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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ramsey247(m): 3:10am On Jun 05, 2019 |
This one na nagging woman. I dnt see any thing that will push a man outside if the woman is cool. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by cococandy(f): 3:12am On Jun 05, 2019 |
You’re a mor0nic hypocrite Earthquake2: 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Originalsly: 3:13am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove: No doubt... your husband has disrespected you ... and making others do...in your home. Having a 4 month old makes it even worse. That's not normal for an African man...or any other man. Why would he be boasting of cheating?...and at the same time body shaming you? Real men don't do that period. I advise you not to be planning any violence against him nor his side chick...or you may serve time for such an offence. Next time she comes around... be polite... ask her if she knows his status?...HIV status..... if she says no... then tell her she needs to find out... that he himself may not even know...then end the conversation with....I know what talking about.m 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by trapQ: 3:15am On Jun 05, 2019 |
What if her husband is the devil you've been hearing about? There is room for forgiveness and even more room when that person is remorseful and apologize. kennygee: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:15am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Born2Breed: And the neighbour taking over, what does that have to do with her well being IF she decides to leave the foolish man The cheating is not even what is sickening It's his brazen foolishness and the fact that MANY Women think it is O.K. to be treated like $hit in that way. If he had "pretended" to be remorse or at least NOT disrespecting the wife after finding out, that would have been a different case.... But that brazen act of disrespect should not be tolerated by any woman at all. And the neighbour taking over will even be at her detriment because like it's said in Yoruba the cane dem use flog first wife is still available for service ![]() one day he will get tired of her And move to the next thing that freaks him 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:16am On Jun 05, 2019 |
trapQ: your second paragraph is precisely the point I'm making 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by LordofNaija: 3:18am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Woman went all out looking for evidence, she got what she was looking out for . If I catch my wife cheating, she's gone, in na she catch me too shae is gone na waoh 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:20am On Jun 05, 2019 |
ojkalito: you know the funny thing most of the people suggesting she prays and stay put and all that are WOMEN while many of us calling out the foolishness of the man are MEN LIKE US That should tell you something the way a lot of women have been conditioned (by their mothers and other women in the society) is very unfortunate the day women in general ditch such conditioning Men in general will have no choice than to respect them at least It's terrible 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:20am On Jun 05, 2019 |
LordofNaija: just imagine someone mindset ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:21am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Bbbwings:I'm surprised 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:22am On Jun 05, 2019 |
mustwork: it pained me too 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:26am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Frankiss44: more like people are no longer disciplined Gone are the days when it was a thing of pride to be chaste AS A MAN or WOMAN Gone are the days when women will rather not sleep around or men respect themselves and see a woman.who wants to lure him to bed as that dangerous woman the book of proverbs painted her to be... Now everyone is looking for thrills and their lack of discipline is destroying them and families... these days married women and men are messing themselves up... 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:28am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Frankiss44: That is one part the foolish man may not realize That pussy he is fvcking is EVERY ONES pussy 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by deltateam: 3:28am On Jun 05, 2019 |
JoannaSedley: This one leaves me speechless and quite dazed. Are men really this low. Who made her breast flat? Wasn't it him sharing baby's property? Anyway op was he like this before marriage? Is he a Muslim? Its only them that can make this statement of polygamy brazenly. Even at that it was poorly presented. What could he have told them for them to have guts to be coming into your house. As in flouting it in your face. I won't even be surprised if he has a 3 some on your matrimonial bed. What I see is a pig. I would advise you inform your Pastor, his family too and yours should be informed. I think you need to leave the house for now. I can't advise you to quit your marriage but don't take that decision for now. Wait to recover from the shock first. Get spiritual counsel from your Pastor, I assume you are a Christian. Remember he could infect you or have infected you with STD. Visit your doctor for medical assessment. I hope you are financially buoyant cos that may be why he disregards you. Seek legal counsel too. Good luck. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by trapQ: 3:29am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Mumu. Let your wife cheat on you with your neighbor and call you pot bellied so you can take your own advice and try to win her love back. Chiefochiefo: 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Born2Breed(f): 3:31am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Ugosample: Most men cheats, its in their nature but they can be easily tamed. Women who quit their marriages because of the dog mentality of most men,are not ready to stay married. What gives her the impression that her single motherhood or next marriage will fare better. Women must have the "we die here" mentality. Men are extremely jealous even if they pretend they aren't. There are things the OP (who doesn't needs advice) can do that will tame that man and take his cheating habit not only very far away but very discreet about it. He cheats with her neighbour and body shame her then she want to quit. Then making the man and the neighbour feel victorious. Who does that? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by opribo(m): 3:35am On Jun 05, 2019 |
First of all, let me apologise on his behalf. All I have to say is that some women will look sexy just to get married once married they careless about their looks. My own is that women must continuously look good and attractive so their spouses won't cheat. Btw, marriage is for matured minds and not for everybody. That man should have known never to date a neighbor for national peace. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by oluwamile(m): 3:38am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Boss13:very correct |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:43am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Born2Breed: It is the nature of HUMANS to crave multiple partners Just like other barbaric things that are in our nature but we CURB because we are higher animals Laws are put in place to curb the nature and instincts of man just so you know And it is social conditioning that has made it seem that it is okay to "cheat" / have multiple partners for a man, while it is frowned against for a woman..... such conditioning have given MEN today and in recent past the INCENTIVE to behave in such manner I don't want to go too deep into sociology /anthropology tho but those who understand do know that the instinct to act like animals are in us, as humans, and what makes us humans is the ability to TAME such nature and be disciplined /responsible That said.... A good number of men do... A good number Don't and will never do This may be disconcerting to you, but that is the truth A man who is given NO incentive to cheat will not same as women In cultures that do not shame women for their sexuality, or does not condition women the way women were conditioned in nigeria for instance, even in marriage many still play away matches and they are sexually liberal The point of this long story is that because the society (especially women) have created that conditioning for men / given them the incentive to cheat/behave in such manner, that is why they are doing so brazenly 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by APOPTOSIS: 3:45am On Jun 05, 2019 |
If this LADY'S QUESTION na EXAMINATION, more than 90 percent of the people that commented would have failed woefully. She clearly said she doesn't need any ADVICE, meanwhile 95% failed that part... ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by deltateam: 3:46am On Jun 05, 2019 |
SageMK: Thanks for that bro. I count myself out of his type of 'African man'. He's a pig. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:52am On Jun 05, 2019 |
opribo: This is what I often tell women around me tho this is me flipping the script When you get married to a man, you have signed up a responsibility to take care of his needs, he did same too And one of the top 5 needs of a man is SEX And when YOU do not cater to such need, or you don't see it as a priority (which btw a good number of women don t, hence that repulsive phrase "is sex food? " ) a man has needs and he is at greater risk of getting it elsewhere taking care of yourself to attract him to you in the way you can (Does not have to be Kim Kardashian perfection tho) to cater to his need is one of the duties of a wife It's like how women who don't get their emotional need catered to by theyr husband shift to their kids to cover that need (especially sons, and when such sons are about getting married, wahala sets in {troublemaker MIL ![]() But men do not have such advantage, we cannot be nacking our offspring I just think men and women in long term relationships (marriage id a form of long term relationship btw) should do all that can go cater to the needs of their spouse And on a side note @opribo I read of a woman who said she "outsourced" her responsibility to third party (Oyibo people and bizarre life ![]() since according to her she cannot fill in the gap, her husband is free to be one of these sex tourists who go to Thailand to attend to his needs As long as its that far away I was likr ![]() ![]() but if that works for them, why not? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 3:53am On Jun 05, 2019 |
APOPTOSIS: many of us still dropped the advice because we know she is talking out of anger when body cool down sensibilities will return 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Stevecyes(m): 4:08am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Nice piece there. quote author=kennygee post=79013719]Dear woman, I can imagine the emotional and psychological pain you're going thru, however, making a decision right now might not be wise cause it will be an emotional one. Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter. Start working out the little way you can, start dressing really nice, so nice you'll get compliments outside. It will improve your self esteem, wear make up, smell nice. It might not stop him from cheating but it will build up your self esteem and confidence so much that you'll see you're not the problem. You'll be in a better place to decide if you want to stay with him or leave. All the best. I hope you have a job or a business sha? Cause the best security a woman can have is her own money.[/quote] |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Stevecyes(m): 4:09am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Nice piece there. quote author=kennygee post=79013719]Dear woman, I can imagine the emotional and psychological pain you're going thru, however, making a decision right now might not be wise cause it will be an emotional one. Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter. Start working out the little way you can, start dressing really nice, so nice you'll get compliments outside. It will improve your self esteem, wear make up, smell nice. It might not stop him from cheating but it will build up your self esteem and confidence so much that you'll see you're not the problem. You'll be in a better place to decide if you want to stay with him or leave. All the best. I hope you have a job or a business sha? Cause the best security a woman can have is her own money.[/quote][color=#990000][/color] Nice piece |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by mrchineke: 4:11am On Jun 05, 2019 |
CHoccolaTE: Psycho!!! Come and marry me and see.......you will eat more than my poo by the time I finish with you. And you dey advise person, bitter bitter Bshh. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Needtolove: 4:12am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Thank you all for your kind words, I am putting myself together piece by piece and saving up gradually. Still at the house because of my baby. I will wait it out, but am planning my exit. I won't do anything that will land me in trouble because of my baby. Learning to be selfish too. 9 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Needtolove: 4:17am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Stevecyes:thank you, I have a job. In the past I prayed for him but my patience ran out so I stopped. Still don't feel like. I am the only one that matters now |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Lovelyn451(f): 4:21am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Men why ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by rayobaba(m): 4:25am On Jun 05, 2019 |
I know uv read many comments. Mine is......don't react or do anything now. Ignore what's happening. It is hard tho. But l repeat DO NOTHING NOW. Patience will lead u right. So u won't av to say 'had l know' |
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