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Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Aliyutani(m): 1:41pm On Jun 27, 2019
A twitter user with the handle @elharsh took to the platform to narrate how her friend refused to marry her fiance of four years. She however didn't stated the reason why her friend refused to marry him including the list of items he bought for her.

According to her the fiance demands full refund of all he has spent on her which amount to millions of naira

In the tweet, she says

"My friend refused to marry her boyfriend of 4 years. This guy made a list of everything he ever did for her.
He demands that the family pay him 4.2m

Her father said he should take her to Court"

See the tweet here
https://aliyutani..com/2019/06/a-fiance-demands-full-refund-of-all-he.html?m=1

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by aristocratic5(m): 1:43pm On Jun 27, 2019
Chai see gobe

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Nbote(m): 1:45pm On Jun 27, 2019
D mumu no know say he was investing in Bear Bear Bank of no returns..

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by dmltoyin(m): 1:47pm On Jun 27, 2019
That man can't make heaven

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 27, 2019
In as much as I don’t believe the story, the man should be aware that spending money on girlfriends is like bet9ja

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by CosmicPhoenix: 1:54pm On Jun 27, 2019
spending on nigerian ladies is like investing in MMM,you will like it at the begining but at the end you will get a rude awakening

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by IamD18: 2:26pm On Jun 27, 2019
4.2 Million Naira?


>Did she force him to do so?
>Did he spend such amount of money for her on gunpoint?
>Did he spend with agreement to be paid back?
>Did he spend half of such amount of money on any of his siblings?
>Did he meet the lady a virgin?

If the answer to the afore-listed questions is NO!!

Then that man is the most stupid and cretinous fvktard I've ever seen.

If you must spend on a woman. Let that woman be your mum, wife or sibling, not these wayward non-virgins and prostitutes parading as girlfriend.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:29pm On Jun 27, 2019
Was this guy her boyfriend or simply her walking cheque book (at best he was her sugar daddy) yeah? ..see list!!!!!!

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 2:37pm On Jun 27, 2019
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by BlackfireX: 2:41pm On Jun 27, 2019
The family should pay the guy... Ten percent of the money every year.....
And when she marry, the new husband will continue, and if that becomes rigorous, the children of the woman should continue paying, and if the woman dies, the man should go and collect the rest in after life.




Do you ever see someone for the first time, and you feel like you know this person is owing me...


This is the reason

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by CosmicPhoenix: 2:43pm On Jun 27, 2019
fixed smiley

QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with fvcking an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:43pm On Jun 27, 2019
I have never seen an hausa man complain about how much he spent on a lady, it is a thing of pride to them, shows they are real men among their peers.

P.S if you are not hausa or born and bred in the north, do not quote me to say rubbish.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Raydans: 2:44pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.
What is the highest amount that you have spent for a guy that spent his time with you before

If its not up to 4.2m then your opinion about the guy is more hateful than relevant

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by lukui: 2:49pm On Jun 27, 2019
chai this world will have been better if there were no women in it!!

my only advice for this guy is to move on

you want to kill yourself because of pvssy? after you have died, she will give it to another guy to fvck her!!!


you are checking my moniker abiii I pray that God give you a good job !!!!!!!

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:53pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:
It's not a must every relationship will end in marriage.
You spent money and she spent her time being with an immature boy like you. No wonder she dumped your stupid ass. It's obvious you are still a mama's boy.

If the babe demanded for all these gifts, in pretense that they will ultimately get married, then YES marriage is a must, unless she reimburse all what was paid/handed to her (in preparation for such Union)

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:55pm On Jun 27, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
I have never seen an hausa man complain about how much he spent on a lady, it is a thing of pride to them, shows they are real men among their peers.

P.S if you are not hausa or born and bred in the north, do not quote me to say rubbish.

But sista, if that is the case, shouldn't the above babe play her tricks solely on a Hausa man then?

Also, should we all act like Hausas now, to please criminal women who defraud men in pretense of marriage?

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 3:07pm On Jun 27, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


If the babe demanded for all these gifts, in pretense that they will ultimately get married, then YES marriage is a must, unless she reimburse all what was paid/handed to her (in preparation for such Union)
What if she doesn't pay back? He will arrest her

Lmao, did she steal his money or robbed him at gun point? You are joking.
Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 3:08pm On Jun 27, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
fixed smiley

Oh, yes of course. She fully enjoyed herself, that's if he knows how to even do the work.
Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by CosmicPhoenix: 3:11pm On Jun 27, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
I have never seen an hausa man complain about how much he spent on a lady, it is a thing of pride to them, shows they are real men among their peers.

P.S if you are not hausa or born and bred in the north, do not quote me to say rubbish.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 27, 2019
He should first of all demand his brain back from his village people.
Who spends that much on a girl he never paid bride price on? sad

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:12pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:

What if she doesn't pay back? He will arrest her

Lmao, did she steal his money or robbed him at gun point? You are joking.

It's called deceit/fraud and many women have died trying to con the wrong dudes. It ain't worth the risk!

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by CosmicPhoenix: 3:13pm On Jun 27, 2019
you go stingy o

QueenSekxy:

I have never spent shi shi on a guy and will never spend a dime. Even toothbrush, I will never buy For a guy.
Please, go and die. He is a mama's boy, let him weep till death.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Raydans: 3:13pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:

I have never spent shi shi on a guy and will never spend a dime. Even toothbrush, I will never buy For a guy.
Please, go and die. He is a mama's boy, let him weep till death.
You havent spend a dime on a guy before. That solves it all.

How did you arrive at the conclusion that he is a mama's boy. That is illogical. Did you hear his own part of the story or you knew him

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Raydans: 3:14pm On Jun 27, 2019
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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 3:14pm On Jun 27, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


It's called deceit/fraud and many women have died trying to con the wrong dudes. It ain't worth the risk!
Please, lemme hear word. He didn't meet her demands. Apart from money, what else did he bring to the table?

He's not worth spending a life time with. The lady knows what she wants, don't force him down her throat.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 3:16pm On Jun 27, 2019
Raydans:
You havent spend a dime on a guy before. That solves it all.

How did you arrive at the conclusion that he is a mama's boy. That is illogical. Did you hear his own part of the story or you knew him
Please, let him cry for all I care. Her no is her no.
She knows what she wants.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by Obodo999(m): 3:16pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:

I have never spent shi shi on a guy and will never spend a dime. Even toothbrush, I will never buy For a guy.
Please, go and die. He is a mama's boy, let him weep till death.

Your signature of " I found Christ; I found peace" is in conflict with your nature.

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 3:17pm On Jun 27, 2019
CosmicPhoenix:
you go stingy o

No I'm not.
Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by QueenSekxy(f): 3:17pm On Jun 27, 2019
Obodo999:


Your signature of " I found Christ; I found peace" is in conflict with your nature.
Anything else?

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:17pm On Jun 27, 2019
QueenSekxy:

Please, lemme hear word. He didn't meet her demands. Apart from money, what else did he bring to the table?
He's not worth spending a life time with. The lady knows what she wants, don't force him down her throat.

So, with a list that long, you still believe he didn't meet her demands?! Ok no big deal, but then she should bring back the gift/money he spent, and then let her go find the mumu who will meet her demands. Case closed!

Some women were mutilated/disfigured or even killed for less than that

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Re: Man Demands Refund Of N4.2M He Spent On His Girlfriend For Refusing To Marry Him by CosmicPhoenix: 3:18pm On Jun 27, 2019
i find that hard to believe
QueenSekxy:
No I'm not.

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