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Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Richy4(m): 12:43pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
This is one of the funniest thread/ debate I have ever seen here in family section.. U guys are doing really OK up there.. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by nuelyoyo(m): 12:45pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:very true |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by babyfaceafrica: 12:48pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
drmikeadams:I agree |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by babyfaceafrica: 12:50pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:can you blame them?..poverty in Nigeria can make a sane man insane |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:Yea I understand. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Richy4:lol,seems like you are married? Do ask for her opinion while brainstorming? Do you think she deserves the lifestlye she's living? |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by cococandy(f): 1:50pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
You don’t want equality yet you want to be loved and submitted to for nothing? Can’t eat your cake and have it. If you want a subordinate wife like most of you do, you have to something to ensure that it stays that way. Transactional. 6 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by pocohantas(f): 1:56pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
What will I be doing with man that can't provide? You will not be submissive. You can't wash plate. If I tell you to cook ordinary food for the family to eat and be merry, you will say I am trying to emasculate you. You can't even go to my family house to help my parents wash small cloth. You can't reproduce. Only to carry big prick upandan, forming head of the house. Judge yourself, can you marry yourself if they clone you in a female form? Nothing concern me and man wey no fit provide. Such a man should be the prototype for uselessness. Nonsense 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas:I don't have a problem with providing,thank God for his grace,I was only asking men how they deal with the thought that they would be loved by how well they can provide 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
cococandy:lol,calm down,if we are to split bills 50/50,how many women can cope? How many women can pay 4 million naira school fees per year?I am only asking men how they deal with the thought of been loved by how well they can provide. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by cococandy(f): 2:07pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Many women pay all the bills and many split with spouses 50/50 if not a higher percentage coming from the woman. That you don’t know this simple fact, means I can’t even debate with you. Tallhero: 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:55pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: Why are you always quick to preach submissiveNess? What do you mean by "love is not a woman's forte"? We arent able to love or what exactly? Though most of your comment has some truth, you didn't have to be boastful of a personal experience some men prefer when a lady ask them for things instead of not asking at all, it demeans them. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:59pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Tallhero: You just want to overthink yourself for nothing, if you think she is with you for what you have, know that there are men who have much more than you, and if her eye is only for money, she will Japa when a higher bidder comes along, better appreciate what you have and think positive always. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 3:18pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Sharap there, lol. So stating the obvious - recognizing virtuousness of the women I have known - is now a boastful act ni! Well, I always preach submissiveness for women and love for men - difference remains in nomenclature and application - because nature made both genders differently. As a man, I know that I can go all the way to get my woman the best of anything out there without minding whether it will cost me my life or means of livelihood, but I can't expect same from my woman not because she's bad but because she's not naturally made in same manner. Neither love nor submissiveness is a sign of weakness and none is superior to each other. Happy Sunday before I send you e-slap. 15 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by pocohantas(f): 3:19pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Tallhero: What else do they want to be loved for? What else can they do/give? Even to be faithful sef na wahala for some. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 3:20pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
@Pocohantas I sight you. I hope the Sunday is going on well. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas: We give you that big black prick and we do it well na. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by pocohantas(f): 3:37pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
ornicus: Who said you guys do it well? How many of una done give woman orgasm by penetration? Una go just dey knack person pikin like say you wan scatter her bottom plate. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by pocohantas(f): 3:38pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: Hello, I sight you too. Sunday is going well. Hope say this rain reach you side. Weather to think of the homeless |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas:Character Trust Humility Intelligence Great listener |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas: You mean to say. . . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_lEs4FYkhs You've been faking it |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
pocohantas: I no see rain where I de now but I fit see am in the next few hours because I go move out from here before the next 10 hours. You fit make am rain right away for me, at least that's part of de things I know say you have the ability to do on a very good day. lol. Anụrụ m na ị dị mma na-esi nri ofe achara. M ga-abia iri nke m n'oge na-adịghị anya. You've made me to remember someone that way. lol. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by doitforyou(f): 4:12pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: lol this is generalization. There are many many women on this earth that love AND submit to their men unconditionally, there are some women that love their men unconditionally without the need for submission and their men are okay with that too. Your personal preference/opinions and anecdotes about women in your bubble does not represent ALL women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by emmaodet: 4:16pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
ikbnice: Lol, so na man dem wire genetically to suffer ba? Ok i hear u. Don't know were this mentality is from sha say mak me com dis life com suffer 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 4:19pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
[quote author=doitforyou post=80032833] It's obvious you didn't understand my submission literally. Like I said before, submissiveness is a variant of love and both of them breed goodness. Love can never be a woman's forte. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by doitforyou(f): 4:20pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
You men here on Nairaland always go for the shallow/materialistic types because you guys think they are more aesthetically pleasing, when they show you who they are or you lack the financial means to keep up, you guys lump ALL women in your bashing. OP, if you don't want a 'shallow' mate there are many down to earth Nigerian women of substance that you can choose from. However, will you go for them? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:21pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: If only I can see the mouth you're using to say sharap to me, you can only e-say it here lol, The boastfulNess again, what has virtuousness got to do with her personality lol, you are funny That your second paragraph made it seem like women are weak and vulnerable don't try to sugarcoat your words Happy Sunday to you too yeye 1 Like |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:26pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
LordKO: So you're Igbo, no wonder you love submissiveness lol. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by emmaodet: 4:26pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: You are very good. I like your response |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by LordKO(m): 4:32pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: Believe you me, I know you reach your house. Meanwhile, the submissiveness I know isn't the same most people know and practice - I know the difference between submissiveness and servility - and I use it in the context of a compound word rather than a single word. Stop seeing it from its formal meaning. |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by lilmax(m): 4:36pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
women who have money do not want men without money its everywhere, a woman cannot take care of a man no matter how she tries 3 Likes |
Re: Men Are Loved On The Basis Of How Well They Can Provide. by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jul 07, 2019 |
doitforyou:I personally don't go for the flashy girls,I was asking the men how they got married with the thought that they are loved by how well they can provide,because it's actually delaying me from settling down,or do I just accept the fact that I would be loved because of how well I can provide |
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