id4sho:
Good NeWS for leeches.
Dem say weaker vessel,
Cunning vessel ni! Deceptive vessel ko!

Charmingrascal:
Truly a man with no stable source of income should not think of marriage

czarina:
World War III will happen on this thread. That's for sure.


May the best men and women win.


Virgoquin, been a second! Hawayu ma'am?

SageMK:


What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.

benratigan3:



u deserve a bottle of hero beer.
talk like this puts men in unwarranted pressure. our boys are into vices to meet up with women's demands.........

BTW no scriptural reference to bishop claims

newsman101:
The Senior Pastor of the Living Faith Church, Bishop David Abioye, has advised women against settling for men with no financial commitment.

While delivering his sermon in his church recently, the clergyman stressed the importance of finances in a relationship. Speaking specifically to single women, the clergyman said


''Any man who doesn't show commitment financially is not safe for you to marry''.

According to him, any woman who settles for a man with no financial commitment will end up being the one paying for the house rent, school fees and other very important things, once they get married.

Watch a video of him speaking below>>>

https://lailasnews.com/any-man-who-doesnt-show-commitment-financially-is-not-safe-for-you-to-marry-bishop-abioye-advises-women-video/

Daeylar:
Team independent women. / Team women are gold-diggers won't like this.


Please ask him Also ask if it means both husband and wife must submit to each other if both contribute to the finances in the home?
Typical Nigerian man.
Always looking for who will submit to them. Smh.
Ask them to submit and they'll act like you've said something evil to them, but they'll be looking for who to submit.

virgoquin:


I am fine dear


Are you going to supply nuclear bomb for the war

Or you will be officiating it

luminouz:

You have a point but I don't think that's what Pastor Abioye is saying...A man must be ready to take care of his family by providing for them,that provision is key and the commitment he is talking of...
Of course your wife can help you in any and all ways, so long she knows you try your best to provide.
U feel me?

SageMK:


What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.

BluntBoy:


Abioye's advice is misleading. I would like to read the advice in full. But for that part that I read, it is bad advice.

For one thing, any man can show commitments financially just to get what he wants. It is one major reason why people lament "He/she didn't use to be like this before marriage. He/she has changed". A man showing financial commitments before marriage does not mean that he would foot bills during the marriage. Some men can go to Jupiter and back just to impress a lady. Wait until they finally marry her. Many things happen to commitments during marriages. And it is not necessarily due to the diminishing of love.

I think it is time pastors stopped dabbling into deeper/relative aspects of relationships. They should rather emphasize mutual love and respect which is exactly what the Bible emphasizes.

Joromi12:
a woman at 33 rich and stable shud keep waiting for her prince abi. When she can love-vendor the office driver

Lamasta:
Correct no argument in that. Go and have a stable income before You think of marriage

czarina:
Good to know.


Nah, not doing any of those. I'll just stand on the sidelines.

newsman101:
The Senior Pastor of the Living Faith Church, Bishop David Abioye, has advised women against settling for men with no financial commitment.

While delivering his sermon in his church recently, the clergyman stressed the importance of finances in a relationship. Speaking specifically to single women, the clergyman said


''Any man who doesn't show commitment financially is not safe for you to marry''.

According to him, any woman who settles for a man with no financial commitment will end up being the one paying for the house rent, school fees and other very important things, once they get married.

Watch a video of him speaking below>>>

https://lailasnews.com/any-man-who-doesnt-show-commitment-financially-is-not-safe-for-you-to-marry-bishop-abioye-advises-women-video/

luminouz:

I'm confused baba...
I'm talking about a man having something he does to make a living,before he gets married... Not lavishing money on his gf so she knows he is capable...seems that is what you are referring to...I never support that.
I'm not saying a man should be stingy or all that but saying women should avoid men who are not financially committed to them as gf is cool to me. Like u said,he may pay the bills now but marry and makes her unhappy or stuffs...so many variables to consider

Nnemuka:

Genevieve is 40 and will likely never settle for a riff raff.
Quit shaming ladies with age, that shit no longer works.

Nwane. je Chuba ego

newsman101:
The Senior Pastor of the Living Faith Church, Bishop David Abioye, has advised women against settling for men with no financial commitment.

While delivering his sermon in his church recently, the clergyman stressed the importance of finances in a relationship. Speaking specifically to single women, the clergyman said


''Any man who doesn't show commitment financially is not safe for you to marry''.

According to him, any woman who settles for a man with no financial commitment will end up being the one paying for the house rent, school fees and other very important things, once they get married.

Watch a video of him speaking below>>>

https://lailasnews.com/any-man-who-doesnt-show-commitment-financially-is-not-safe-for-you-to-marry-bishop-abioye-advises-women-video/

SageMK:


What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally. with all due respect,you are foolish sir...imagine ur sister getting married and you find out she pays all d bills<<<<house rent school fees,,,imagine then come back to rephrase the nonsense you earlier typed as a thinking being that i suppose u are

shogsman:
Archaic mentality,it’s an agreement between two parties mr Pastor you cannot expect one party to provide while the other do nothing,stop putting unnecessary pressure on guys.