Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

YOU'RE A PLAYER EMBRACE IT

Junkie1:
YOU'RE A PLAYER EMBRACE IT

I don't think so..

RiyadhGoddess:
Your Spirit wife is the reason Read my SIGnature

Hmm

pray about it. All I can say is not normal.

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u jst hav standards wen it comes to girls, wen u find d one to ur standard u wont b tiredd. i hav same issue somtym.
just get laid

I used to be that way when I was in teenage and early twenties..

It's like that because your mind is set to explore different variety of girls of which most of them aren't really your type of girl..

That your exploration mind will go to rest and let your head handle the kind of girl you will be drawn to when you are close to thirty or early thirties..

So chill it's just your subconscious mind telling you you aren't ready yet for a relationship..

It's not always like that for everyone though..

JudasNaCarrot:
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I pray for your soul

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

You're still young. You are immature and dont know how to manage your feelings.

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

You're still young. You are immature and dont know how to manage your feelings.

I used to be like this.

u need to sit down and draft out what u really want in a lady

clive2u:
u jst hav standards wen it comes to girls, wen u find d one to ur standard u wont b tiredd. i hav same issue somtym.
just get laid

truth..listen OP

obowunmi:


You're still young. You are immature and dont know how to manage your feelings.

I used to be like this.

Is that your own way of giving an advise?.. We have seen who is more immature here.. Thanks anyway

Samyj247:
truth..listen OP

I'm feeling the nigga

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

The word is COMMITMENT ....you are not emotionally ready

That's almost normal

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I also use to experience it those days. It's either, you just have standard when it's comes to girls or you are not emotionally ready

This shít happened to me too!!

There was this beautiful girl boluwatife whom i really love then, I use to think about her all day, I tried to get her attention but i couldn't, but one day she was with her friends singing,, i was a very playful guy back then, so i just ran into their midst and sang along with them


I don't know what happened, she was so surprised, immediately she started talking to me, i asked her why she was surprised, she said she never believe i have a very unique and beautiful voice

Maybe that got her attracted to me, since then she start coming to see me everyday, telling me to sing for her and giving me her whole attention


But BOoom!! i don't know what happened to me, i just began to dislike her the moment she starts to give me her attention!!

I started giving her attitude, after few days she noticed that I'm acting weird, and she stopped talking to me, but the moment she stops talking to me, i immediately start liking her back

But it was too late already, she's now so beautiful now!!
Every time I see her picture on facebook , i just curse myself

Bro you're not alone on this,, I'm currently experiencing this shiii

You seems to have created a high expectation of ladies, but as you get closer to them, you realize they don't meet that expectation. Guys with low self esteem usually experience that.

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Enosa1:
You seems to have created a high expectation of ladies, but as you get closer to them, you realize they don't meet that expectation. Guys with low self esteem usually experience that.

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Oga it ha nothing to do with low self esteem

FreshGuy2:
Oga it ha nothing to do with low self esteem

Op case may not be that of low self esteem, but guys with low self esteem experience that alot. They idolize ladies in their mind and feel so unworthy of her. When they finally sum up courage to woo her and she accept and get attracted to them, it just dawn on them that she aren't really worth all the stress they went through to get her (i.e she's not really the ANGEL they've created in their head).

This knowledge make them to start losing interest in the lady. That's why I advice ladies to run from guys that's willing to worship the ground they step on.

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same here..I need help please

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the ladylossrt giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

... If u continue like this u won't marry or better still lose ur life partner

You dey reason the money you go start spending

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

If at this stage you don't want to appreciate the nature way of allowing a woman to care and show love to you,

You might end up being a gay

No one can care or love you like a woman, so if you don't want it get a man

Enosa1:
Op case may not be that of low self esteem, but guys with low self esteem experience that alot. They idolize ladies in their mind and feel so unworthy of her. When they finally sum up courage to woo her and she accept and get attracted to them, it just dawn on them that she aren't really worth all the stress they went through to get her (i.e she's not really the ANGEL they've created in their head).

This knowledge make them to start losing interest in the lady. That's why I advice ladies to run from guys that's willing to worship the ground they step on.

Anyway, everyone deserve to have an experience of constant power supply, contact SolarDuke today

you actually make a solid point

osemoses69:
You dey reason the money you go start spending

#Funny.

Enosa1:
Op case may not be that of low self esteem, but guys with low self esteem experience that alot. They idolize ladies in their mind and feel so unworthy of her. When they finally sum up courage to woo her and she accept and get attracted to them, it just dawn on them that she aren't really worth all the stress they went through to get her (i.e she's not really the ANGEL they've created in their head).

This knowledge make them to start losing interest in the lady. That's why I advice ladies to run from guys that's willing to worship the ground they step on.

Anyway, everyone deserve to have an experience of constant power supply, contact SolarDuke today

u mean superiority complex