to Dubai by cheating on him...you love your husband so much...na mumu just dey worry you |
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