nwanneni:
where did I say I keep meeting bad women?
You were quick to jump to hasty conclusions.

Acidosis:


Lol


You want to build your marriage on logic?

Raalsalghul:
This has been a fact since 1902! Only a naive person will disagree. Reason I'm not so keen on marriage.

Acidosis:


Lol


You want to build your marriage on logic?

Thegamingorca:



It will be less boring that way.


Religion tends to give room for cheats to thrive in hopes that Deyll seek forgiveness and all will be forgotten

AntiBrutus:


"We ain't married because the so called independent women we keep meeting perhaps might turn out to be a ticking time bomb,the ones who will come to our houses to start competing with us,rather than contributing for our better tomorrow".

ibkayee:

AntiBrutus:


Fairness, common sense and love.

Something that exists/existed and can exist without that book you all quote.

Acidosis:



@nwanneni

This summarizes the response to your previous post. Check very well, many women did not marry for the sake of love. It's largely about the available with better financial security. When that security starts 'failing' or when they realize they can actually make that money they love so much, they unleash the demon within. The man becomes somewhat useless.

Thegamingorca:



It will be less boring that way.


Religion tends to give room for cheats to thrive in hopes that Deyll seek forgiveness and all will be forgotten

tabithababy:
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Good for the foolish wife

Acidosis:


You mean love tends to give room for cheats to thrive..?

I've never encouraged anyone to put religion first. Love comes first for me.

I'm marrying for love and nothing more. Never will I be an option or a means to an end to anybody.

AntiBrutus:


Fairness, common sense and love.

Something that exists/existed and can exist without that book you all quote.

Acidosis:


Lmao! But when you were dating that school boy, you placed love first and enjoyed every bit of it? Why commonsense now that you want a lifetime affair?

Acidosis:


Lmao! But when you were dating that school boy, you placed love first and enjoyed every bit of it? Why commonsense now that you want a lifetime affair?

ornicus:


and common/shared interests.


anyway i guess most nigerians have them - church/mosque

ornicus:


it goes both ways. the man is also marrying his personal subject who he expects to worship him and be absolutely useless without his divine guidance.

nwanneni:

Don't be so sure.las las na you go buy that house,provide security and send those kids to med school
You still lose nigga

AntiBrutus:



I am asking based on what you religious hypocrites keep quoting. Do I look like I do all that religious hullabaloo?

Now, lets imagine I used to, I probably did till I went to church and you told me to SUBMIT. That is what you should be addressing,, not this plenty talk.

Acidosis:


You raised the religious thing, remember? And what is wrong with submission? You can't love and submit to the man in your life?

Acidosis:


Lmao!

Acidosis:


Let's assume all you've said is true, at what stage does a man unleash the demon within? The day he realizes he can cook and take care of a baby?

Have you seen men insult their wives because they suddenly realize they can cook and take care of the home?

AntiBrutus:


Was I commanded to love and submit?

I raised it because you like quoting bible. Why don't you wanna quote it again?

Can you love and submit to the woman in your life?

ornicus:


all you have said is that the place of women in this world is to cook and keep house.

cooking and keeping house do not translate to dependency . cooking and cleaning house can be outsourced.

the change is not about domestic chores

it is the same thing - money.

let the man get more money and that wife will become a hidden first wife faster than you can say jack robinson

Acidosis:


Two people cannot submit to each other, technically speaking. Someone must take the lead. Besides, na man dey marry woman put for house. If you want me to submit to you, come and marry me in my father's house.

nwanneni:
exactly!
That is why I always say;
NWOKE,JEE CHUBA EGO!!!
If that man now start to make good money,this op weh dey contemplate go stop to contemplate with speed!
Later they will say a man's money isn't important.
Talk about FALSE STANDARDS.
Any man that is made to believe his money isn't important by any woman is a fool.
The moment it starts to go down nwanne,nsogbu di
*Spits

Acidosis:


Two people cannot submit to each other, technically speaking. Someone must take the lead. Besides, na man dey marry woman put for house. If you want me to submit to you, come and marry me in my father's house.

AntiBrutus:


Why are you shying away from quoting your favourite bible verse bikonu?

I will ask again, WAS I INSTRUCTED TO LOVE AND SUBMIT TO MY HUSBAND?

Just say Yes or No. Is it that hard?

Acidosis:



AntiBrutus, you need to understand how the Bible works. Change your twisted perception of the Bible and you would see the texts are in your favour.

Submission is hard for those who marry for other reasons but true love. You can't be in love and say you won't/can't submit.

Fall in love first, and we can start talking.

ornicus:


you don't get what i'm saying.

ned nwoke - who is his first wife? a large number of nigerian big men - those fine women they are parading are not their first wives. they hit money, and the first , unsexy non trophy wife is hidden away.

ornicus:


so what happens if you are both sharing the rent?