I have had the privilege of meeting people across a wider spectrum of life. One thing I did observe is that grown-ups in their 40s have difficulty in settling down early and marry someone. Some men in this predicament are afraid to commit while women have serious trust issues. Further investigations reveal that most of the "group in question" came from broken homes. They have experienced and observed either their mother or father being betrayed by their significant one.

Please correct me, if my assertions are not true. If they are true, what do you think can be done to mitigate against this earlier on?

Uchebobo:
I have had the privilege of meeting people across a wider spectrum of life. One thing I did observe is that grown-ups in their 40s have difficulty in settling down early and marry someone. Some men in this predicament are afraid to commit while women have serious trust issues. Further investigations reveal that most of the "group in question" came from broken homes. They have experienced and observed either their mother or father being betrayed by their significant one.

Please correct me, if my assertions are not true. If they are true, what do you think can be done to mitigate against this earlier on?

Are you in your forties finding it dif to settle early?
Are you not from a stable home,
or you're just bored?

Don't date anyone from a broken home.

They'll mess with your head.

And if you know divorce is an option for you, don't have kids. They are d worst hit is cases of divorce.

I'm a victim of this topic n still single becos of insecurity let learn from this married once. I'm ready to share my experience if required

I glad you're speaking up Holamic. At least, it shows that this forum is not for boring people or people who wants to waste other people's time. Your experience is much valuable.

Uchebobo:
I glad you're speaking up Holamic. At least, it shows that this forum is not for boring people or people who wants to waste other people's time. Your experience is much valuable.

The valueable lesson is to keep yourself out frm the fight of your parent, never both cause they both ve their reason.

This right actually.. coz I'm not thinking of tying the knot anytime soon.

Yes is tough to any child, cause to me till now i feel abuse from their issue. A lesson to share i wantd to marry this year n d family rejectd me becoz i'm muslim i feel bad simply coz i wantd to put right what my parent cant do. I calld both to put things in order for me but d promblem of the past could not allow me to go forward. I decided to drop d opinion

it makes dem harden

Mystiquefia:
This right actually.. coz I'm not thinking of tying the knot anytime soon.

Oshare seems you are back from holiday, longest time.

This is quite true to a Large extent, as it could have happened to me but a sweet heart saved me.

Am from a pieces home, broken is an understatement Dad threw us out 2006 for another married Yoruba witch.
I became aggressive, heartless and naturally hated anyone that dares show me over concern.
Until I met this sent from heaven sweetie in 2008.
She made me human again.
We got married in 2016 against all odds despite fights from non worthy role models(my parents).
Today we have 2 kids and I don't regret it.
Am 29 this year.

Neat concept mate

dollytino4real:
it makes dem harden

1000% true,especially when the child is very little and the mother distant herself from the child.in my case,i was less than 2yrs when shit happened.some women get mind sha.

morningstar55:

1000% true,especially when the child is very little and the mother distant herself from the child.in my case,i was less than 2yrs when shit happened.some women get mind sha.

man makes woman to be wicked my dear

Mine just taught me to be self dependent.
Cause at the long run I'll need myself when my spouse tries such shiit.