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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Emyjeze(m): 6:30am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Family matter.... Not my concern
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by robinsoncrosoe: 6:32am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Ugosample:Yes u may be right too. But I want u to understand that women cause 70% of their problems most of the time They always go for flashy things and forget all that glitters are not gold Let me give u an example When I was in medical school, some of my class gals had guys that was dying to marry them when they finished school.but they didn't want those regular guys.they wanted people overseas.it was like a competition. Like they all wanted their husbands to be Americana.if u understand me.they started leaving the guys they were with and started marrying people from America and Europe they barely knew Tomorrow,same people will come and tell us their husbands cheated and was not remorseful 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 6:34am On Jun 05, 2019 |
robinsoncrosoe: I get your point I was once a uni student too... Besides the biggest enemy to a lot of women today is HYPERGAMY it was useful back in the day but in the 21st century it is a HANDICAP.... just saying |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Olakinsdotcom(m): 6:35am On Jun 05, 2019 |
@op...please don't leave him for the sake of your kid,Before you quit make an effort don't just be a loser to that useless girl. my advice... 1.Have faith in God(prayer) 2.Be dressing nice and don't be dirty forget about be a nursing mother. 3.Work on your self(sex,romance,care,etc) 4.Talk to any of his family or friends(good one pls) let him know the implication of what his doing and how you are feeling. Lastly...please be very careful and watchful of him and the neighbor they can kill or harm. Note:This is part of marriage challenges and by the grace of God you will surely overcome it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Carlmax(m): 6:35am On Jun 05, 2019 |
A four month baby and the baga is cheating to your face and even body shaming you... Madam I am an advocate of divorce, better leave d idiat and please do whatever you can to get your pound of flesh (no killing involved Sha) |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by PapaAdanna: 6:36am On Jun 05, 2019 |
If this is really what he said He no even apologise I am thinking he is from a particular tribe, we all know them. They only people that brag in polygamy Haunty biko kick his ass and concentrate and build up ur life and little child's . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Nobody: 6:38am On Jun 05, 2019 |
breakerofchains: Temporary separation...she should move out Yes for now...But keep her kneels on the ground for him...There battles in every man's life, so advising a person to run away from his battles are not right. She should stay away, get busy and focus on other things but should see this as her prayer point....Simple... This approach of everything divorce is not and will never be a solution...You people seem to forget the children suffers for this divorce. Separation comes first and in event, there is no repentance, then divorce can be considered. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Carlmax(m): 6:39am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Olakinsdotcom: How can I downvote this.... Shey d man get six packs ni, someone is a victim and all you can talk about is dressing nice and not being dirty... Walahi women dey suffer ooo. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ridbell01(m): 6:44am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Madam I beg on you don't do anything stupid if you don't want the marriage again just walk out |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by toprealman: 6:47am On Jun 05, 2019 |
This African man thing is sickening. Same guy will literally kill you if he finds out that another brother is "charging your phone"! Hit the gym, dress well..... socialise, do your thing! |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Skmoda360(m): 6:49am On Jun 05, 2019 |
sisisioge:Unless she knew where those documents are kept...he might not give her an hint and truly, husband's like this always keep secrets from their wives... |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by BluntBoy(m): 6:49am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove: OK, I have a few questions. 1. When did the body shaming start? Were there traces of it before the marriage? 2. Do you have anger issues? Have you taken an anger issue test before? 3. What do you intend to do when you wrote that they will both get it I am after the solution rather that complicating it. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by rafindo(m): 6:50am On Jun 05, 2019 |
When you were persuading him to pay your bride price ,you didn't know it comes with the mentality that he owns you and can do whatever he wants. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by GOFRONT(m): 6:50am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Na so I catch Papa precious dey cheat on Mama Precious with Sarah for my Area.....Some House wives dey suffer |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Skmoda360(m): 6:51am On Jun 05, 2019 |
I think the best revenge is to hit the gym and get your shape back. trust me, he will rethink again and this will boost your self confidence....you shape might make you look ugly but I doubt if you are ugly... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Ugosample(m): 6:53am On Jun 05, 2019 |
ejibaba: the father of the child should have thought about that too... why does it always have to be the women struggling fighting and praying and miserable trying to save marriage ? It baffles me that women who are even the ones who get the short end of the stick largely support this Fvckery 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by banio: 6:56am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove: Just walk away and divorce him like you said. Trying to hurt them might hurt you more. But naturally your husband will receive his pay cheque. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Skmoda360(m): 6:57am On Jun 05, 2019 |
PapaAdanna:To think you are a fool is an understatement but you are just a bigot who can't think except diverting his talk towards another tribe......you are typical example of a dimwit ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Greatfullheart: 6:58am On Jun 05, 2019 |
i would've told you to cheat on him back to teach him a lesson. for the mean time.
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by mexioni(m): 7:02am On Jun 05, 2019 |
The sad thing is almost everyone cheats, u had to dig deep and comfirmed ur suspicions. I pray God helps you out. My advice to everyone male or female don't look for what you cant handle. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by DedeNkem: 7:02am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove: Your husband doesn't love you. He's an idiot! Your plan to end the marraige is great. When he is out, pack your stuff and run with your baby. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by akiOYIBO: 7:02am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Needtolove:pls my dear, if by any reason u wish to rather pray to God for your marriage ordeal. Just leave the house first, pls pls pls leave the house. After leaving, then u can pray till eternity |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ikennahillary: 7:08am On Jun 05, 2019 |
trapQ: Well, the truth remains that she never mentioned they had church wedding, even if they did, it still does not legally stop the man from having another wife. I know lot of families that are happy with 2-3 wivies leaving together. To be candy ladies should ease there pain and move on if the situation become so difficult to contain,instend of causing body damage on there husband or competitor. This is not as complicated as we make it look. Let her just be easy when taken discussions, it's either going to make or break you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by ikennahillary: 7:10am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Ugosample: Madam am not, just a realist and by the way what's wrong with been a polygamist. |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by nwosu1982: 7:11am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Pray for him if you can bcuz many side chicks can use JUJU ( Black Magic) to be controlling someone's husband . We can't tell if the lady in question used juju for him to be misbehaving to this extent. While praying, U can equally leave the house for him to avoid him harming you . God will protect and bless you as you do so |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by sahm4u2nv(m): 7:11am On Jun 05, 2019 |
I wish you well with whatever step you take
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Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Chiefochiefo(m): 7:16am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Sanchez01:You well? |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by sod09(m): 7:16am On Jun 05, 2019 |
ibkayee:this is a one sided story what if the husband come with a different one, why do we judge so easily 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Chiefochiefo(m): 7:21am On Jun 05, 2019 |
trapQ:Ewu |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Oddyjoyce: 7:21am On Jun 05, 2019 |
merahki: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Gforce2019: 7:23am On Jun 05, 2019 |
Marriage no be by force o. The marriage is Still young , while all these issues? if you are not convinced about the person you are joining yourself to, abeg no marry him/her. I dey enjoy my single life at 42 yet no fornication...no stress. Though I be born again o! No take yourself compare me o if you no fear God. You that you are living a worldly life, no take yourself compare me o! We are different o.... |
Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Preator: 7:26am On Jun 05, 2019 |
kennygee: @Op. This is probably the best advise u can get here. I am a man and I am a husband. Men are naturally enticed by what they see. But real men are able to control their wandering lust. Its a pity ur husband can't. However, It is not ur job to pray that lust out of his life. You can dress anyway u like. Its ur body and not anyone's property. BUT if u want to stay married and have a stable home or a semblance of one for ur kids, you have to make those things ur business. You must dress to impress and u must pray for him and u shud get fit both for him and ursef. I married a shy woman who believed sex shud be in a certain way(a won 'deeper life" style). I told her that a man can have sex with a single woman in different ways for many years to come without the passion waning. Or he can have sex with different women in d same way. Essentially, men crave variety and u shud find a way of spicing things up. It takes time to overule our religious and social conditioning but u shud give it a go. And at four months, u shud be able to have sex unless ur doctor advise otherwise. The painful thing is that most women let go after marriage especially those who do not work in corporate settings. Please change if u are one. Now, I am going to get bashed for this advise, but I won't mind cos those who are going to do so are not married or haven't been for long, have a long list of broken relationship/marriage behind them or are just naive. I pray things work out for u. |
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