Op you dey try oo, Una still dey communicate. I don't understand what gives some girls the mind to ask for money with easy.

I have made up my own mind not to help most young Nigerian girls again(especially students)except we are dating. They look us like fools for helping them and feel entitled to everything. Help her and she'll automatically think that she has outsmarted you. You'll be lucky if she even remember to thank you afterwards and know that she's doing this same thing to many other guys too. I wish you knew the silly things they call us behind our backs after helping them. They never appreciate. Help the needy around you, not some girls toying with your emotions.

Davash222:
You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

lol. In fact he is the major problem.

She turned you down 4yrs ago!! 4 years ago!! She probably had her reasons or were you expecting her to date you if she didn't have feelings?! . Now you've still been communicating with her as friends right?, Help her as a friend if you can but the fact you brought this to nairaland says a lot!. Still pained after 4years?!
Why are we guys scared to help out ladies in order not to be seen as mugu?. It's a one time thing, it's not like you're going to become her father and provider. Has she ever demanded anything from you before now in the 4yrs of communication?

Why not if you can. Please go.ahead and watch God bless you more.

lilmax:
take that money to any orphanage or hospital

its better there

I don't think that girl really needs money

You are wise

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

No,she should go to the person that have been farming and harvesting under her leg for the pass 4years...mid you give her the money eh...you are not my friend again.

J111333:
Yes help her of course and ask if you can help her entire class mates too.

You were not good for a boyfriend but you're very good for a helpmate after all, God blesses a cheerful giver.

Well said

please i still haven't found my dog!

Help her with what you can comfortably help with. This life is funny... you never know when you may need her. She’s still your friend even though you are not dating. Why stick around her if you are so bitter?

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you you were in my shoes will you help her

Op go ahead and help her out, then you can get closure to your being turned down year back by politely asking her why she refused you....you never can say her response might be useful to you going forward.

Apeshy101:

Op she turned you down because of your grammar


Talking about helping her, if you have the money and you are willing to partway with any amount, then help her, it's no biggie.


Everyone must not be in a relationship with you. What if she was in a happy relationship before you stepped into the picture?

Then the happy relationship should pay.. Lol, if he's grammar wasn't good for dating, it shouldn't be good for paying

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Bros give am the money, you pass her.
But let her know you won’t be doing again because she might want to make it a regular.

Yes

It's your choice.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Do not give her any money and why are you still talking to her? You're exposing yourself to exploitation.

If you like give her the money and come here to cry later that she still refused to date you.

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

me no

Not every Lady you ask out will agree to date u, if u have the money give her


I would rather give a Lady that turned down my advances money than giving an ex who cheated on me

Nooooooooo!!!!

No help her since she no wan date you like her go to the person she is dating now let the guy do the needful for me I will not help

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

God says you should pay evil with good... helping someone should be selfless...with stringe attached.

Help if you want help joor without expecting anything in return

Hey nigga no dey listen to most of advices here o... The world especially naija don dey full of principalities,wicked people and so on.. So we go just dey wicked each other dey go.. My advice to u make sure u 4k her pussy tire out of her body b4 u give her anything so she no go dey use u form boss and start to dey call u maga,mugu n so on.. Make ur own maga no pay dey make me to yarn u dis.. Nigerian girls get craze gan o

Guy, u wicked Sha o. Can't u just help the needy? Abeg send the babe 500 naira, that one will do her. And God will still bless u

Was on this boat last month. She gave me 62 missed calls, I'm not kidding

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

You dont knw why she turned you down but i'll advise you give her to prove you're over her already it'll make her humble

Plus it boost your maturity sense

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Do you want to be the mumu topping her up financially, while she was stingy with her emotional gifts............

I love the way you think. Keep it up. Elite thinking.

2dice01:
Yes if he has

If dangote ex ask him for money
If he dash the ex 1million will it affect him

kinghopex:
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

give her without expecting anything, her mind and conscience would go to war, n moreover, no be must say make she gree for you, na her palava now not yours

tfash96:
Hey nigga no dey listen to most of advices here o... The world especially naija don dey full of principalities,wicked people and so on.. So we go just dey wicked each other dey go.. My advice to u make sure u 4k her pussy tire out of her body b4 u give her anything so she no go dey use u form boss and start to dey call u maga,mugu n so on.. Make ur own maga no pay dey make me to yarn u dis.. Nigerian girls get craze gan o