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Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:31pm On May 26, 2019 |
eyinjuege:The slap was crude, I don't think anyone supports that. We are trying to understand the circumstances that led to it. Could there have been a better way for her to ask/demand his assistance out of earshot of everyone else? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:31pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: It's always been mutual. Always 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:33pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:Which is why i asked if it was going to be in my very before. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by bukatyne(f): 2:35pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: Happy new year ma'am How have you been? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:36pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Awww. Lovely!! I thought as much. I am so happy for you! Yaayyyy. Where's that dancing emoji when you need it? I thought as much. There's this peaceful and Serene aura I sense when I read from you lately. I felt happy to see you writing again on NL. Yaaaaaaayyyy...again 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by DabuIIIT: 2:37pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:Move away pretty fast with all ur slackies b......,I can't stand it.... 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:37pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Again, you're deflecting and trying to make this about you. Do the honours and answer that her question from before, please? 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:38pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:@ Politely.. End of discussion The next line where you're trying to justify being impolite because of stress, will just put you in another hole that i don't want to cover with sand right now. Justifying rudeness because of stress, yet you can't justify the slap because of stress-induced ego bruising. You're too funny. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:40pm On May 26, 2019 |
bukatyne: Same to you ma. I've been well Hope you have been fine too? So good to read from all of you again, including Crackshaus. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:42pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:But this is not about you na, the person I asked the question hasn't answered. Where you even jump come out from sef? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: I have never been more at peace. God knows! A ton has been lifted from my soul and another from my heart. It's like a miracle truly. I thank God all day every day. I have never been more grateful. I won't stay long on NL. It's just that I am working on a project/promotion so spending a lot of time on my computer. It will be over in a few weeks but you have my email and until then let's have some fun. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by bukatyne(f): 2:44pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: I am not playing the two sides, I am looking at it from both angles. The wife is looking at things logically; however I would wager that prior to now, the man did not do chores or whatever. I understand the man's reasoning however it is absurd to me so the best decision is to steer clear. I mean, some people's are already saying it's disrespectful to ask your husband to wash plates. (let's not deal with the manner she requested now). I wouldn't marry such and start crying foul later. Again the man leaving seems to me that they have been having friction on duties traditionally considered the wife's that she longer wants to keep up with. I would like to hear from the husband if possible. P.S. : This is why house husbandry would not work generally in our culture. A man takes it as his duty to provide. When he is unable, he is not willing to make himself useful in other aspects. So he wants a wife who would be happy providing and handling domestics at same time. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by bukatyne(f): 2:46pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: We are good thanks. Hahahaha @ the last line. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:46pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness:I dont know why you tried to hide this exceptional news from me. You don't want me to feel like a billion bucks? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:46pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Na wa. And you know she was rude, how? And even if she was... Can he keep his filthy hands to himself next time, and either help with the dishes, give a quick retort, or walk out? Why take out his frustration on her? Is she the reason for his failures? I'm happy he left the house.. He should stay out as long as he likes. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:49pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: I can relate with being on a computer all day and NL serving as a distraction. It's past midnight and I'm awake because my body clock is yet to adjust...or so I think Yaaaassss to the fun part. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:50pm On May 26, 2019 |
bukatyne:You have done enough justice to this, bravo. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 2:50pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: You have never been known to be rooting for me in any way or circumstance, en contraire, so my mere responding to you is a big enough compliment, trust it. Don't get used to it. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 2:50pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: I've been around. Very few reasons give me energy to type on NL. She's one of them. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 2:51pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: Where did you go on holiday? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 2:53pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: Couldn't have said it any better. A man taking his frustration out on his wife is really saddening. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 2:54pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: I feel so proud and uplifted. Thank you hun. I am counting my blessings and you are one of them. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 2:57pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:You're stringing... Let me take you back You are excusing being impolite/being rude and attributing it to stress. I'm telling you to also excuse the slap and attribute it to stress-induced ego bruising, if that's the case. I dont know if she was rude, you dont know the man's state of mind before engaging her brain either. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:00pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: I never knew that in a situation like this.. We should be justifying the slap he gave her. That's bullying. No one is 100% polite. Sometimes, circumstances make us appear that way.... Is that why we should be slapping one another? I'm thankful I'm not married to a "Nigerian" I look at our thought process and twisted value system in this country and I'm short of words...for real. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:06pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: I feel like some of the cultural norms and religious dogmas deprived some people of any form of logical thinking and objective reasoning. It's unbelievable what responses I have read on this thread. And I would not even refer to the system using the word value because there is nothing valuable about it and it manifests itself on all levels of society in a very pathetic way. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:06pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness:Madam I'm just ecstatic you dont love me, if you like dey speak grammar for there. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Have you ever been diagnosed? I mean psychologically? |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:08pm On May 26, 2019 |
crackhaus: Again...we do not know that she was impolite or rude. And if you think it's okay to excuse the man for slapping his woman because she told him to help out whether rudely or not... Mehn, we should prolly end it here... Gosh, there are things I don't want to imagine happening to me. I did not insult you. I did not hold your shirt to your throat. In my state of feeling pressured because I'm working so hard to feed myself, feed YOU and our children, I call out to you to help me with dishes...and your response to me is a slap...for WHAT? Again I ask, if you can't help my situation at that time, if you can't join me in sacrificing for our family... Why not walk out? Why slap me? Did I insult you or pose any physical threat to you? Is asking for your help an insult that should warrant your slapping me? Ndi mmadu sef. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by crackhaus: 3:09pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi:I'm happy for both of you, honestly.. I never thought Mindfulness capable of making any real friends on NL. She's always fighting everyone, male and female. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by Nobody: 3:11pm On May 26, 2019 |
MizMyColi: On a rational level, he understand you are right. On an emotional level, I smell psychopathic tendencies. |
Re: Man Slaps Wife For Asking Him To Wash Plate by MizMyColi(f): 3:13pm On May 26, 2019 |
Mindfulness: Thoroughly co-signed. Even if it's my child, if I beat her out of frustration, why should I justify it? Would it kill me to accept that I was wrong? That no matter what she has done...it does not justify beating her? How much more a grown woman? What temerity? How can you use negativity to deal with negativity and still be looking for a nod from the universe that you are somehow right for what you did? 4 Likes |
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