ValCon888:
Thank you RMD.
This case made me realize many Nigerians lack empathy. The ability to put yourself in the shoes of the abused. Do you know what it means to be raped? To be sexually assaulted by the one person who's supposed to protect you?
Bukola Dakolo is a strong woman to speak up.
In saner societies the police would have promptly started investigations with helplines created to persuade more people to come forward.
For those saying there was consent:
Sleeping with a 17yr old girl is rape even if she says yes. This is because she lacks the legal capacity to give you consent.
Even in the United States, the only way a man 18 and above can sleep with a girl of 17 is if they started dating when he was also underaged. That relationship is protected under the Romeo and Juliet Laws.

Under some instances, a girl under 18 can be married...

Engrjj:
The support Busola is getting so far shows that Biodun is not clean.

But one thing I know is that, whatever your crime is you will surely have some people that will support you so don't be surprise wen people also stand up for Biodun Fatoyinbo.


By the way, what's the meaning of Fatoyinbo?

Obesed Onyibo!�
In other words, Onyibo wey fat.

Engrjj:
The support Busola is getting so far shows that Biodun is not clean.

But one thing I know is that, whatever your crime is you will surely have some people that will support you so don't be surprise wen people also stand up for Biodun Fatoyinbo.


By the way, what's the meaning of Fatoyinbo?

A yoruba name,
It means the oracle is equal to the white man. probably derived from the way the ancestors held the white man in high esteem those days.

ValCon888:
Thank you RMD.
This case made me realize many Nigerians lack empathy. The ability to put yourself in the shoes of the abused. Do you know what it means to be raped? To be sexually assaulted by the one person who's supposed to protect you?
Bukola Dakolo is a strong woman to speak up.
In saner societies the police would have promptly started investigations with helplines created to persuade more people to come forward.
For those saying there was consent:
Sleeping with a 17yr old girl is rape even if she says yes. This is because she lacks the legal capacity to give you consent.
Even in the United States, the only way a man 18 and above can sleep with a girl of 17 is if they started dating when he was also underaged. That relationship is protected under the Romeo and Juliet Laws.

.

Y wait 15 years or so after is the question?

IamD18:
He ended up supporting the accuser indirectly without knowing the real truth.

You have also been supporting the alleged rapist with your comments.

Everyone is reacting to this chemistry.

Uyomeyouyo:


Under some instances, a girl under 18 can be married...

This is not one of those instances.

One swallow does not make a summer, it is risky to basr our judgement on one instance.Who has ever made a case against himself or herself?

Nobody is gonna stand with a known rapist this time.He is all alone in this

Engrjj:
The support Busola is getting so far shows that Biodun is not clean.

But one thing I know is that, whatever your crime is you will surely have some people that will support you so don't be surprise wen people also stand up for Biodun Fatoyinbo.


By the way, what's the meaning of Fatoyinbo?

ValCon888:
Thank you RMD.
This case made me realize many Nigerians lack empathy. The ability to put yourself in the shoes of the abused. Do you know what it means to be raped? To be sexually assaulted by the one person who's supposed to protect you?
Bukola Dakolo is a strong woman to speak up.
In saner societies the police would have promptly started investigations with helplines created to persuade more people to come forward.
For those saying there was consent:
Sleeping with a 17yr old girl is rape even if she says yes. This is because she lacks the legal capacity to give you consent.
Even in the United States, the only way a man 18 and above can sleep with a girl of 17 is if they started dating when he was also underaged. That relationship is protected under the Romeo and Juliet Laws.

You have never been accused falsely. You lack wisdom. Many people are dead for accusations on stories that seem true. Talk of what you have proof of.

Iamgrey5:
This is not one of those instances.

Can the same man rape a girl severally

ValCon888:
Thank you RMD.
This case made me realize many Nigerians lack empathy. The ability to put yourself in the shoes of the abused. Do you know what it means to be raped? To be sexually assaulted by the one person who's supposed to protect you?

How do you know she was abused? How do you know Pastor Fatoyinbo is guilty?

Uyomeyouyo:


Can the same man rape a girl severally

Yes

Apart from the fact that she was 17 which is technically below the age of consent.

She also claimed that the pastor molested and made her to believe it's God's doing.

Dhemmyjay:


A yoruba name,
It means the oracle is equal to the white man. probably derived from the way the ancestors held the white man in high esteem those days.

Wow thanks

IamD18:
He ended up supporting the accuser indirectly without knowing the real truth.

What truth? So in your inner mind, you believe that lady is lying? Come on now, be reasonable for once or is it because she is not your sister or daughter?

ladiesreject:


Baba, shed more light on the bolded please

The pastor says it all the time in his church. Its an open secret. During my days in uniAbuja around 2009, I do attend his church and he says that all the time while preaching. His aim is so his congregation will be seeing him as somewhat of a guy man and a man that knows what's up. He's always bragging about how he set his cousin up when they were in the university and extorted some money from him through his fellow cult members.

Iamgrey5:
Yes

Apart from the fact that she was 17 which is technically below the age of consent.

She also claimed that the pastor molested and made her to believe it's God's doing.

Age of consent is crap!

Did he molest her every time they had sexxx

The charge and bail lawyers advising busila will soon abandon her case...

Birdeyeview:
By the way, what's the meaning of Fatoyinbo?
Lol
fat-oyinbo: fat or chubby white man

Engrjj it means Ifa is on par with the white man.

If it's the case of a woman being the perpetrator, Nigerian men would gather to make noise about how she's wayward and a destroyer of lives. Now it's a man, I'm seeing people bringing up bants like "we need evidence" and "competent court of jurisdiction".

Wait till your daughters and sisters experience the same from these men you're defending and watch us ask you for evidence and to wait for a court of competent jurisdiction.

Regiomontanus:
How do you know she was abused? How do you know Pastor Fatoyinbo is guilty?

How do you know he's not?

Uyomeyouyo:



Age of consent is crap!

Did he molest her every time they had sexxx

Yes.

And age of consent isn't bulshit

The pastor was an adult who was engaged to another lady. Yet, he was molesting a young girl and robing her of her innocence.

He also made the young girl to realise that she was lucky it was a man of God that disvirgined her.

Please don't be insensitive.

Will you wish this was done to your daughter?

Uyomeyouyo:


Can the same man rape a girl severally

For Bleep's sake, yes! Especially a young and impressionable girl!

How long did it take you to stop believing everything an adult says? Now imagine a girl being raped then threatened by the older and more influential rapist. You think she'll say anything after being scared stiff? She knows it's her word against the word of someone with influence. She would not be very likely to be believed.

You see all these cases of men molesting their daughters and even impregnating them and you believe they are true. Now You're hearing this one and suddenly evidence becomes important because he's a pastor.

quickly:
.

Y wait 15 years or so after is the question?

Have you been raped before?

paraltero:


For Bleep's sake, yes! Especially a young and impressionable girl!

How long did it take you to stop believing everything an adult says? Now imagine a girl being raped then threatened by the older and more influential rapist. You think she'll say anything after being scared stiff? She knows it's her word against the word of someone with influence. She would not be very likely to be believed.

You see all these cases of men molesting their daughters and even impregnating them and you believe they are true. Now You're hearing this one and suddenly evidence becomes important because he's a pastor.

The first time may be rape but not subsequently.

A 17 year old is not a baby. When I was 17, I was already in the university - living my life as I saw fit. So were my age mate class mates - male and female...

Engrjj:
The support Busola is getting so far shows that Biodun is not clean.

But one thing I know is that, whatever your crime is you will surely have some people that will support you so don't be surprise wen people also stand up for Biodun Fatoyinbo.


By the way, what's the meaning of Fatoyinbo?

You see the issue of rape story will become meaningful when legislation on seduction can be passed... Trust me, such bill will be attack by most women cuz they know it's their weapon.... Then there will be restrained for false allegations herein...

Iamgrey5:
Yes.

And age of consent isn't bulshit

The pastor was an adult who was engaged to another lady. Yet, he was molesting a young girl and robing her of her innocence.

He also made the young girl to realise that she was lucky it was a man of God that disvirgined her.

Please don't be insensitive.

Will you wish this was done to your daughter?

The first time may have been rape. But not subsequent ones. 17 is not too young. At 17, I was already an undergraduate - making my choices and living my life as I saw fit...

IamD18:
He ended up supporting the accuser indirectly without knowing the real truth.

I held him in high esteem, we're easily triggered in these parts. Think back to Neymar and Kavanaugh.

Going with the crowd doesn't justify the situation.

The socialite or celebrities calling for support are just bed of same feather in the same industry. She is one of them, so one can understand the level of support she received on the rape story.

Uyomeyouyo:


The first time may have been rape. But not subsequent ones. 17 is not too young. At 17, I was already an undergraduate - making my choices and living my life as I saw fit...

lucky you bruv.

Nonetheless, you tell from her story that was still naïve and under her parents when she was still 17.

Hence, you cannot judge her based on your own remarkable story.

You know what a trash talk is..?
This is example of one.

Iamgrey5:
lucky you bruv.

Nonetheless, you tell from her story that was still naïve and under her parents when she was still 17.

Hence, you cannot judge her based on your own remarkable story.

I was still under my parents. Aristo babes at the time were still under their parents. We all went home every weekend...

My point is, being raped severally by the same person is almost impossible. What happened to running away from the fellow on mere sighting him What brought the 2 of you to the point where he could 'rape' you again