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Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:11pm On May 27, 2019
It might feel like it would never go away, it might make no sense to some people but one thing I know for sure is that it's a temporary feeling and it would go away with time. I might not be in the best position to say this cos I'm nursing my own wounds but Hey! , You are not alone.

An advice from a sister of mine,
"When you feel hurt, write down exactly how you feel, after which you write where you want to be emotionally"
You could do that in a book or on your phone, I tried it and it helped.
Oh and don't leave the holy spirit out of it, he will comfort you.

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by greatnaija01: 10:12pm On May 27, 2019
awesome... I PRAY YOU GET HEALED OVER TIME O

missimelda01:
It might feel like it would never go away, it might make no sense to some people but one thing I know for sure is that it's a temporary feeling and it would go away with time. I might not be in the best position to say this cos I'm nursing my own wounds but Hey! , You are not alone.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:14pm On May 27, 2019
Sure I will, thanks
greatnaija01:
awesome... I PRAY YOU GET HEALED OVER TIME O

Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by greatnaija01: 10:26pm On May 27, 2019
Ohanyere Goodness, God is surely with you. I am but a stranger and may not need to know details of what you are going through or being through, BUT one thing I know, if the meaning of your name is as I can relate it.... I can say... GOD IS STRONGLY WITH YOU.... He will bring you through and you will come out strong and be a voice to many. God bless. I am one of your followers on INSTAGRAM and I know you are a good and jovial person

missimelda01:
Sure I will, thanks
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:28pm On May 27, 2019
Amen, thank you again.
greatnaija01:
Ohanyere Goodness, God is surely with you. I am but a stranger and may not need to know details of what you are going through or being through, BUT one thing I know, if the meaning of your name is as I can relate it.... I can say... GOD IS STRONGLY WITH YOU.... He will bring you through and you will come out strong and be a voice to many. God bless. I am one of your followers on INSTAGRAM and I know you are a good and jovial person

Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Deepfeel(m): 10:28pm On May 27, 2019
missimelda01:
It might feel like it would never go away, it might make no sense to some people but one thing I know for sure is that it's a temporary feeling and it would go away with time. I might not be in the best position to say this cos I'm nursing my own wounds but Hey! , You are not alone.
Just in case you are tempted or sniper starts clouding your thoughts I will be here for you baby sad

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:34pm On May 27, 2019
lol.. the devil can't win.
Deepfeel:

Just in case you are tempted or sniper starts clouding your thoughts I will be here for you baby sad
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Amatarasha(f): 10:38pm On May 27, 2019
Mtcheww angry
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Deepfeel(m): 10:39pm On May 27, 2019
missimelda01:
lol.. the devil can't win.
Amen to that grin
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 10:40pm On May 27, 2019
Where do I start? I've lost so many great relationships, so many lovely ladies just because of my job specifications and schedules.
Right now I've given up after all, marriage isn't for everyone or maybe the right, patient and understanding one will come my way someday.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Deepfeel(m): 10:43pm On May 27, 2019
Amatarasha:
Mtcheww angry
So you got no consoling words for her, Nigerians are suicidal this days o
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:46pm On May 27, 2019
I'm sorry about all of that, I hope you find that person that completes you
J111333:
Where do I start? I've lost so many great relationships, so many lovely ladies just because of my job specifications and schedules.
Right now I've given up after all, marriage isn't for everyone or maybe the right, patient and understanding one will come my way someday.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Amatarasha(f): 10:46pm On May 27, 2019
Deelfeel is lyk u be mother theresa of nairaland ,d likes of n.. A wil soon turn u 2 idi amin..
I dnt pity proud people ,n she is faking it
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:47pm On May 27, 2019
No hard feelings, this thread wasn't created for anyone to pity me.
Deepfeel:

So you got no consoling words for her, Nigerians are suicidal this days o
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by badadvice(f): 10:50pm On May 27, 2019
I hope you mean all kinda "hurt".
Cos i still feel immense pain from mistakenly zipping my balls while trying to zip up my trousers after taking a whizz a while ago.
I totally forgot i hadn't properly tucked it into my boxes before zipping up.
It hurts like hell.
But i hope with your advice, i can pull through.

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 10:54pm On May 27, 2019
Ouch! Your kind of hurt is not excluded sha smiley
badadvice:
I hope you mean all kinda "hurt".
Cos i still feel immense pain from mistakenly zipping my balls while trying to zip up my trousers after taking a whizz a while ago.
I totally forgot i hadn't properly tucked it into my boxes before zipping up.
It hurts like hell.
But i hope with your advice, i can pull through.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 10:55pm On May 27, 2019
missimelda01:
I'm sorry about all of that, I hope you find that person that completes you
Don't be sorry dear, you aren't the cause. As it is right now, I'm no longer on the lookout for anything except my peace of mind. I've just told my mum that if she needed to be with grand kids, she either visited my married sister or she bought puppies shikena. All I need now is my sanity, I've had too much pressure from ladies and my family.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Deepfeel(m): 10:59pm On May 27, 2019
Amatarasha:
Deelfeel is lyk u be mother theresa of nairaland ,d likes of n.. A wil soon turn u 2 idi amin..
I dnt pity proud people ,n she is faking it
Who is, N...A? Naturally am this way am not influenced by people, so being like idi Amin is impossible,
Pls spell my name right baby, I wish your heart could be as soft as mine your heart is too hard for a lady
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by badadvice(f): 11:03pm On May 27, 2019
missimelda01:
Ouch! Your kind of hurt is not excluded sha smiley

cool!
Lemme quickly go pen down how i feel right now and where i'll like to be emotionally after the pain passes.
Lets see if it'll help grin

Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 11:03pm On May 27, 2019
Don't stop praying and believing. As for your mum, she'll be fine smiley
J111333:
Don't be sorry dear, you aren't the cause. As it is right now, I'm no longer on the lookout for anything except my peace of mind. I've just told my mum that if she needed to be with grand kids, she either visited my married sister or she bought puppies shikena. All I need now is my sanity, I've had too much pressure from ladies and my family.

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Biglittlelois(f): 11:05pm On May 27, 2019
Thanks for this Op.

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Amatarasha(f): 11:06pm On May 27, 2019
Deepfeel:

Who is, N...A? Naturally am this way am not influenced by people, so being like idi Amin is impossible,
Pls spell my name right baby, I wish your heart could be as soft as mine your heart is too hard for a lady
Sorry 4 d name
.i've a soft heart wen i nid 2 . wen sometin happen 2 u ...u will know u ar alone in dis ur softheart school of thought ,be wise .
Is like u ar a richson ?
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:11pm On May 27, 2019
The one time I got my heart broken, it was only God that could give me succor. Lol. I mean, a broken heart saw me running to Jesus. Just couldn't breathe.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 11:17pm On May 27, 2019
lol I can relate, good thing Jesus is always here for us. I follow your story btw, it's quite interesting. smiley
PrimadonnaO:
The one time I got my heart broken, it was only God that could give me succor. Lol. I mean, a broken heart saw me running to Jesus. Just couldn't breathe.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Deepfeel(m): 11:24pm On May 27, 2019
Amatarasha:
Sorry 4 d name
.i've a soft heart wen i nid 2 . wen sometin happen 2 u ...u will know u ar alone in dis ur softheart school of thought ,be wise .
Is like u ar a richson ?
Lol thanks for the advice but I know about life more than that, and I have gone through that path of being abandoned by everyone but that shouldn't turn me into a forever bitter person,
Am not a richson but I grew up in a very wonderful neighborhood
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Eze2000(m): 3:25am On May 28, 2019
Amatarasha:
Sorry 4 d name
.i've a soft heart wen i nid 2 . wen sometin happen 2 u ...u will know u ar alone in dis ur softheart school of thought ,be wise .
Is like u ar a richson ?

Whoever said you are not wise is very very stupid. You just need to fix that grammar thing and everybody and their brother will shut up

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Originalsly: 3:44am On May 28, 2019
From my experience..... hurt stays around when you keep blaming the other person. It goes away quickly when you look yourself in the mirror....and zzk yourself why you did not pay attention to the warning signs. Whatever the cause of the heartbreak.... if you reflect... you will see a string of warnings that you ignored. In this way...you would see how you should've avoided the heart break and now focus on not repeating the same mistakes going forward. Just like that.... you have moved on.

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Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by Amatarasha(f): 6:07am On May 28, 2019
Eze2000:


Whoever said you are not wise is very very stupid. You just need to fix that grammar thing and everybody and their brother will shut up
tanks dear
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by vikithor(m): 7:32am On May 28, 2019
Where is our head teacher?
Abi hin no come school today?
---+++-----+---+--------+-----+-----------
*run to school gate shouting his name
"Headmaster
Our headmaster
Our dear headmaster Ubunja!
*has he not. resumed today?
* check time
Its late already na
---_-----------_--+-+-----&+-----------++++
Call again
Ubu. Nja le e!
Chief bia ya miseducation is yielding dividends, one Caro DAT used to toil with our emotions is currently experiencing same
Are the Adams not getting wiser than Eves after ya lecturing?
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by nobisgod: 7:39am On May 28, 2019
badadvice:
I hope you mean all kinda "hurt".
Cos i still feel immense pain from mistakenly zipping my balls while trying to zip up my trousers after taking a whizz a while ago.
I totally forgot i hadn't properly tucked it into my boxes before zipping up.
It hurts like hell.
But i hope with your advice, i can pull through.
you mean u do not not wear boxers, or boxers now have a zip.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 7:53am On May 28, 2019
Very true, the more reason why you can't get hurt twice from the same thing.
Originalsly:
From my experience..... hurt stays around when you keep blaming the other person. It goes away quickly when you look yourself in the mirror....and zzk yourself why you did not pay attention to the warning signs. Whatever the cause of the heartbreak.... if you reflect... you will see a string of warnings that you ignored. In this way...you would see how you should've avoided the heart break and now focus on not repeating the same mistakes going forward. Just like that.... you have moved on.
Re: Hurt Doesn't Kill.. Share Your Experiences by missimelda01(f): 7:55am On May 28, 2019
This drama is to prove what exactly?
Anyway congratulations to all the ADAMs out there, y'all have made it in life.
vikithor:
Where is our head teacher?
Abi hin no come school today?
---+++-----+---+--------+-----+-----------
*run to school gate shouting his name
"Headmaster
Our headmaster
Our dear headmaster Ubunja!
*has he not. resumed today?
* check time
Its late already na
---_-----------_--+-+-----&+-----------++++
Call again
Ubu. Nja le e!
Chief bia ya miseducation is yielding dividends, one Caro DAT used to toil with our emotions is currently experiencing same
Are the Adams not getting wiser than Eves after ya lecturing?

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