Good afternoon Nairalanders,

My girlfriend is planning to commit suicide. She has already threatened me severally that if i leave her she is going to commit suicide. She has told me this exact word countless numbers of times.

I have always plan to leave her because she is a sex freak. She loves sex so much, every single day she want me to have sex with her, am an electrician but ever since i knew this girl i nor dey get work again.

My hand just die, so money nor dey enter my hand again, this girl always want to be with me 24/7 and all the time she always force me to have sex with her even when there is no strength again, when am having sex with her and am cumin she will get angry, nxt word that always come out of her mouth is if i should dare cum she will double the round that we will go to 4 rounds etc...

Am tired and i want her to go but each time i made up my mind fully to leave her she will start crying, kneeling down begging me, the last time she kneeled down for almost 2 hrs straight begging me, i nor get money am just a poor boy, i have a very thin dick, i don't even feel much when having sex with her, i have a small body statue, she is bigger than me and also older than me with 4 year's, she is 29 years old, i don't know what this girl saw in me that she doesn't want to let me go.

Just yesterday evening i ended everything, she begged and begged and begged but i refused, she called me more than 50 time's but i refused to take any of her calls.... She sent me several voice msgs on what'sapp that she is going to take her life if am leaving her for real, but i responded to none, now i haven't heard from her since today, am so scared to go to their place her family doesn't even knw me or haven't seen me before, am so scared right now i haven't heard from her since morning.

the question is if anything happens to her will you be killed or arrested?


the problem here is you don't have SENSE

all these "I can't help this" "why are you treating me like this" is to make you lack sense more

step back and think

You don enter am

Lol. Shun her off totally.

What she can do to herself isn't within your control.
You can't cum and kill yourself to save someone's life.

Besides since she's a nymphomaniac...
The addiction to sex will neutralize her determination to commit suicide that's unless she falls into depression due to withdrawal... but I doubt if she'd ever go celibate.

By the way, don't try to work things out with Bukky MTN.

Emotional blackmail/manipulation. You don’t know that once you have sex with a woman multiple times, she will indefinitely become severely attached to you? It’s a soul tie. You better discard her properly and put her feelings into consideration.

She is a great manipulator, she knows how to twist your head, she won't kill herself, she wants you to continue with her cos of pity, I still do not understand why people beg for love, once a partner is no more into you, move the fvck on.

Your problem is a very simple one.
Kindly upload her picture,if she's ok,i will give you my number to give to her.
After 1month,i'll be the one begging her not to leave because of seex....
Problem solved.
Case closed..

Classic emotional blackmail and she is trying to manipulate you into not leaving her. Don’t waver in your decision, you can suggest/advice her on how to get help if she has suicide thoughts. Know that whatever happens it’s NOT your fault. You are even a gentleman, some guys they ghost you when they want to break up with you, no closure nothing.

Have you told her why you are leaving her? Besides, why save her number with bukkyairtel?

This is why it's good to stay away from pre-marital sex but people will not listen.

QueenSekxy:
Have you told her why you are leaving her? Besides, why save her number with bukkyairtel?

Lol are you for real? what should he have saved it with if she has different numbers?

Only her knows the kind of sweetness she has found in your lollipop.It has entered her brain too much.


I think she is just trying to blackmail you into not leaving her,because for a person like her that loves sex too much I don't think she's willing to cut short that enjoyment by committing suicide when she can easily get another good one out there.

she will be okay las las

Ok

Fountainofyouth:


Lol are you for real? what should he have saved it with if she has different numbers?

Are you among those saving contact name with their occupation?
Especially the ones proclaiming love to You?

Taiwobarrowpusher, Buchi electrician??

Fountainofyouth:



I'm trying to connect @emboldened to the thread, can't see any, you just couldn't help yourself right?

seems you have no idea the level or extent a nymph will go to attain constant sexual gratifications

virgoquin:


seems you have no idea the level or extent a nymph will go to attain constant sexual gratifications

Yeah but he said "women" not "some women".

QueenSekxy:

Are you among those saving contact name with their occupation?
Especially the ones proclaiming love to You?

Taiwobarrowpusher, Buchi electrician??

Lol bukkyairtel may mean her airtel number.

Your girlfriend is a narcissist apart from her being a nymphomaniac (like you painted her).

If she doesn't kill herself like she said she would if you leave, she might come after you. Only you know how violent she can be.

You can ghost her. You can change your phone numbers and change your place of residence alongside.


Your physical, emotional, and mental health is important.

My brother, always pick her calls anytime she call. Tell her to GTFO of your life!!! She’s blackmailing you emotionally. Don’t fall for it!!

That nonchalant would waste no time to dump your black asss if she’s in your position.

Seun:
If this story is true,

Of course it's 100% real, OK see old screenshots msgs below

Lmaooo. Konji things. Just tell her that her sexual needs are abnormal for you and you can’t cope. That she should find someone else or seek mental help. Then block the number abeg.

Seun:

His nympho ex-girlfriend will easily find another guy to have sex with, so he need not feel sorry for her.

Good of you to direct your phrase back to thread.

lilmax:
the question is if anything happens to her will you be killed or arrested?


the problem here is you don't have SENSE

all these "I can't help this" "why are you treating me like this" is to make you lack sense more

step back and think

This is actually the 6th time i have ended this relationship with all seriousness but she always come to my place without calling me if am home or not kneeling, begging and crying... Any single time i calls this relationship off she always do this and i will have so much pity on her, i don't really knw what to do anymore, i for sure and definitely knw that she go dun reach my place today bcus i quick lock door commot for house and my both phones dey airplane mode since morning, i dun tire for this girl, i dun tire.

OP, you shouldn’t have started what you won’t finish. I will advice you to take the break up phase by phase, don’t cut her out at once. While you’ve made up your mind to leave her. Come forward with new terms, give her less attention and be clear with it.

You might think she’s blackmailing you emotional, whereas she’s serious. Please first talk to her about new terms and how you want to plan your life. Don’t forget your decision will directly/indirectly affect a lot of people. Think well o.

Fountainofyouth:



Lol bukkyairtel may mean her airtel number.

Lol. I get. Just joking.

Iceking1:



This is actually the 6th time i have ended this relationship with all seriousness but she always come to my place without calling me if am home or not kneeling, begging and crying... Any single time i calls this relationship off she always do this and i will have so much pity on her, i don't really knw what to do anymore, i for sure and definitely knw that she go dun reach my place today bcus i quick lock door commot for house and my both phones dey airplane mode since morning, i dun tire for this girl, i dun tire.

Have you told her why you are breaking up?

Funny situation. Your village people took time to prepare this lady and bring to your life . What you have written paints a picture of an idle, loser of a woman who is also a nymphomaniac. Yes, she is the type that can commit suicide. If people with less problems commit suicide, how much more her type?
She may not have killed herself for now, cuz she will definitely wait to observe how her life will look like without you. I cant advice you to cut off with her, without relocating or atleast travelling for a while, remember she is obsessed with you. So either you travel for a while or rolocate and dump her. How can a lady manipulate and threaten you over sexual issues? It's all your fault, you should never have condoned such nonscence from the start. She spends almost everyday with you, yet you can't advice her to get a job, you both are lost, and should go get a life.

Iceking1:



This is actually the 6th time i have ended this relationship with all seriousness but she always come to my place without calling me if am home or not kneeling, begging and crying... Any single time i calls this relationship off she always do this and i will have so much pity on her, i don't really knw what to do anymore, i for sure and definitely knw that she go dun reach my place today bcus i quick lock door commot for house and my both phones dey airplane mode since morning, i dun tire for this girl, i dun tire.

see you see problem now


As a man never put a woman's feelings before yours

date a woman because you want to, not because she wants to

knack a woman because you want to knack, not because she use breast touch you first