Rhymez:
Sissy

Better to be Sissy than to be RIP.

eni4real:
Stress=Force/Area

U get it... I pour out those frustrations and add some more packs to my tummy...by the time I'm done,I'd be too fagged out to even think of it. I eat,sleep and then rationalise. First,she is gone...she ain't coming back..so should life stop? No...what next? Continue living. Other girls will come.
Shikena

jaksmillioniar:
she will face pains

Will you shut up your mouth? Na only to type Rubbish here dey claim relationship blogger you sabi. She will face pains because she broke up with him, just see your rotten brain

Emotionally weak = unable to cope well with situations that may toil with your emotions. Men naturally being less emotional than women may not be able to deal with their towering emotions when it comes to tragic events like heartbreak, causing them to deal with it terribly since they are not accustomed to feeling that way. Women get sad over anything, we cry a lot we are naturally emotionally, so we may know how to cope with tragic situations better. Hope you get it.

luminouz:

Now,here is what I like reading from NL gehs...cool,cold,logical facts...not some emotional drivel devoid of reasoning. I quite agree with some of ur points. Men could handle heartbreaks terribly but does that make them more emotionally weak that women? That's my point. Cuz I think the percentages favour the women more,not the men.

At ur last point,I'm not here to argue but learn and exchange ideas.so most times,I quote to learn and reason out facts,even if its ur opinion and its factual.
Thanks

Maybe you don't read stuffs on nairaland or observe a great number of your Nigerian male folk, otherwise you would have known that what you call alpha male in the Nigerian context, is a man full of pride,confidence, a stubborn fellow who should be inconsiderate to the emotions of a woman, ''shouldn't cry for love'' like you said. I use cool headed cuz an alpha male can never be cool headed. Concerning the issue of how women feel about men who cry, I suggest you read comments from females above and draw conclusions, rather than mention your mum or siblings whose opinions we can't read here.

luminouz:

I said self confidence, u mention overdose of confidence,seems u excel at twisting my words to suit ursef. Firm and decisive= a man who knows what he wants,not some directionless mofo that doesn't have his own mind.
U say I speak for them? Yes I do...I have a mum and sister and have other women in my life. None of them liked a crybaby guy...why? Cuz they see it as a woman's thing...they dont want they already have,they desire what they dont have,that the guy has,strength and will to lead.
Seems u confuse ursef@ coolheaded guy again. An alpha can be cool headed or u envision us as some fiery fvcks with steam oozing outta our noses and ears?? coolheaded means he is rational and even tempered. If doesn't he won't have a mind of his own or say NO to ur opinions at every turn.

I think ur being very personal, maybe from previous experiences.

I love u babe...

He should be jubilating.

enjoy yourselves with this jare:


I took three quick steps backward to create enough space between us, then I gave him a perfect kick to the jaw. The kick stopped him in track; he was dazed for a few seconds. Although the night was still illuminated by a full moon without stars, I was sure my dear inexperienced friend was seeing a full constellation, a galaxy bright enough to blind him. He blinked for a while before landing hard on his flat buttocks. Then he did something I utterly never expected. He started crying. I was confused; he was a grownup, he was not supposed to cry; and besides, my kick, although swift and direct, was not hard enough to elicit this kind of tears.

Read from the beginning through this link:

http://www.pentinent.com/2019/05/24/kanu-the-brutality-of-a-rogue-update-1/

LilMissFavvy:
Maybe you don't read stuffs on nairaland or observe a great number of your Nigerian male folk, otherwise you would have known that what you call alpha male in the Nigerian context, is a man full of pride,confidence, a stubborn fellow who should be inconsiderate to the emotions of a woman, ''shouldn't cry for love'' like you said. I use cool headed cuz an alpha male can never be cool headed. Concerning the issue of how women feel about men who cry, I suggest you read comments from females above and draw conclusions, rather than mention your mum or siblings whose opinions we can't read here.

*sighs*
U used NL as a judge? Lol...ion care about faceless entities with access to the internet...the men around u,the women around me are what I used as case studies. I suggest u do same babe!

Staged.

luminouz:

If the woman died,I'd get that..but cuz she left u Ur fvcking soft...would u date a woman who cries at every little thing? Nope... Shuuuuu....a woman wants some stability and strength in a man,not a crying factory like her,so stop trying to play that reverse psycho bullcrap on me....

Superman you've won, try me real life, you won't live to tell the story.

Safiaa:
Emotionally weak = unable to cope well with situations that may toil with your emotions. Men naturally being less emotional than women may not be able to deal with their towering emotions when it comes to tragic events like heartbreak, causing them to deal with it terribly since they are not accustomed to feeling that way. Women get sad over anything, we cry a lot we are naturally emotionally, so we may know how to cope with tragic situations better. Hope you get it.

We dey say the same thing o...
The percentage of men in that regard is small,so most move on with other women or cool off before dating again. Women in that regard are in the majority,they cry and all that but do they take more or less time to move on compared to the men despite being naturally emotional? That's what the real question is...I believe they take more time. U may think differently dou! And herein lies our conclusions

Ryan03:
Will you shut up your mouth? Na only to type Rubbish here dey claim relationship blogger you sabi. She will face pains because she broke up with him, just see your rotten brain

u are just a fool did wat she did is it right. I pray u are dumped and face such pains d guy is going thru

kernel01:


Superman you've won, try me real life, you won't live to tell the story.

U are sounding emotional and that's a weakness I could exploit. Threatening to kill me doesn't scare me cuz I'm sure u dont even know what it means to kill a human being. Nor have u successfully dealt with the emotional harangue that comes with taking another soul.

I dont want to win...I just hope u see things my way

Lovelyn451:
Ntoor ...I wanted to marry her yen yen yen...dats how he'll date her oo until he gets tired and dumps her for anoda. Thank God she ws able to see that there was no future with u and dumped u first...sharp girl

Shut up, do u think a guy will cry for a girl he was planning to break up with.
If a girl break up with a guy na to dey celebrate

...And they made a video of it, posted it online, to what end? Seriously, what are we supposed to do with this crap?... People who abuse social media in this part of the world are yet to fully understand that a lot might change, but one thing remains constant here: Most of us will never truly give a flying fvck!!!

Using NL to draw conclusions is a perfect medium, especially since we have men from different tribes, etc. humans are behind each moniker, and their online attitude gives atleast a good definition of who they are. We see the good as well as bad. Using few people around your environment isn't a better option.

luminouz:

*sighs*
U used NL as a judge? Lol...ion care about faceless entities with access to the internet...the men around u,the women around me are what I used as case studies. I suggest u do same babe!

LilMissFavvy:
Using NL to draw conclusions is a perfect medium, especially since we have men from different tribes, etc. humans are behind each moniker, and their online attitude gives atleast a good definition of who they are. We see the good as well as bad. Using few people around your environment isn't a better option.

Wrong again!
NL is not one...since those monikers give alter egos to the users.they can say anything,be anything and get away with it. So they are not real. Only few monikers are real like what they post. I mean a good majority of the 'f' monikers are actually males . you think they will talk like men?? I travel a lot and watch people in real life scenarios/situations without an option of concealment. So I have an inkling of what the true heartbeat of men and women sound like.

jaksmillioniar:
u are just a fool did wat she did is it right. I pray u are dumped and face such pains d guy is going thru

shut up, will you? You claim to be Mature but you brain is the size of a peanut. Even a 15 year old wont type like this

luminouz:

I'm an Alpha... I'm not bad....stop that misconception. Alpha males are good men,just firm and decisive. So please stop dating these sissy crybabies u call nice guys and date a real man,an Alpha!

Tell them.. I am getting tired of correcting such ignorant misconceptions... Funny thing: They will frown if you say the same trash about an independent boss lady.

Angelfrost:


Tell them.. I am getting tired of correcting such ignorant misconceptions... Funny thing: They will frown if you say the same trash about an independent boss lady.

Been saying it on NL since...ion know where they got that mentality from.
Lol @ ur last statement

My niece rates this boldness very cool =)

Ryan03:
shut up, will you? You claim to be Mature but you brain is the size of a peanut. Even a 15 year old wont type like this

may god purnish u. did I post to u. did I even know u u just jump in and attack me. no do pass urself cos if I got ur time I sware u will live nairaland

MVPtesley:
when it comes to dating, modify urself for worse case scenarios... zero ur mind and believe anything can happen


l recently saw in the news...A man was shouting ```I no do again``` and stormed out while at the wedding alter with his wife to be. leaving everyone surprised and confused.

The lady cheated on him and he found out during the wedding procession.

jaksmillioniar:
may god purnish u. did I post to u. did I even know u u just jump in and attack me. no do pass urself cos if I got ur time I sware u will live nairaland

I know you will soon call NL police on me, thats the worse you can do abi? Big for nothing fool, i'll 'live' NL? See who say he go school o, you are just a low life illitrate

You are the one who is wrong.

luminouz:

Wrong again!
NL is not one...since those monikers give alter egos to the users.they can say anything,be anything and get away with it. So they are not real. Only few monikers are real like what they post. I mean a good majority of the 'f' monikers are actually males . you think they will talk like men?? I travel a lot and watch people in real life scenarios/situations without an option of concealment. So I have an inkling of what the true heartbeat of men and women sound like.

LordIsaac:
He can't be a husband by showing this level of vulnerability. Ladies get turned off by sisses. She left because she wants a man in her life!

A man that would throwing punches at her. OK I understand

MVPtesley:
when it comes to dating, modify urself for worse case scenarios... zero ur mind and believe anything can happen


l recently saw in the news...A man was shouting ```I no do again``` and stormed out while at the wedding alter with his wife to be. leaving everyone surprised and confused.

I watched it too....its heartbreaking

LilMissFavvy:
..........but why, what did he do?

Maybe he has no money to maintain her lifestyle.

mekuso89:
A man that would throwing punches at her. OK I understand

Ok...I'm just stating the psychology of a woman in my understanding. I can just imagine what will happen after seeing that amount of emotional outburst and she decides to come back to him. He should then get ready to always weep for the rest of his life to save his marriage as she would not fail to exploit it at every given opportunity.

sherylbakky:
His own is better, at least he is not thinking of Sniper

We don't know for sure yet. The case isn't over yet

Oluromantic:


A heartbroken state is not the best state to draw general conclusions about a person's being. It's a vulnerable state for everyone

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God bless you, and been able to let out pent up feelings by crying actually shows how strong he is.. who no go no know

Fu cking ninny.
Crying shamelessly over a woman

instead of crying cos a woman leaves me I cry cos no money in my pocket. Damn