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Re: Plans changed. by Thegamingorca(m): 1:37pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: How equivocal can you get? |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
ornicus:since when did men and women start sharing rents and utility? Let's be realistic please |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 1:40pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: ![]() I think most people want to eat their cake and have it. And women should seek men who have high self esteem. It is extremely important. 5 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Thegamingorca(m): 1:41pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Lol |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 1:42pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
ornicus: Luckily you see it from both angles. |
Re: Plans changed. by Thegamingorca(m): 1:42pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: Rubbish 2 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 1:44pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Brutus Brutus ![]() ![]() |
Re: Plans changed. by Thegamingorca(m): 1:44pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: Is the man excluded from falling in this your love? |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 1:46pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: If you guys want to be honest, you will more that a large number of men maltreat and control their wives when they (the husbands) are the sole/major providers. The wives learnt from the husbands. 7 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Richy4(m): 1:47pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nahzyla: It's Not a matter of saying your marriage with not crash in Jesus name... A prayer without work is dead..... I don't basically know about how grounded you were in Literature back then in high school... But a lot of us can read between the line...even if it was two paragraphs... Don't let the billion u think that u will be making for a month get to your head.. Marriage is about team work.. I'm not gonna say anymore on your thread because I kind of think enough has been said. |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
bukatyne:another scam! Like say self esteem dey buy house ![]() ![]() ![]() It's not esteem y'all look for but security. And security=$$$$ Why una no dey gree marry boys for ghetto with plenty self esteem ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: i was actually thinking of nigerians relocating to canada a lot of them will share bill by force lets see what happens then nwanneni: for where? our ex-milads are a classic example. ibb, abacha , etal. noe of those women are their first wives. if i'm not mistaken, dangote is divorced from his first wife. polygamy is a live and well, and people know the right Quranic or biblical verses to whip out. in the same way, those small small concubines are sharper than you think. before you know wats happening, they have usurped madams role.it is not that hard, just fk the man's brains out. No man likes the stress of going after small,dirty women if the love of his life decides to keep herself like how she was when Mr sweetboy fell in love with her. that goes both ways. is the man in the shape he was when he met her? unless you are wealthy and can engage in athleisure, not everyone [man or woman] can keep in prisitine shape. |
Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 1:48pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis:So (genuinely) loving your husband and not being submissive are mutually exclusive? 4 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 1:50pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
sacx: @bold: Words on marble |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
bukatyne:Personally,I won't marry a housewife. You earn yours,I earn mine,let peace reign. That is all we ask,no be say make you come dey tell us say you be "agu nwanyi" na. |
Re: Plans changed. by liberalchick(f): 1:54pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 1:57pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: I know this was on the basis that women throw caution to the wind because they earn. Your next question should be 'do women maltreat men because they can cook and take care of the home'? You know the answer innit? 2 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Omoluabi16(m): 1:58pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Nahzyla, even if you share the safe office desk with your husband, an irresponsible man will still cheat. The talk of him cheating because you were not there is a very silly excuse some randy men use. I'd advise you take the job and move your children along with you.Opportunities are rare these days, so don't limit yourself. Since your husband's job is off and on, considering close proximity (JUST 3 hours), he can be with you and the kids in his off days. Maintain your humility still and don't bruise his ego..and even if you leave make sure you do with his blessings.Who knows, he might get a job there? P.s...Your use of the word PERMANENT and thoughts of your husband VISITING ..e get as e be. 3 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 1:58pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
liberalchick:Lool for the stars, what a joke ![]() |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
ornicus:Canada and Nigeria I believe are two different places with two different people. You know different people,different ideas. Besides,we all know making money in Canada isn't as hard as in Nigeria so the tendency to spend money is there.you know the better the income,the higher the expense. I am not religious too,it is the dumbest thing that I think exist on the planet so I never use words from ancient goat herders to make any serious decision. If women learn to keep that spark my bro,80% of men won't think of cheating,I leading the pack! I will love my wife,praise her amongst friends and family,holiday with her,play with her,pamper her,buy her benz ![]() Polygamy is nonsense IMO |
Re: Plans changed. by liberalchick(f): 2:03pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Exactly! My father always told us girls “there is nothing like a free lunch” “nothing is free in life” AntiBrutus: |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 2:04pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: Well, What works for the women you have met necessarily doesn't apply to all women. Money is such a transient value to build your self esteem on and that's why a lot of men are only as good as their money. I wanted a husband who was thoughtful, kind, loves me, has a great deal of self-esteem and provide me with things that I can't for myself. In all five pages of this thread, all you seem able to provide is money, money, money. If money was all there is, the Dangotes of this world would not be divorced. 3 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by liberalchick(f): 2:05pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Most rational people without an agenda already inferred from your posts that the title meant “should I leave and take the job in another state” nahzyla: 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 2:05pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: Are you in this Nigeria so? 2 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 2:07pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
ibkayee: absolutely! |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 2:07pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: What's 'agu nwanyi'? You want to wife to work although not provide. Do you realize that she will require you to be hands on at home because she works outside? 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 2:08pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
bukatyne: How about we ask; do men maltreat women because they learnt how to cook and take care of the home? |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 2:11pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: My question would give you the answer you seek. Have you seen a wife who thinks she is better than her husband or seeks to control her husband because she cooks and cleans? |
Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 2:14pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis:According to who/what? |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
bukatyne:lioness.. And this is what they do; -Sharing chores with me dey give me work.today na me dey wash plate,mop floor and kitchen.I no go do am. Make the house better turn refuse dump!I don't care. I can help out in emergencies and move heavy furniture,no p. -giving ultimatum.she is wasting her time because I will make sure I break that ultimatum as much as possible make that thing web she go do happen. There are better ways to pass messages -insults,abuses(verbal and/or physical) This one drives me nuts -competition.me and she no dey compete na,its a union. -Outrageous demands Those are some things agu nwanyis do |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
bukatyne:yes,I am in Nigeria. Where men and women don't share rents! |
Re: Plans changed. by bukatyne(f): 2:20pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: OH, you expect her to work and still handle the chores alone? I will agree with you that presentation is key. 1 Like |
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