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Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by dingbang(m): 10:46pm On May 30, 2019 |
lefulefu:are you sure? :DThey still accept PMs and still date and still do a lot of wild things. No need to get money.. Just your flows ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by shevchenko(m): 10:46pm On May 30, 2019 |
[size=18pt]STOP WATCHING PORN[/size] |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:47pm On May 30, 2019 |
ledamaster:wetin we no go hear for nl again.so masturbation dey attract spirit wives .is it dat the spirit wives love peeping at d person masturbating or wat? cc offpoint1 and dingbang 4 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by funimages: 10:47pm On May 30, 2019 |
VicYo:Stop watching porn. That's all |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by tegafej(m): 10:47pm On May 30, 2019 |
Get a gf that really loves you and be open to her. Te her about it. Channel that sexual energy to her and also find an activity that is draining mentally. Work harder and above read about the Love of God for you. Read books on grace. Don't feel bad. You are not alone, a lot of people struggle with it. Research shows that 90% of guys masturbating. You will definitely over come it |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:48pm On May 30, 2019 |
shevchenko: You are wrong, what masturbation kills is it psychological part, You have seing soo much to d extent d real thing does not intrest you anymore. But the muscles shyt is just crap |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Adewhunmiiii(f): 10:48pm On May 30, 2019 |
Well, I don't get to post here but I choose to this night. The only way out of this problem is to PRAY to God. Incline your heart towards God, submit yourself totally to Him! The act you're engaged is nothing but a battle; a battle you have to win to shame the devil. If anyone says what you are doing isn't a sin, don't let that pacify you as it is a dangerous trap. You're a human with a conscience and you should be able to discern between good and evil. Fight against this evil by calling your creator before it gets out of hands. Cry, pray, beg for forgiveness. Be sincere while doing it. Be deliberate about it. I don't believe all the talks of be busy, read magazines, read books or whatsoever will help you. I pray for you from the depths of my heart that God will deliver you! May God open your eyes of understanding. God bless you. 8 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Firgemachar: 10:48pm On May 30, 2019 |
Satanic agents everywhere saying masturbation is okay should just be ignored. Masturbation is evil! 9 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:48pm On May 30, 2019 |
Good u have acknowledged God. Any time the thought to masturbation or lust in particular comes, replace it with thought of Love for God and love for fellow men. The best way to do that is to confess what Christs death did for u on Calvary thus: "Love has replaced lust in my Heart The love of God is shed abroad in my heart The yoke of sin and defeat is broken because of the anointing". Repeat the above several times a day, and if the thought of sin ever comes to ur heart. You may slip once, but be rest assured that you have the victory already, and u'll overcome in the end |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by franchasng: 10:49pm On May 30, 2019 |
99% or more of men masturbated while growing up, so you are not alone. What causes masturbation are: 1.) Loneliness resulting from being an introvert from childhood; future parents don't rejoice that your child is an introvert who doesn't go out, do u know what he or she does indoors when alone, most introverts form some dangerous habits indoors ![]() 2.) Loneliness creates void in the heart and this lead to seeking for ways to keep mind and soul busy, it leads to watching of porn or peeping of females/males taking bath for teenage boys and girls. How to stop masturbation ![]() Find solutions to above factors. It is not abnormal for a guy especially to masturbate as a teenager or young adult, but it becomes a problem when it turns to perpetual habit. Masturbation have good and bad effects. Solution 1: get a close sexual partner (girlfriend, wife, etc but Biblically get a wife if u are of marriageable age). Though some couple still help each other masturbate, yes it happens so getting a wife or girlfriend might not stop u from masturbation. I think for u to stop, rely more on your religion and religious doctrines and desire to please God, that alone is the only sure way to stop. You can't stop it by your own strength, sometimes u need divine help to overcome it and u won't even know how u did it or when. A poster said masturbation will make someone not to be rich, that's bullshyyyt!! Financial riches have no connection with masturbation or sex. If it does, 90% or more of rich people today will be very poor because most rich people have high sex libido! Most times a man's high sex libido pushes him to work extra hard and smart and that becomes a drive for him to become rich. Men that love very beautiful hot women have greater chances of becoming rich in life than men who prefer ugly or average ladies. Financial success in life depends on some factors, factors like: 1.) Destiny or fate or luck 2.) Preparation 3.) Timing 4.) Family background which also goes back to destiny 5.) Geographical location which also goes back to destiny 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Mozenge1: 10:49pm On May 30, 2019 |
KrazzyAndy: I have Gf and I still Masturbate 2 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by dingbang(m): 10:50pm On May 30, 2019 |
lefulefu: ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by tegafej(m): 10:50pm On May 30, 2019 |
ledamaster: Can you just stop all these talk of not getting rich? Pls... I know alot of people who struggle with masturbation and got amazing careers. You are even worsening the young man's case. It's an habit, just smoking, sniffing tobacco and gossiping. 5 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:50pm On May 30, 2019 |
dingbang: ![]() dingbang:ehn nl chicks can be wild in za oza room u mean? me be thinking they are as meek and innocent like mother theresa oo.me wey dey look for wild chick |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by dingbang(m): 10:51pm On May 30, 2019 |
lefulefu:dem full hia. Or wait.. Instagram ![]() |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 30, 2019 |
Mozenge1:she must be unattractive to yu then 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by xeros20(m): 10:51pm On May 30, 2019 |
Just make up your mind that you won't do it again, and give your life to Christ |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by TinyHacker: 10:52pm On May 30, 2019 |
Use this app called sober time |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:52pm On May 30, 2019 |
dingbang:aghhh forget instagram . the gehls for dere na for men like dem dino or ned nwoko. they are non subsidized. 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by PotatoSalad(m): 10:53pm On May 30, 2019 |
From experience, there are few things that helped me: I joined the NoFap community on Reddit. It's where people talk about no PMO, hardmode etc. The only way out of it is to talk about it with your fellow guys, 90% of guys beat their meat so don't feel shy about it. Discussing it with people makes you want to break the habit immediately. My story. I made a decision to stop, went for 10 days and came across a porn ad while browsing the internet and aww shii, here we go again. I beat the shii out of my meat that morning. It was so good and my load was massive ![]() Well, couldn't help it but beat my meat again that night then i promised myself not to relapse again and you know what? I went for 7 weeks straight. 7 good weeks!!! Then my body had a little break, I didn't relapse though. I had a wet dream that was literally insane. I came buckets ![]() Then i went for 5 months straight before another wet dream. Then 2 years. And today I'm free. I didn't say any prayers. It was a personal decision. Porn, staying alone, staying less busy gives you the urge to beat your meat. And it makes you objectify women which is not good. Start exercising more, take walks, when you have the urge to beat that meat, do pushups till you're tired or you can take a cold shower. Hang around females. There's are so many videos on NoFap on YouTube,you can check them out. Don't feel shy, acknowledging that you want to stop and making it a fun challenge is the only way to stop it. I got a girlfriend and we do abstain from sex for months at a time and when we do it, it felt like the heavens ![]() I'd cum for close to 30 seconds. River of goodness splattered everywhere Damn i miss that girl 13 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Offpoint1: 10:53pm On May 30, 2019 |
lefulefu:I tire for that guy, I read the bullcrap he wrote I began to wonder if he was drunk when typing it. Americans are chronic masturbators, but I've never had anything like spiritual husband/wife. I have never had them not achieving their full potentials. Bill Gate can't denied he never masturbated. That guy needs brain check, I wanted to call to check him... but I know as my daddy you'll be here before me ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by iso604: 10:54pm On May 30, 2019 |
TO STOP START THINKING ABOUT BUHARI REGIME YOU WILL BE ANGRY WITH YOURSELF WHILE YOU WERE BORN INTO THIS ZOO BY THEN YOU WILL HAVE THE MIND OF JARCKING 2 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by dingbang(m): 10:55pm On May 30, 2019 |
lefulefu:all na packaging. Trust me |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Lovelyn451(f): 10:55pm On May 30, 2019 |
Surround yourself with Godly people, people that are focused in life, people that have same goals with u, if you're a student, they should be your coursemates, by the time you see yourself falling while they're picking up, they're socialising u feel left out, they understand whatever is said while u understand minutes later, they speak with reasoning while u speak off point , they're confident but u can't even look someone eyeball to eyeball...no be person go tell u to stop maturbation by force... Prayer is good o, bt faith without work?? 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:55pm On May 30, 2019 |
VicYo: Guy your problem is too much free time, once real life hits you, you will be sooo busy to d extent that even sex will be considered a waste of time much less masturbation 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by candygist: 10:57pm On May 30, 2019 |
ledamaster: See them pastors. No be only spirit gathering. 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by franchasng: 10:57pm On May 30, 2019 |
tegafej:Don't mind that oversabinus talking thrash!! Financial success has nothing to do with sex or masturbation. There are millions of people in the world who haven't had sex or masturbated before yet they are very poor and broke while there are sex freaks, gays, transgender who are rich! Financial success has no connection with masturbation, that poster is talking bulcrap and deceiving people!!! Many Nigerians are broke and suffering because Nigerian past and present leaders are useless failures who failed Nigerians! It is bad government in Nigeria that destroyed Nigeria's economy and made people poor and wretched not sex, not masturbation! If you want to live a chaste life, do it because you want to or because you want to please your god or God or to abide by your religious doctrines not because u want to be financially rich because it won't work!! ![]() ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:58pm On May 30, 2019 |
VicYo: One avoid condemning yourself, yes because when you condemn yourself( the devils tool) this would tend to make you want to do more of it. Read the Bible because it has all the answer you need even about mastrubation. Delete Pornographic videos from any where around you and even if you want to watch a movie and you see them doing something that moves you, at least close your eyes and don't say I'm an adult. You're protecting your spirit and what you take into the mind goes right in, so guard your mind. The Bible says "as a man thinketh so is he" Pray in the morning, in the afternoon and in the night. Jesus is the only way to be saved. And lastly, enjoy your life and be joyful and do motley your mind condemn you when perhaps you mistakenly do it, just pick were you stopped and continue harder till the inordinate desire dissipates from you. God bless you and Jesus loves you so much. 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Merit7700: 10:58pm On May 30, 2019 |
Smokers are liable to die young |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by scrupulousblog: 10:59pm On May 30, 2019 |
ledamaster: You just hit the nail on the head. Masturbation makes you less human and reduces your interest in women by a large extent. |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by Nobody: 10:59pm On May 30, 2019 |
Offpoint1:make u no blame am nau.na wetin pastor tell am im dey relay 1 Like |
Re: I Masturbate And I Wish I Can Stop It by LabuleofNigeria: 10:59pm On May 30, 2019 |
[center]THE ONLY SOLUTION IS TO GET MARRIED BRO. ALL THESE ADVISES WOULD NEVER STOP MASTURBATION[/center] ![]() 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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