| Re: Am Loosing It by Biglittlelois(f): 10:14pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:
It's possible you take over from the gf. Anything is possible Yeah she becomes the gf, then he gets a side chick, he then upgrades her to gf, and the circle continues, not a good advice. 1 Like |
| Re: Am Loosing It by Rachael30: 11:52pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Teaveapoet:
Put your happiness first before others. Am not judging but you need to love yourself. Stop seeking to please someone who has someone else.
Stop communicating okay!
If you don't want to be a side chick, don't do what side chicks does. Sure will stop communicating. 1 Like |
| Re: Am Loosing It by Rachael30: 11:54pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
liberalchick:
I would assume ‘good’ is girlfriend. Once a guy lets you know he has GF, that’s a hint he is not really that into you.
You knew he had a girlfriend, you don’t go into a situationship with someone that is not single hoping you would be good enough to make him leave his GF. It seems he is in a long distance relationship with his GF and you are available. If you want to be his GF, and not a side-chick, stop having sex with him and tell him to breakup with his GF if he really loves you, then take a break from him. If he wants you then he would do the above. If he doesn’t then just cut your losses and next time make sure a guy is single before your proceed if you don’t want to be a side chick.
Alright, thanks for the advice
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| Re: Am Loosing It by Rachael30: 11:55pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
[quote author=Rachael30 post=79243763][/quote]Thanks for the advice |
| Re: Am Loosing It by Nobody: 3:30am On Jun 12, 2019 |
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| Re: Am Loosing It by doris4u(f): 9:46pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
Rachael30:
Hello fellows am new here on nairaland. I have issues at hand. I met a guy who made it known to me that he had a good when I asked him, I was not bothered because I wasn't interested then. We became good friends , he helped me out in so many things.
Along the line he said he had feelings for me, by then I have started liking him .one thing led to the other we are already having sex even though he says he hardly see his gf due to issues they have which I hardly believe.
I don't want to be a side chick to anyone , wat do I do because I don't know how to kill my feelings for him and don't want to be hurt at the end. Try and forget the guy , he would regret his actions |
| Re: Am Loosing It by doris4u(f): 9:47pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
liberalchick:
I would assume ‘good’ is girlfriend. Once a guy lets you know he has GF, that’s a hint he is not really that into you.
You knew he had a girlfriend, you don’t go into a situationship with someone that is not single hoping you would be good enough to make him leave his GF. It seems he is in a long distance relationship with his GF and you are available. If you want to be his GF, and not a side-chick, stop having sex with him and tell him to breakup with his GF if he really loves you, then take a break from him. If he wants you then he would do the above. If he doesn’t then just cut your losses and next time make sure a guy is single before your proceed if you don’t want to be a side chick.
Good idea
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| Re: Am Loosing It by Funkyswagzz(m): 9:58pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
My dear u knw this won't end well. I guess u r looking for an answer and when u get it den u will knw wat to do.. gudluck to u  1 Like |
| Re: Am Loosing It by FunnyDude(m): 12:00am On Jun 15, 2019 |
The guy will keep fukin op forever so far they both keep calling or seeing themselves, he knows the key to her emotions.
I've been there.
Trust me. 1 Like |
| Re: Am Loosing It by Rachael30: 1:02pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
liberalchick:
I would assume ‘good’ is girlfriend. Once a guy lets you know he has GF, that’s a hint he is not really that into you.
You knew he had a girlfriend, you don’t go into a situationship with someone that is not single hoping you would be good enough to make him leave his GF. It seems he is in a long distance relationship with his GF and you are available. If you want to be his GF, and not a side-chick, stop having sex with him and tell him to breakup with his GF if he really loves you, then take a break from him. If he wants you then he would do the above. If he doesn’t then just cut your losses and next time make sure a guy is single before your proceed if you don’t want to be a side chick.
I told him to break up with his gf, he said he is still with her for now that he is in an unstable relationship but his feelings for me are real and that he never lied to me that I should try and be patient with him. He also said he knows I want more and he wants us to be together. |
| Re: Am Loosing It by liberalchick(f): 3:05pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Tell him ok, that he should give you space to sort out this unstable relationship with him. Tell him he knows where to find you when he has sorted out his feelings, tell him what will be, will be. Do not contact him or reach out to him, I know you are in love but you have to be in self preservation mode. If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, your emotions and time will be for naught. Focus on yourself, work on yourself, focus on your career/business, meet people. It will be hard in the beginning but time really heals. Please don’t waste your time on someone that may or may not love you. Rachael30:
I told him to break up with his gf, he said he is still with her for now that he is in an unstable relationship but his feelings for me are real and that he never lied to me that I should try and be patient with him.
He also said he knows I want more and he wants us to be together. 4 Likes |
| Re: Am Loosing It by SomehowBROWN(m): 3:13pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Stay away or make peace with it 1 Like |
| Re: Am Loosing It by Rachael30: 7:27pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
liberalchick:
Tell him ok, that he should give you space to sort out this unstable relationship with him. Tell him he knows where to find you when he has sorted out his feelings, tell him what will be, will be.
Do not contact him or reach out to him, I know you are in love but you have to be in self preservation mode. If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, your emotions and time will be for naught. Focus on yourself, work on yourself, focus on your career/business, meet people. It will be hard in the beginning but time really heals. Please don’t waste your time on someone that may or may not love you.
Thanks for d advice |
| Re: Am Loosing It by Avast(m): 7:42pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
liberalchick:
Tell him ok, that he should give you space to sort out this unstable relationship with him. Tell him he knows where to find you when he has sorted out his feelings, tell him what will be, will be.
Do not contact him or reach out to him, I know you are in love but you have to be in self preservation mode. If he decides to stay with his girlfriend, your emotions and time will be for naught. Focus on yourself, work on yourself, focus on your career/business, meet people. It will be hard in the beginning but time really heals. Please don’t waste your time on someone that may or may not love you.
Rachael make sure you copy this and save in your everyday todo list, so that you will be reading it every morning. Never again have sex with any guy that is in another relationship. You will be fine if you can follow Liberalchick advice. Stay blessed 2 Likes |
| Re: Am Loosing It by immaculate1234(m): 8:01pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Safitu:
He will never respect you
He will never make you his gf, and if he does he will treat you badly
Cut all ties with him or it will end up really bad for you.
Never have sex with a man who is not your confirmed partner, have some respect for yourself please. Sense will not comma kee u. You hit the right spot nice one |
